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Topic: guys i need your help
passion46 Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 32	Fri 02/22/08 05:21 PM
i am a 46 year old women who is thankfully in pretty good shape and i have a heart of gold, sensitive, understanding and very confident. my problem is everyone of my dates have either dropped there pants and showed it off, told me everything i think they want me to hear or just asked straight out for sex, how on earth can i possibly figure out who is a respectable man because all i have is what they look like maybe i should ask questions what do you think. confused passion46

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Fri 02/22/08 05:22 PM
You need to leave Canada immediately!

Woodrow Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 212	Fri 02/22/08 05:23 PM
Most people on these dating sites are just looking for sex. I'm starting to think a bar is better for a meaningful relationship, even just a friend.

Cambolaya65 Joined Mon 09/03/07 Posts: 5587	Fri 02/22/08 05:24 PM
Pervo nut-jobs......some of us are alright.

Woodrow Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 212	Fri 02/22/08 05:24 PM
Honesty, met them at a public place with a good friend their to help judge them.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 02/22/08 05:24 PM Edited by MirrorMirror on Fri 02/22/08 05:24 PM
Somebody says this everyday

Woodrow Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 212	Fri 02/22/08 05:24 PM
Pervo nut-jobs......some of us are alright. Very few of us are, I've quit most of these sites for that reason.

Troubled Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 295	Fri 02/22/08 05:27 PM
Most people on these dating sites are just looking for sex. I'm starting to think a bar is better for a meaningful relationship, even just a friend. Took 30 years to get tired of the bar scene, This is starting to get old after 3 months

kerouacfan Joined Tue 10/09/07 Posts: 513	Fri 02/22/08 05:28 PM
where is the locale of your dates that they are just dropping their pants ? Better to just stay in a restaurant or other public place .. Just a suggestion ?

Woodrow Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 212	Fri 02/22/08 05:29 PM
Most people on these dating sites are just looking for sex. I'm starting to think a bar is better for a meaningful relationship, even just a friend. Took 30 years to get tired of the bar scene, This is starting to get old after 3 months which was better?

duckiegiggles Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 4642	Fri 02/22/08 05:30 PM
point at it and start laughing bet they wont do it again!

Woodrow Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 212	Fri 02/22/08 05:30 PM


Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 02/22/08 05:32 PM
Hmmmmmmmmm alberta men!!!

maxxximus007 Joined Mon 11/13/06 Posts: 6082	Fri 02/22/08 05:34 PM
Honesty, met them at a public place with a good friend their to help judge them. you need to let them know up front what you are looking for, be specific.good luck

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 02/22/08 05:35 PM
point at it and start laughing bet they wont do it again! Perfect!

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 02/22/08 05:38 PM
oK Ive had to do this a few times...........Ive said.......look at me??? Look at you!! Me? -------->You Isnt going to happen!!!

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Fri 02/22/08 05:38 PM
At one time I was a proponent for meeting sooner than later. I now find that taking longer to get to know someone from this venue is better. The ones that are looking for sex will not put forth the effort and won't stick around.

AllenAqua Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 3895	Fri 02/22/08 05:38 PM
Yes, I hope you don't let it influence what you think of all of us. I'm not that way and to me it shows a total lack of class. Hi & welcome to the forums, btw.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 02/22/08 05:38 PM
Most people on these dating sites are just looking for sex. I'm starting to think a bar is better for a meaningful relationship, even just a friend. Took 30 years to get tired of the bar scene, This is starting to get old after 3 months I think part of the problem is that people are selecting potential dates on the basis of photos rather than say, common interests. If you block the photos out of your mind and read the essays, you may find that there are plenty of quality people here. They are just not necessarily HOTT. It really depends on what you are looking for. If you are picking them based strictly on visual appeal, then you are falling into the traps of the ones who only want that kind of attention. Look for the more subtle ones.

Troubled Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 295	Fri 02/22/08 05:40 PM
Most people on these dating sites are just looking for sex. I'm starting to think a bar is better for a meaningful relationship, even just a friend. Took 30 years to get tired of the bar scene, This is starting to get old after 3 months which was better? I'm thinkin maybe the bar. A person can describe themselves pretty much how they would like to be, But after a Pitcher of Jack & Coke the real thing magically seems to appear.