leave the kid alone sweets, aaaaahhhhh.... to be young again..... **sigh**

I don't need to be married..I just wanna be. (((((((((((((((((Izzie)))))))))))))))))My Friend!

That is an idiotic topic. You need one to have the other. Otherwise, everybody will be boinking everybody else without thinking about it. If we were wired that way, we'd already be doing it.

lol ya i got school tommorrow

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Without either no one could complain...complain about the one they re in or complain about the one they are not in...

Ah sh!t, everybody else isn't doin that??? I guess I'd better start thinking rather than using my head!

"Why do we need relationship or marriage in this world?"

Because that's what they want us to believe.

we just want someone else to help pay the bills

lol

At this point in life I highly have doubts that I'll find any one or body. So rather or not I am in a relationship or get married is going to probably be a long long long wait to find out, but I am guessing I'll just be single for ever, I don't talk much to woman online as they don't speak to me or respond back to a hi, so whatever happens happens. I am no longer gonna worry about it. Bottom line if I find that great woman great, if not oh well shi$ happens and life goes on then we die.

some of us crave that higher bond that only a one-on-one relationship can give. with multiple partners or no commitment, that closeness and bond is lacking. personally prefer 1 person to many and therefore chose marriage. If had a choice between all the guys on earth and as many of them as I wanted... I would still choose my hubby and only my hubby. Yeah it sounds cheesy... but it's the truth. I'd rather be with the one guy who really knows me than with a bunch that aren't really interested in anything more than sex. Just my opinion.

***ALSO, AND MORE IMPORTANTLY... from a health/medical point: if everyone chose 1 partner as opposed to many, it would cut down on STD's and such a great deal... and probably cut down on the number of unwanted pregnancies and abortions.

To sanctify a relationship and blah, blah, blah. Really it is unecessary if love is truly present...I find no use for it anyway.

Its human nature to want to procreate and be with another. Without human contact the soul will die. It has been proven in babies in russian orphanages. Human contact, whether it be a touch, a word, a relationship is needed for all humans to survive.

We don't. I say down with marriage! If you are single, stay that way, if you are married and unhappy, get a divorce.

You'll be much happier. Really.

When it comes to why humans need relationship or marrige, society believe in one answer, Alone. Our society has done everything in it's power to show that we can not live alone. That we need someone in our lives to complete us. I my opinion, I believe in relationship and marriage because of two things. Love and complement. Our world is so hung up on sex, one night stands, parting, that we lose the fact and pleasure of attraction and love.

I believe in love at first sight. I believe in loving my best friend for the rest of my life. I pray that I will be able to find that special person to live my life with. However, I will not become hung up on what society says. I am able to live my life alone if that is what God wishes.

I just hope that there maybe someone out there who agrees with me.

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poop

We dont have to have a relationship or marriage if we
dont want. Its a free world... we can chose to have them if we
want. No one twists our arm to make us have one...
Its a personal choice.

(well some countrys maybe do some twisting)

if you have to ask, then its not for you.

personally, it just feels good. I can meet strangers for conversations whenever I want, even here, but to have someone who actually remembers what I say, and actually cares, and then asks me how those issues are doing... is nice.

No one NEEEDS it... but they CHOOSE it.

Big difference, and often the recipe for success.