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Cheating is cheating no matr how u look at it, forgiving cheating is no good, once they cheat , its over, not saying I am sorry, its not gonna happen again, and u dam well know it well cause u forgave them before. Trust, if u loose it, its not gonna come back.
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hey jimbo...take it from this italian guy..
nothing reaches your bowels more then when you realize that your love is unfaithful.. it happens.. to date..and knowing that from my brother..my uncle,,and my father,,every man in my family has had a mistress..someone on the side. even my grandfather.. it seems that cheating is manditory where the men in my family is conserned..but to date..my record is clear. i know the pain that it can bring. |
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Cheating is cheating no matr how u look at it, forgiving cheating is no good, once they cheat , its over, not saying I am sorry, its not gonna happen again, and u dam well know it well cause u forgave them before. Trust, if u loose it, its not gonna come back. I second that! 
My ex once told me he cheated on "accident" and it was my fault for not paying enough attention to him.....  The broad he cheated on me with...he eventually moved in with...only to come back knocking my door trying to cheat on her with me ....
A leopard can't change his spots. |
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Edited by
Jamie82
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Sun 02/10/08 08:27 AM
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cheating is NOT ok
 if there is cheating involved then there is something VERY wrong and u are both waisting ur time.I would never excuse cheating and i would never consider doing it to someone. What goes around comes around and character is what a person is all about. If u are a cheater it says a lot about u...obviously in a bad way.
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which one is the stupid one though? the one who cheated? or the one who chooses to accept it and stay with them?
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It's not okay to cheat! I have seen people say, what would you do if I cheated. Are you seeking approval?...You as% will be out the door, simple as that.... If you feel the need to be with someone else, do the RIGHT thing, seperate from them first. It may hurt them, but it wont hurt as bad if you cheated on them.. Sorry to any cheaters that may read this, but you get everything you deserve.... Amen!!!
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Edited by
Danette_Giavanna
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Sun 02/10/08 08:41 AM
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Thats why I'm divorced he cheated for 12yrs and I just got sick of feeling like I was never good enough. If your gonna cheat then why get involved with someone, if you can't respect that person if your life then can you ever respect yourself...
I always say why the hell do I want 2 seconds of meaningless sex when I can have a life time of being happy with someone.....Karma is a *****.... |
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whatever Karma is bull ****. People say that to make them feel better about being treated like ****. People will cheat now and forever especially when people watch Unfaithful. The expresiion you are only cheating when you get caught. Come one people say things like what happens in stays in . Welll what are we expecting from people when we excuse everyone from doing it the president, everyone.
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which one is the stupid one though? the one who cheated? or the one who chooses to accept it and stay with them? Good point
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Each to their own.... but those that have a sense of ownership of their partner, are looking for a relationship with obligations, and expectations, THAT ISN'T LOVE, THAT'S POSSESSION, AND OWNERSHIP, AND CONTROL.
cHEATING? wHAT A LOAD OF CRAP...... I AM NOT OWNED, NOR DO I OWN MY PARTNER, HOWEVER, i RESPECT HIM ENOUGH TO BE OPEN AND HONEST WITH HIM, AND IF IT EVER AROSE, THAT i WAS ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE ELSE, MY PARTNER WOULD KNOW FIRST.. Cool! I was yelling too... 
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Each to their own.... but those that have a sense of ownership of their partner, are looking for a relationship with obligations, and expectations, THAT ISN'T LOVE, THAT'S POSSESSION, AND OWNERSHIP, AND CONTROL. cHEATING? wHAT A LOAD OF CRAP...... I AM NOT OWNED, NOR DO I OWN MY PARTNER, HOWEVER, i RESPECT HIM ENOUGH TO BE OPEN AND HONEST WITH HIM, AND IF IT EVER AROSE, THAT i WAS ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE ELSE, MY PARTNER WOULD KNOW FIRST.. Cool! I was yelling too...
Another good point
Jess was yelling
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I for one believe in Karma, one who brings hurt and pain to one intenionally will pay for the penalty somehow, someday..Whatever it may be...
Also, in regards to ownership. It all depends on how the relationship is declared. If your exclusive then you should commit yourself to the one your with. Does that mean they own you? No, no one owns anybody, doesnt mean you run around though.. If your in a causal relationship and seeing others, as long as that is spoken of and the other's your seeing are honestly aware of your intentions then the fault falls on them.. |
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Amen to that !! Thats part of the reason my ex is my ex..........
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Edited by
Jess642
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Sun 02/10/08 08:05 PM
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I for one believe in Karma, one who brings hurt and pain to one intenionally will pay for the penalty somehow, someday..Whatever it may be... Also, in regards to ownership. It all depends on how the relationship is declared. If your exclusive then you should commit yourself to the one your with. Does that mean they own you? No, no one owns anybody, doesnt mean you run around though.. If your in a causal relationship and seeing others, as long as that is spoken of and the other's your seeing are honestly aware of your intentions then the fault falls on them.. Again, each to their own, if that works for you, so be it. People cant help who they fall in love with, they can help what they choose to do about it. And this joined at the hip for the next 90 million years thing is such crap..... how many women have you professed your love to? All I am saying is, live in the now, love in the now, with no expectations, and every day is joyful.... 
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some excuse cheating because they truly don't care.....last six years of my marriage i didn't care what my ex did as long as he didn't bring it home........ie. he was discrete..........i didn't cheat but that was just so he couldn't throw it back at me.LOL
I know i'm screwed up.......LOL |
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tell them jim
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I freely admitt i'm screwed up i realized a year into the marriage i didn't love him and he was evil.......i'm not saying i was right more than likely i was wrong............but the ? was why do some people excuse cheating and that is why I did.
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my ex-wife cheated on me 4-time's ! and she finely ran off with my uncle !
 she just couldnt keep her damn pant's on !
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  I EXCUSE MY OWN CHEATING
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