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 boy oh boy i can,t believe i still love him after last night. sit down if you got a few. we went drinking last night my old man and me. when we got into the car and left. he informed me, i was attacking like a whore. a slapped him because i felt so disrespected. wrong move on my part got punched in the head 3 times dragged out of car hit 2 more times in face i rolled over to keep from getting hit in face agein.then i was punched in the ear and then my head was lifted and slamed into a rock. needed 6 surtures. he then stole money and car and left me bleeding in the booneys had to walk god only knows. till i found the cops. where are they when you need them.so why do i still love him? he doesnt love me, so why am i am i not wanting to press charges? any advice
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sounds like battered woman syndrome...get outta there..press charges...be strong...it's NOT ok for anyone to do that...
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Abuse is something that should not be tolerated, no matter how much you love him. get out of that relationship.
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i am staying with mother but havent signed warrant yet
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him using you for a punching bag. that guy is useless and you deserve better. he not worth having around,
 
i dated a guy along time ago for a week, and he was abusive, he accused me on cheating and such, and i didnt, to find out he had restraining order on him by a ex gf that i eventually tracked down and found out that he abused her, and cheated on her, with someone that he got into drugs and he hit her a number of times, the first time she didnt press charges, the 2nd time the hospitol pressed charges as he hit her with a tir iron, luckly i got out before it got out of hand, even though he did hit me, but that was it... BUT NOO!! LADY SHOULD BE HIT!!!!! |
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Because you are afraid and beaten down. Get up and set this ball rolling. Teach him a lesson and learn one in return.
There is never ever EVER!!! Any reason good enough to act that way towards another person. He doesn't love you. Love doesn't act like that. This will not stop here. Be assued it WILL happen again. Sounds to me he may kill you next time. Or...the next time.Sounds like he was out of control. Too many women are dead because they thought that they loved someone like that. File a report damnit! Take pictures. Use your head for something besides his punching bag. Kat 
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first time shame on him...second time shame on you...there is no excuse to stay in a violent relationship...there is no love when you lay hands on each other period......
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dump his ass and file charges. He will continue this patern until he really messes you or someone else up real bad. you deserve better and there are guys out there that will treat you as you should be treated. Maybe seek a womans help group and gain some support. Wish you luck and strength.
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Also...I thought with all the dead abused...that it was a law that the state picked up the charges. They do here. We do not have to do anything. The cops file the report and the state and DA picks up the charges.
Kat |
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boy oh boy i can,t believe i still love him after last night. sit down if you got a few. we went drinking last night my old man and me. when we got into the car and left. he informed me, i was attacking like a whore. a slapped him because i felt so disrespected. wrong move on my part got punched in the head 3 times dragged out of car hit 2 more times in face i rolled over to keep from getting hit in face agein.then i was punched in the ear and then my head was lifted and slamed into a rock. needed 6 surtures. he then stole money and car and left me bleeding in the booneys had to walk god only knows. till i found the cops. where are they when you need them.so why do i still love him? he doesnt love me, so why am i am i not wanting to press charges? any advice
You have two choices... LEAVE or DIE |
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boy oh boy i can,t believe i still love him after last night. sit down if you got a few. we went drinking last night my old man and me. when we got into the car and left. he informed me, i was attacking like a whore. a slapped him because i felt so disrespected. wrong move on my part got punched in the head 3 times dragged out of car hit 2 more times in face i rolled over to keep from getting hit in face agein.then i was punched in the ear and then my head was lifted and slamed into a rock. needed 6 surtures. he then stole money and car and left me bleeding in the booneys had to walk god only knows. till i found the cops. where are they when you need them.so why do i still love him? he doesnt love me, so why am i am i not wanting to press charges? any advice
Hun, get your **** and run, my mother went through that, and it was me who had to intervene. If a guy is pulling ridiculous **** like that you need to understand that it's not likely it will change. I hope your okay and no more issues arise. Keep in touch, this subject in particular really gets me going, and I'm here to help if you need it. There a plenty of services out there to help you through this, especially in this day and age. If you need anyone to talk to about it feel free to email me and I'll do whatever I can to help. Good Luck and Be Safe. 
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boy oh boy i can,t believe i still love him after last night. sit down if you got a few. we went drinking last night my old man and me. when we got into the car and left. he informed me, i was attacking like a whore. a slapped him because i felt so disrespected. wrong move on my part got punched in the head 3 times dragged out of car hit 2 more times in face i rolled over to keep from getting hit in face agein.then i was punched in the ear and then my head was lifted and slamed into a rock. needed 6 surtures. he then stole money and car and left me bleeding in the booneys had to walk god only knows. till i found the cops. where are they when you need them.so why do i still love him? he doesnt love me, so why am i am i not wanting to press charges? any advice
get the hell outta ther and do it now. i saw my mother be beat for most of my life. its hard and scary, but get the **** out before some bad **** goes down.....im begging you to get the **** out NOW! |
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Sign the warrant and don't look back!! You are only 22 and have a lot of life to look forward to...I have been where you are and fortunately got out with my life..but barely...
NO ONE DESERVES ABUSE!! |
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damn lady. If you do not press charges it's not because you love him.
It's not a matter of him respecting you. It's a matter of you respecting yourself. Please you need press charges, and stay the heck away from him. That is the sane thing to do. |
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Besides the fact that hitting a woman is wrong, I enjoy peeing standing up way too much to even consider hitting a woman. You have to sleep sometime!
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... BUT NOO!! LADY SHOULD BE HIT!!!!! You slapped him? What did you think he was going to do? Laugh? I do not think men should ever lay a finger in violence on a woman. period. However, I feel the same way about women hitting men. No excuse to do it. I figure that whomever strikes first is the one at fault, no matter what the circumstances. Dump his butt and find someone who will treat you with the respect you feel you deserve, and not infuriate you enough that you get physical with them. jmao |
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If you don't change something, you are going to end up in the morgue.
So... Get out... Walk away... Get help... Press charges.... Do it for you. |
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If a man does that to a woman he should never be allowed to get
away with it,it probably was'nt the first time and it won't be the last! Even if you leave him but do nothing about it he will do it to someone else in the future 
Either way, get the h*ll away sweetheart, you don't need him. |
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I always have a problem believing a blue box
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