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Topic: Maybe it's me, but why limit yourself
Peccy's photo
Tue 03/18/08 09:48 AM
to a certain amount of miles within you're area? I've seen profiles of people that I actually wouldn't mind writing to, but it never fails they are looking for someone in their area.

Not to cry about it or anything (scuse' me while I grab a tissue) but doesn't reducing the number of miles hinder you slightly when looking?

Just food for thought.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 03/18/08 09:49 AM
flowerforyou Id prefer someone that doesnt live on the other side of the countryflowerforyou Or in another countrylaugh

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 03/18/08 09:50 AM
Preference, it's all about preference. To each their own..

Gumbyvs's photo
Tue 03/18/08 09:52 AM
I never have that problem, cause I just move to their area, and stalk them.

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Tue 03/18/08 09:52 AM

to a certain amount of miles within you're area? I've seen profiles of people that I actually wouldn't mind writing to, but it never fails they are looking for someone in their area.

Not to cry about it or anything (scuse' me while I grab a tissue) but doesn't reducing the number of miles hinder you slightly when looking?

Just food for thought.


If I'm going to be ignored, I'd rather be ignored by someone nearby; that way I can sort of rationalize it.


lilith401's photo
Tue 03/18/08 09:52 AM

to a certain amount of miles within you're area? I've seen profiles of people that I actually wouldn't mind writing to, but it never fails they are looking for someone in their area.

Not to cry about it or anything (scuse' me while I grab a tissue) but doesn't reducing the number of miles hinder you slightly when looking?

Just food for thought.


Not if in your area is all you would be able to handle. Some people know their limitations. They are literal and figurative. LDR's are hard. Hard, I tell ya!

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/18/08 09:53 AM

If I'm going to be ignored, I'd rather be ignored by someone nearby; that way I can sort of rationalize it.


How do you get ignored? I can't see that happening... noway

Danette_Giavanna's photo
Tue 03/18/08 09:53 AM
Im looking for friends so location does not matter to me seeing that I'm going to Korea in 6 months....

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/18/08 09:54 AM

I never have that problem, cause I just move to their area, and stalk them.


Do you want to stalk Lexy with me? I need a partner and Eileen just got engaged...do you like Pepsi?

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 03/18/08 09:54 AM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Tue 03/18/08 09:55 AM


to a certain amount of miles within you're area? I've seen profiles of people that I actually wouldn't mind writing to, but it never fails they are looking for someone in their area.

Not to cry about it or anything (scuse' me while I grab a tissue) but doesn't reducing the number of miles hinder you slightly when looking?

Just food for thought.


Not if in your area is all you would be able to handle. Some people know their limitations. They are literal and figurative. LDR's are hard. Hard, I tell ya!
flowerforyou Theres a place for long distance relationships for certain people.flowerforyou However, I need someone that I can touch.flowerforyou

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Tue 03/18/08 09:54 AM


If I'm going to be ignored, I'd rather be ignored by someone nearby; that way I can sort of rationalize it.


How do you get ignored? I can't see that happening... noway


I know, it amazes the heck out of me too, but what can you do....??


Gumbyvs's photo
Tue 03/18/08 09:56 AM


I never have that problem, cause I just move to their area, and stalk them.


Do you want to stalk Lexy with me? I need a partner and Eileen just got engaged...do you like Pepsi?


Only if you convince me he doesn't own guns and also has a hatred for stalkers. And pepsi is alright.

Gumbyvs's photo
Tue 03/18/08 09:56 AM



to a certain amount of miles within you're area? I've seen profiles of people that I actually wouldn't mind writing to, but it never fails they are looking for someone in their area.

Not to cry about it or anything (scuse' me while I grab a tissue) but doesn't reducing the number of miles hinder you slightly when looking?

Just food for thought.


Not if in your area is all you would be able to handle. Some people know their limitations. They are literal and figurative. LDR's are hard. Hard, I tell ya!
flowerforyou Theres a place for long distance relationships for certain people.flowerforyou However, I need someone that I can touch.flowerforyou


You'll always have yourself Mirror.

smilingeyes_976's photo
Tue 03/18/08 09:57 AM
i don't limit myself to just local people. I have quite a few friends on here that I talk to...

PragmaticMind's photo
Tue 03/18/08 09:58 AM



to a certain amount of miles within you're area? I've seen profiles of people that I actually wouldn't mind writing to, but it never fails they are looking for someone in their area.

Not to cry about it or anything (scuse' me while I grab a tissue) but doesn't reducing the number of miles hinder you slightly when looking?

Just food for thought.


Not if in your area is all you would be able to handle. Some people know their limitations. They are literal and figurative. LDR's are hard. Hard, I tell ya!
flowerforyou Theres a place for long distance relationships for certain people.flowerforyou However, I need someone that I can touch.flowerforyou


You make me want to sad it reminds me, that I too need someone I can touch and should think realistically of my choices (then again, we can't always control such chemistry) blushing sad :wink: :cry:

texasrose9's photo
Tue 03/18/08 09:58 AM
It's hard to take a potential relationship to the next level if desired, when there is alot of distance between you. Once you do take that step, LDR are extremely difficult. Some people just don't have the mind-set to operate that way. Relationships need nurturing, and that includes spending a reasonable amount of face time together.
There are many lonely moments to endure if the person is very far away...like another state. At some point, one of the two parties will need to move or the relationship may stagnate.

BrittneyC87's photo
Tue 03/18/08 09:58 AM
Like lilith said, Long distance relationships are hard and in my own experience its just easier to have someone close by.

no photo
Tue 03/18/08 09:59 AM
nEW invention!!! Trains, planes and automobiles!!:wink:

rozey2680's photo
Tue 03/18/08 10:00 AM

I never have that problem, cause I just move to their area, and stalk them.


very true, he really doesnoway laugh

me2g's photo
Tue 03/18/08 10:00 AM
I think it all depends on personal circumstances.. I like to travel...laugh

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