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moral of the story, be careful who you invite into your life. Don't be so consumed with them, that you look the other way. Wether you met them on the internet(as was my case) or a club, or church or anywhere else. The internet makes things seem very inviting, simply cause you are not face to face. Then when you are, you have a built up image of what should be. I would not live in sin, that is why we married. My choice. As it was my choice to kick the cheating, lying sh** to the curb.
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When all hell broke loose, did you at least cut his balls off?
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moral of the story, be careful who you invite into your life. Don't be so consumed with them, that you look the other way. Wether you met them on the internet(as was my case) or a club, or church or anywhere else. The internet makes things seem very inviting, simply cause you are not face to face. Then when you are, you have a built up image of what should be. I would not live in sin, that is why we married. My choice. As it was my choice to kick the cheating, lying sh** to the curb. But what about the speed in which you all met and then he moved to Texas and how quickly did he just leave his old life behing .. it is just me or am I seeing some big red flags here ?? |
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no left balls intact. wouldn't touch them with a 10 ft pole, lol. red flags were going off along with fireworks. wgat can I say, the man fed all my needs, that I overlooked alot, ya know?
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i forgave him his adultery, but he will NEVER be to me, what he once was. and forgivness is a beginning to a better life. consider it a chapter that has since closed. and a new one begins
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i forgave him his adultery, but he will NEVER be to me, what he once was. and forgivness is a beginning to a better life. consider it a chapter that has since closed. and a new one begins |
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Sorry for your pain. I am a romantic, so I can see how this could happen to any of us in any setting, not just internet dating. Thanks for sharing. It gives us a heads up over heart strings. Sometimes you get wistful and someone will come along and just sweep us off our feet. We're human, after all. Reminds me to take relationships very slow. Working on that.
  
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why thank you. I tend to bounce back pretty well. This being a second marriage for me, I was better prepared for things that could go wrong, and not to let those things define me, ya know?
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ive no words of wisdom for you on this, sorry has been said a thousand times over....wow....
thank you for sharing your story xoxoxoxoxo |
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Sorry to hear what happen to you but can't always blame it on internet dating some just don't work out. Have known some that things turned out great for them. Heck have only been married once myself only knew my ex for approx 3 months before we got married and it lasted 11 years. You never really know a person till you marry them and at times you never know them then. Its tough and sorry about what happen but don't let that put a black mark on all men you meet either by internet or in your town. One never knows it is a chance we all take. Thanks Txsgal...my thoughts exactly... you can meet someone anywhere... a carwash, a supermarket, a bar... don't blame the bar, the supermarket, or the carwash, for what happened...nor the internet. |
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not blaming the "net, hun. Just happen to meet him here on this site. Please go back and read previous post, I think at the top of page 2. It explains, that we can meet anywhere. The grocery store, bar, net, school. Just be cautious and learn who your with, ya know?
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the crapfest continues.....
I have started getting a lot more upset with my soon to be ex, he just won't let go. Doesn't understand why I filed for divorce----geees. Time to move on dude. I have defaulted to being rude, don't like to be, but my patience is at an end. It is either be rude and short with him or speak to him like you would a child. Is so frustrating. I have a question for ya'll, when a breakup is immenent, why do some people cling so tightly to something that is no longer there? |
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maybe the fear of never finding someone else.
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I think, maybe, you are right.
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Edited by
sexi_PHAT
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Fri 03/07/08 12:50 PM
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A cautionary tale..... I met someone on a particular dating site last March. We met, he moved down to TX last May. We married last July.(Just a lil background for all ya'll, ok) Last Thurs. morning something woke me at 3 am. Husband(let's call him John) was not in bed. Thought maybe he couldn't sleep, or fell asleep on the couch. So, I got up, went to living room. TV was on, but no John. As we don't smoke in the house anymore, I thought he may be in the garage smoking, so I went out there. Didn't turn on the light and no John. Since the garage door was up, I walked outside and saw my red car, my truck and another vehicle. Didn;t have a clue who's car it was, so I went back inside and threw on some sweats, went back outside just in time to see my husband and some chick, I knew, having full on sex in her backseat. Needless to say, all hell broke loose then... I have since kicked him out, filed for divorce, which will be final in April. As I said, a cautionary tale to all those internet daters and would be daters out there....be wary, learn from my mistake. Love is good, but sometimes when we follow our hearts and not our heads, we end up with a total and complete loser... Looking for love in the wrong places, is an old Country and Western song. Let love find you and gosh all mighty, don't rush it or it is possible you could end up like me. Picking up the pieces, one shard at a time. Blakjaq
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thank you. It is "messed up". But we soldier on, ya know. Each day, I try to put it further behind me. Am only counting down the days now. Just want peace in my home and no more upheaval.
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Time marches on...
Still getting phone calls, but they are further apart now. This is good. What is not so good, is dang it to hell, now I need a handyman around the house, a 
Final "D" day is May 5th and am waiting with anticipation, ya know. If I can shake the feeling that I overlooked something. Something important, I might could actually sleep more than 2-3 hrs a night. Need some help here. Any suggestions? |
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