I don't see why people hurt those they are supposed to love. Every relationship I have ever been in, the guy has cheated. If you feel the need to cheat, you should have the balls to just leave.

I've always looked at it like this:

If you meet someone that even makes you consider cheating then you should probably end it, because obviously you've got no future with the person you're with. When you find the one you truly love and want to be with, it shouldn't even be a consideration.

But that's just my opinion. Those who allow themselves to be cheated on, I think it's out of a low self esteem. They just don't think they can do better. Or maybe they're just afraid to be alone. I don't know. It shouldn't be tolerated though. Once they cheat and you let it go, they'll just feel free to do it again.

Sorry if this has been said before.....but it includes low self esteem........there is no excuse for cheating!!!

amen there is absoultly NO excuse for cheating

kudos kolh for not following tradition

I was one of those women that believed and forgave
I learned, it won't happen again
I deserve better

I wish cheaters would think of the hurt they will cause before they do what they do

Heads up no cheaters need apply here

NEXT!!!!

<-----SNAPS FINGERS!!!

No second chances there

Once a cheater , Always a cheater JMO

Thats a lie too once a cheater always a cheater given the opertunity I willl 75% of people would cheat at something knowing they are not going to get caught. People use each other like cleanex live with it. There are men and women that look for that ****ty assed cheating in a person to have a relationship for theythrive on being hurt explain that.

I know how this feels and it isn't pretty. Hurt feelings heal, but never go away. Bravo Jim and this is why I love you, you are so wise

Jim said what he wanted you to hear.

I have never been cheated on, never cheated on anyone. Don't know why I would? I mean if I wasn't getting satisfied with my man, I'd dump his ass.

well your the first people use people it is a fact of life people will do what it takes to have their cake and eat it too.

here, here

I cannot stand cheaters or liars! They are a waste of time!

Say when you are in love with one and refuse to hear what people tell you

I can not tolerate cheating myself... and never understood why one would... but what I was never able to understand was my cousin.... when ever her bf cheated.... she went out and bought him a full wordrobe... or whatever toy he was into... it was insane,.,.,.,. I am not talking about an outfit or just something simple I am talking about a few hundred dollars of junk....

this went on for years... and u couldn't tell her anything... her response was she loved him and he would change... needless to say he never changed... and he left her... she would still be doing it today if he never left her...

I suppose he did her a favor finally....

wow I am glad that people still believe in Karma