Topic: Maybe it's me, but why limit yourself | |
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to a certain amount of miles within you're area? I've seen profiles of people that I actually wouldn't mind writing to, but it never fails they are looking for someone in their area.
Not to cry about it or anything (scuse' me while I grab a tissue) but doesn't reducing the number of miles hinder you slightly when looking? Just food for thought. |
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Id prefer someone that doesnt live on the other side of the country Or in another country
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Preference, it's all about preference. To each their own..
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I never have that problem, cause I just move to their area, and stalk them.
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to a certain amount of miles within you're area? I've seen profiles of people that I actually wouldn't mind writing to, but it never fails they are looking for someone in their area. Not to cry about it or anything (scuse' me while I grab a tissue) but doesn't reducing the number of miles hinder you slightly when looking? Just food for thought. If I'm going to be ignored, I'd rather be ignored by someone nearby; that way I can sort of rationalize it. |
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to a certain amount of miles within you're area? I've seen profiles of people that I actually wouldn't mind writing to, but it never fails they are looking for someone in their area. Not to cry about it or anything (scuse' me while I grab a tissue) but doesn't reducing the number of miles hinder you slightly when looking? Just food for thought. Not if in your area is all you would be able to handle. Some people know their limitations. They are literal and figurative. LDR's are hard. Hard, I tell ya! |
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If I'm going to be ignored, I'd rather be ignored by someone nearby; that way I can sort of rationalize it. How do you get ignored? I can't see that happening... |
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Im looking for friends so location does not matter to me seeing that I'm going to Korea in 6 months....
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I never have that problem, cause I just move to their area, and stalk them. Do you want to stalk Lexy with me? I need a partner and Eileen just got engaged...do you like Pepsi? |
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Edited by
MirrorMirror
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Tue 03/18/08 09:55 AM
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to a certain amount of miles within you're area? I've seen profiles of people that I actually wouldn't mind writing to, but it never fails they are looking for someone in their area. Not to cry about it or anything (scuse' me while I grab a tissue) but doesn't reducing the number of miles hinder you slightly when looking? Just food for thought. Not if in your area is all you would be able to handle. Some people know their limitations. They are literal and figurative. LDR's are hard. Hard, I tell ya! |
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If I'm going to be ignored, I'd rather be ignored by someone nearby; that way I can sort of rationalize it. How do you get ignored? I can't see that happening... I know, it amazes the heck out of me too, but what can you do....?? |
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I never have that problem, cause I just move to their area, and stalk them. Do you want to stalk Lexy with me? I need a partner and Eileen just got engaged...do you like Pepsi? Only if you convince me he doesn't own guns and also has a hatred for stalkers. And pepsi is alright. |
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to a certain amount of miles within you're area? I've seen profiles of people that I actually wouldn't mind writing to, but it never fails they are looking for someone in their area. Not to cry about it or anything (scuse' me while I grab a tissue) but doesn't reducing the number of miles hinder you slightly when looking? Just food for thought. Not if in your area is all you would be able to handle. Some people know their limitations. They are literal and figurative. LDR's are hard. Hard, I tell ya! You'll always have yourself Mirror. |
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i don't limit myself to just local people. I have quite a few friends on here that I talk to...
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to a certain amount of miles within you're area? I've seen profiles of people that I actually wouldn't mind writing to, but it never fails they are looking for someone in their area. Not to cry about it or anything (scuse' me while I grab a tissue) but doesn't reducing the number of miles hinder you slightly when looking? Just food for thought. Not if in your area is all you would be able to handle. Some people know their limitations. They are literal and figurative. LDR's are hard. Hard, I tell ya! You make me want to it reminds me, that I too need someone I can touch and should think realistically of my choices (then again, we can't always control such chemistry) |
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It's hard to take a potential relationship to the next level if desired, when there is alot of distance between you. Once you do take that step, LDR are extremely difficult. Some people just don't have the mind-set to operate that way. Relationships need nurturing, and that includes spending a reasonable amount of face time together.
There are many lonely moments to endure if the person is very far away...like another state. At some point, one of the two parties will need to move or the relationship may stagnate. |
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Like lilith said, Long distance relationships are hard and in my own experience its just easier to have someone close by.
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nEW invention!!! Trains, planes and automobiles!!
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I never have that problem, cause I just move to their area, and stalk them. very true, he really does |
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I think it all depends on personal circumstances.. I like to travel...
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