Body: This is fun to do. Just read the "offense" and if you've done it, you owe that fine. Keep going until you've read each "offense" and add up your total fine. Title your bulletin "My Bail is $........" You don't have to confess your answers, just the amount of your fine.

Smoked pot -- $20

Did acid -- $20

Ever had sex at church -- $50

Woke up in the morning and did not know the person who was next to you-- $20

Had sex with someone on JSH -- $1,000.00

Had sex for money -- $50

Vandalized something -- $500

Had sex on your parents' bed -- $50

Beat up someone -- $50

Been jumped -- $10

Crossed dressed -- $50

Given money to stripper -- $20

Been in love with a stripper -- $50

Kissed some one who's name you didn't know --$100

Hit on some one of the same sex while at work-- $50

Ever drive drunk -- $20

Ever got drunk at work, or went to work while still drunk -- $30

Used toys while having sex -- $30

Got drunk, passed out and don't remember the night before -- $100

Went skinny dipping -- $50

Had sex in a pool -- $20

Kissed someone of the same sex -- $50

Had sex with someone of the same sex -- $200

Cheated on your significant other -- $100

Masturbated -- $50

Cheated on your significant other with their relative or close friend --$300

Done oral -- $50

Got oral -- $5

Done / got oral in a car while it was moving-- $25

Stole something -- $10

Had sex with someone in jail -- $50

Made a nasty home video -- $50

Had a threesome -- $100

Had sex in the wild -- $20

Been in the same room while someone was having sex -- $50

Stole something worth over more than a hundred dollars -- $50

Had sex with someone 10 years older -- $100

Had sex with someone under 21 and you are over 27 -- $20

Been in love with two people or more at the same time -- $20

Said you love someone but didn't mean it -- $20

Went streaking -- $50

Went streaking in broad daylight -- $50

Been arrested -- $100

Spent time in jail -- $500

Peed in the pool -- $20

Played spin the bottle -- $20

Done something you regret -- $100.00

Had sex with your best friend >-- $500.00

Had sex with someone you work with at work --$50

Had anal sex -- $50

Lied to your mate -- $5

Lied to your mate about the sex being good -- $20

O. K , now tally up your answers but don't put your amount in the spots leave them the way they are, ...... In the subject of your post put "My Bail Is... (your total)"

"Spin The Bottle"

ALL U HAVE TO DO IS POST WHAT U WOULD DO WITH THE PERSON ABOVE U....



1. i would smack ur ass
2. i would kiss you on the cheek
3. i would kiss you on your forehead
4. i would just give you a hug
5. i would hold your hand
6. i would kiss you on the lips
7. i would make out with you
8. i would make love to you
9. i want to go out with you ... seriously
10. Rub your back..tell u its ok

11. attack u with a baseball bat!

I am not a typical lady... but most ladies just want to be respected, told they are beautiful the way they are, and felt like they are needed... I think... my problem is figuring out what guys want.. besides "in your pants"..

I was normal until I signed up here.

It's called a hiatus and they are very good for the heart, soul and mind. There's no rush. Just relax and let it go for awhile. That's where I am at and it's very freeing.

patience is a virtue, good things come to those wait....blah, blah, blah. I understand your frutstration. Somedays I am the eternal optimist and somedays I just feel like giving up. Sometimes I even do give up for a while. Take a break from it. Stop looking. I've heard that's when it comes.

there is

noone ever said they werent closed.... i just said that is what many on here are looking for.. friend with bennies