Topic: single n sad
irad8you's photo
Sat 02/23/08 10:16 AM
Howdyflowerforyou
(((irad8))) good afternoon love

Move on


Liquidlouie's photo
Sat 02/23/08 10:17 AM
Why in the heck did you even start the relationship in the first place? It benefited neither you or the unborn child. You would do yourself a world of good to expect more for yourself than being the other woman. I am sure their are plenty of guys that would love you and give you the respect you so rightly deserve!

steelersgirltina's photo
Sat 02/23/08 10:21 AM

kk well this is my story, i lived w a married man for three years.. like usual he was supposed to leave her, (he has three kids w her) i got pregnant had a baby tat passed away at 28 days. He left me when the baby was dying to go back w his wife. I thought he just couldnt handle having the baby die in my arms. so i forgave him and we tried again, i got pregnant and now have a two week old lil boy. Again he left and now its been a year he text and calls me every day to tell me how he only went back for his kids, and tat he still loves me, every time i try and move on he gives me the impression he wants to come back but never does. Should i wait for him... for the babys sake?

He ran 2 times and you are still wanting him to change or come back . NO that is not the best for you and your child.
Do yourself a favor, Run dont walk away from that one!!


hellkitten54's photo
Sat 02/23/08 10:22 AM
Oh dear. Too much drama for me.noway sick

irad8you's photo
Sat 02/23/08 10:23 AM
Yep
Oh dear. Too much drama for me.noway sick

lcjw's photo
Sat 02/23/08 10:24 AM

kk well this is my story, i lived w a married man for three years.. like usual he was supposed to leave her, (he has three kids w her) i got pregnant had a baby tat passed away at 28 days. He left me when the baby was dying to go back w his wife. I thought he just couldnt handle having the baby die in my arms. so i forgave him and we tried again, i got pregnant and now have a two week old lil boy. Again he left and now its been a year he text and calls me every day to tell me how he only went back for his kids, and tat he still loves me, every time i try and move on he gives me the impression he wants to come back but never does. Should i wait for him... for the babys sake?


Don't mean to sound harsh...but what goes around, comes around. How would you feel if you were the wife?huh

hellkitten54's photo
Sat 02/23/08 10:25 AM

Yep
Oh dear. Too much drama for me.noway sick



I just can't believe anyone would get involved with someone that is married and has a family. That guy is a piece of crap.

Jill298's photo
Sat 02/23/08 10:27 AM


Yep
Oh dear. Too much drama for me.noway sick



I just can't believe anyone would get involved with someone that is married and has a family. That guy is a piece of crap.
I can't believe a married guy with a family would get involved with someone flowerforyou

Nickinolosers's photo
Sat 02/23/08 10:27 AM
Don't just walk away

RRRRUUUUUNNNNNNNNN

hellkitten54's photo
Sat 02/23/08 10:28 AM



Yep
Oh dear. Too much drama for me.noway sick



I just can't believe anyone would get involved with someone that is married and has a family. That guy is a piece of crap.
I can't believe a married guy with a family would get involved with someone flowerforyou


Yeah, that too. There are tons of them on this site, looking for something on the side. grumble

no photo
Sat 02/23/08 10:30 AM
No matter what he says, he WILL NOT leave his wife for you! He will continue to play you over and over as long as you let him. Don't be second fiddle. Get on without him. You deserve better. As for being a single mom, you CAN do it! Get a lawyer and get child support. You and your baby deserve it!
:smile:

isaac_dede's photo
Sat 02/23/08 10:30 AM
He's using you, I'm in the Navy and i've watched this scenario so often it is insane, He doesn't want to leave her, if he wanted to leave her she would know about you...does she? probably not. Granted kids make it more difficult, but the question is do you REALLY want him? If he is willing to cheat on his current wife do you really beleive that he'd be any different with you? HE played you. Run, fast and far.

sexxyandsingle's photo
Sat 02/23/08 10:33 AM
You look like a fun FLing i don't blame him laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Sat 02/23/08 10:34 AM



Yep
Oh dear. Too much drama for me.noway sick



I just can't believe anyone would get involved with someone that is married and has a family. That guy is a piece of crap.
I can't believe a married guy with a family would get involved with someone flowerforyou

You said it!!!!flowerforyou

jaylynn5566's photo
Sat 02/23/08 10:55 AM
she does know bout me, i lived w him for three years... but ur right who knows wut he did behind my back too. n yeah wut goes around comes around.. i deserve it sad

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 02/23/08 11:01 AM

she does know bout me, i lived w him for three years... but ur right who knows wut he did behind my back too. n yeah wut goes around comes around.. i deserve it sad









Ding!!drinker

jaylynn5566's photo
Sat 02/23/08 11:30 AM
i know but, u know how when u talk tat someone u love, n he says he loves me i believe him

no photo
Sat 02/23/08 11:34 AM
Is he the father of all three of ur boys?

Totage's photo
Sat 02/23/08 11:38 AM

kk well this is my story, i lived w a married man for three years.. like usual he was supposed to leave her, (he has three kids w her) i got pregnant had a baby tat passed away at 28 days. He left me when the baby was dying to go back w his wife. I thought he just couldnt handle having the baby die in my arms. so i forgave him and we tried again, i got pregnant and now have a two week old lil boy. Again he left and now its been a year he text and calls me every day to tell me how he only went back for his kids, and tat he still loves me, every time i try and move on he gives me the impression he wants to come back but never does. Should i wait for him... for the babys sake?


The boy needs to have a healthy realtionship with his father, but IMO the father is probably not going to be around.

Sorry flowerforyou

lcjw's photo
Sat 02/23/08 12:08 PM

i know but, u know how when u talk tat someone u love, n he says he loves me i believe him


He has a wife girl! He belongs to someone else! leave him alone! If you thought by getting pregnat you would get him....think again. Now you have three children, where is the father? Think of your kids.