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Topic: Would you feel comfortable
Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sun 03/02/08 04:14 PM
You have balls to even come out saying this. Nope I wouldn't because they have a long ways to grow. 6 months is nothing to a life time.... Balls are needed to pose a question? What will we tell the womenfolk? I asume this is what you went through? In all reality, that person is not ready to love anyone and that is because they haven't learn how to love them self. no shadow, ask anyone, they will tell you about my absurd hypothetical posts dude.....lol

Tob77 Joined Sun 11/11/07 Posts: 236	Sun 03/02/08 04:15 PM
<<<dated a suicidal girl once....and she had scars going up her wrist and it freaked me out,and she told me she tried to hang her self but her parents found her in time.

TwilightsTwin Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 11054	Sun 03/02/08 04:15 PM
Depends on their stabilty. It wouldnt make me say "Yes" or "No". I would want to get to know the person, see whats going on, ...but Im always trying to save the world & help.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Sun 03/02/08 04:16 PM
You have balls to even come out saying this. Nope I wouldn't because they have a long ways to grow. 6 months is nothing to a life time.... Balls are needed to pose a question? What will we tell the womenfolk? I asume this is what you went through? In all reality, that person is not ready to love anyone and that is because they haven't learn how to love them self. no shadow, ask anyone, they will tell you about my absurd hypothetical posts dude.....lol Whoops. I wasn't paying attention to your name I know

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sun 03/02/08 04:18 PM
Depends on their stabilty. It wouldnt make me say "Yes" or "No". I would want to get to know the person, see whats going on, ...but Im always trying to save the world & help. Do you hug trees?

Poetrywriter Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 22675	Sun 03/02/08 04:20 PM
I would never exclude a suicide attempt woman from my list of dating possibles. Hell, they need love too. If I cared enough about the woman to want to date her, I would care enough about her to find out what drove her to attempt the suicide and want to help her get over it!

rose822 Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 2	Sun 03/02/08 04:21 PM
i would , i would start out as frends that way i can help out with what going on and then go from there

brian325 Joined Fri 10/05/07 Posts: 4132	Sun 03/02/08 04:24 PM
i would , i would start out as frends that way i can help out with what going on and then go from there wow, what a sweetheart, iffin I was only younger

symbelmyne Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 5356	Sun 03/02/08 04:26 PM
survey sez.... scars are not always an indication of suicidal tendencies..many cutters use the practice as a fail safe system to stay alive and sane in an insane world....also there are those who scar themselves for cosmetic reasons....

TwilightsTwin Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 11054	Sun 03/02/08 05:20 PM
Depends on their stabilty. It wouldnt make me say "Yes" or "No". I would want to get to know the person, see whats going on, ...but Im always trying to save the world & help. Do you hug trees? Funny you should ask...I have pics of myself "tree-huggin"

TwilightsTwin Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 11054	Sun 03/02/08 05:21 PM
Depends on their stabilty. It wouldnt make me say "Yes" or "No". I would want to get to know the person, see whats going on, ...but Im always trying to save the world & help. Do you hug trees? Funny you should ask...I have pics of myself "tree-huggin" I talk to my plants

sounditout Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 307	Mon 03/03/08 04:58 AM
probably

Danette_Giavanna Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 1273	Mon 03/03/08 05:21 AM
I would due to my own personal experience. I was in a Near Fatal Wreck. I died that night. I lost my memory both long and short term..I thought that was a quick way out when I got home from the hospital. I could not understand at that time who I was or what had happened to me, my old self. I realize now that God saved my ass cause my life is not over it's just starting..

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Mon 03/03/08 05:23 AM
i would imagine that person isnt ready for a relationship, plus if it was with me i have a child to think off not sure i would want him round someone who is unstable like that

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Mon 03/03/08 05:23 AM
dating someone who has scars on their wrists from a suicide attempt fairly recently (within 6 months)? It would depend on the treatment they had, and how far along they are in therapy, for their depression... I would like to say it would make no difference, but I could see myself 'rescuing,' and counselling, rather than dating, so I would be a little cautious getting involved.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 03/03/08 06:50 AM
dating someone who has scars on their wrists from a suicide attempt fairly recently (within 6 months)? just to point out, a lot of people self harm, for relief of there mental pain. seeing the blood dripping out takes your problems away, it takes your problems away maybe for a few days, and then you do it again, its a vicious circle. most people who cut ARNT trying to kill themself, its just there way of coping. i know this, im sure you get my point without me going into great detail about my life.

kkKen Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 11228	Mon 03/03/08 06:55 AM
dating someone who has scars on their wrists from a suicide attempt fairly recently (within 6 months)? just to point out, a lot of people self harm, for relief of there mental pain. seeing the blood dripping out takes your problems away, it takes your problems away maybe for a few days, and then you do it again, its a vicious circle. most people who cut ARNT trying to kill themself, its just there way of coping. i know this, im sure you get my point without me going into great detail about my life. Cutting yourself isn't always an attempt at suicide.It is also a release from problems you have.Some see it as better to do it to myself than to someone else.So ye i would be comfortable dating someone who has scars from doin it.Why?Cause in my younger days i did it and still carry some of the scars and know what it's about and how to deal with it

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Mon 03/03/08 06:55 AM
I would have to honestly assess a few things 1. Was the suicide attempt some ridiculous ploy at manipulation and attention seeking 2. were they working some sort of program to get better 3. Was this a constant battle they fought within Honestly I would feel sorry for the tortured soul but I have a daughter to think of and do I want that drama up in my life?? The answer would prob be no , I don't know too many wrist cutters that seriously wanted to die ..

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 03/03/08 06:57 AM
some people cut there whole life, its just some peoples way of coping, it doesnt mean there unstable. some people cope by drinking alcohol, or having a fag, others cope and get there relief from cutting.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 03/03/08 07:00 AM
I would have to honestly assess a few things 1. Was the suicide attempt some ridiculous ploy at manipulation and attention seeking 2. were they working some sort of program to get better 3. Was this a constant battle they fought within Honestly I would feel sorry for the tortured soul but I have a daughter to think of and do I want that drama up in my life?? The answer would prob be no , I don't know too many wrist cutters that seriously wanted to die .. hi, just to point out. most people who cut ARE NOT trying to kill themself, they are doing it as a way of coping, and its a form of relief, seeing the blood dripping coming OUT your body, also takes your problems OUT your body, but only for a certain amount of time. some a few days, others a few weeks. totally dpends on the person.