No doubt on this one.

I third that

I hear ya,Lex.Thx!4 the advice.I won't initiate any furthor as to avoid that discomfort.Take care my friend
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Thx!4 ur response also S-D.Welcome 2 JSH sweetheart.There are some fine people here though & I promise U that U will make some very good friends here.Enjoy the site K.Godspeed!Cy (((bear!hug)))

I'm bothered by people who do not read my profile and send e-mails in a chatty instant messaging sort of way. I put all the meat and potatoes stuff in the first section of my profile, and some of it in all caps... but it's still not read.

I also get sort of peeved at people who place me on their favorites or send friend requests and I've never heard from them and never do. After anywhere from a week to a month I delete them from my friends list, and I automatically delete them from my favorites once I see it. How can I be a favorite if they don't know me?

if they say something dodgy

I'm happy to say most women read profiles

So you don't get mails that read like this.."Hey Peccy.. I like your sunglasses". ???

Oh I have, but they still reference something in my profile!

It makes me crazy when guys outside my settings range...usually age wise) sent me notes in friend requests. I hate ignoring them there, but if I write them the friendly rejection I'd like to, they can start e-mailing their protests freely...found that out the hard way.

If anyone reading this has sent me a friends request, I'll address it right now...you are probably too young for me, and in all fairness, I just don't see it happening. I am sorry and don't mean to be rude, but your time is better spent on someone more open to dating younger men. I'm flattered...and wish you the best.

Cy, you're from Fall River?

That's where I moved to from Providence for 9 years before I moved back to providence ^^

I agree.

And some people email me with just a "whats up"

What a general question! It's so hard to answer. When I email someone I try to mention why I've emailed them, mention something about their profile, etc.

I ignore those people if they have nothing to say after I say "Nothing really, just tired and bored, how are you?" or something besides "All right" or "good"

My biggest thing is right now is the comments about my hair. It's getting real old. This month has been the worse as far as that goes so they will ask for a friends request. I even had a few that asked for a friends request because they thought id look good on there profile

Negative "religiuos" preaching, or 19 year olds thinking they can "show me a good time on bed." Pluzee.

Exactly. I hate when people email you two words as if they're speaking to you directly. It's annoying.

As for the friends thing, I've had a couple people I've never spoken to do that and then just not talk to me. I get the impression that they just want to have a lot of people on their friends list. I don't accept their friend requests.

Nope.... I'll get a generic...."Hi there. Like your smile." That is IT!!! Or once I got nothing but emoticons.... and the follow up to my response, which was "?" was "wanna have sex?".

E-mails that are tlike the one I got yesterday, and I quote

"Do you have a nice pu$$y I can lick"

Do you think they have much luck with that...I mean do you know anyone who's here to find fast bed mates?

Elsa ~ I can say I do this, the chatty talk/type, with people on the site with whom I'm friends... but not with strangers. I do reply to 99% of my e-mails too, so it can get rather irritating. Agree with friends request thing.

hey you still talk to me mikey..

I'm not sure... luckily the guy was from England and I'm in the USA. I was half-tempted to say "Only if you can be here by 9:30".

What I did say was "only with my BF, but thanks so much for asking. It's nice to see you are concerned about my sexual health".

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