Oh geez!!!!

Is this like the latest craze??? Sort of like The Secret????


Maybe I need to crawl back under my damp rock...

It's not ballss. It's just realizing that you are worth more than that.

i guess i'm going to be the only one that says this but...



to all those guys,you're a quick and easy piece of @$$.if you start to date again,tell the guy "no sex before marriage"and see if he sticks around.if he doesn't than oh well but if he does than great

Nahhhhhhhhh its old skool!!!!

Welcome to jsh. Hard to say why some guys just stop making contact. Anouther girl. Maybe you said something that really turned him off. Could be a lot of reasons. Try not to take it to personally your not the first person that this has happened to. Try to stay positive and keep searching. You'll find the right guy for you.

Ok.


And thanks JT, that was on my mind, but I was trying to see how long I could be nice...

I have had alot of people try to take advantage of me for my kindness, but I let them know it is not a weakness for me it is a choice and it is wrong to take advantage of someone who is only big hearted. You do need to learn when you are to nice or people will never stop trying to take advantage of you.
I hope i have helped you a little bit. I am a big hearted person but i do not show alot of people for the reasons of knowing that they just might try and take advantage of me. I have been screwed over and hurt alot before i learned to hide the true me from alot of people until i get to know them better. I still show my heart alot but it is hard for me to trust others now.
Take Care.

This is the correct answer. I think you show your feelings too soon depite what you say. Also, because you seem nice, easygoing and willing to be a 'Mark" or someone who appears weak or low esteem, you will attract the same type of men who prey upon those charateristics. Stop talking to that guy who just left you because he's playing games with you because YOU let him. Stop giving your feelings to every guy you meet and be selective because you need to realize You are worth it and deserve better. Stop playing with boys and giving them the tools to play games with you. Search for the real men who keep there word and do what they say...

was just being honest Jess

u have helped me, i have spent my life being considerate, and I should have spent it learning who 2 b considerate to. I guess guys take 4 granted that I will just be here, when they r ready. I still believe i have a happy ending somewhere, I just think i need to change myself a little

It is always good to care. If you change who you are because of what other people do to you you will end up as someone you never wanted to be. On the other hand if you give away everything you've got you will end up empty. The key is to stop looking so hard. When try to hard you tend to see things the way you want to see them instead of the way they are.

DAMMIT!!! IM TIRED OF BEING A VIRGIN!!!!!!!!BLOODY ELL!!!!!!!!!!

i see what u r saying, thank you, all this honesty and advice is overwhelming. i really need 2 remove my rose colored glasses

It is foolish to do more of the same thing and expect different results. If you do the same thing you always did, you get the same thing you always got. You can't find something different by looking for the same thing over and over and it appears that is what you are doing. I know this sounds cold and clinical but make a list of what you are looking for in a guy. Be very honest about it. Then compare that list to the characteristics of the guys from the failed relationships. I think you will see a pattern develop.

The fault lies not in the stars dear Ceasar but in ourselves.

good luck and God Bless

Looks at jt........and slips him a box of tampons and runs out of the thread!!!!

ktrnmaun- Do you happen to be an Aquarian? We get our hearts stomped on alot.

no ironically I am Taurus

dammit Gypsy!!!