Topic: Why do some actually excuse cheating? | |
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It's not okay to cheat! I have seen people say, what would you do if I cheated. Are you seeking approval?...You as% will be out the door, simple as that....
If you feel the need to be with someone else, do the RIGHT thing, seperate from them first. It may hurt them, but it wont hurt as bad if you cheated on them.. Sorry to any cheaters that may read this, but you get everything you deserve.... |
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y bother being in a relashionship if ya gonna cheat is what i say
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because love makes you believe that forgiving is all there is. And people that are willing to do anything to save a failing marriage.
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i woildnt want to shear my love with any one lol if i aint anoth for them well im not gonna be second best eather
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If your going to cheat then let them or me know up front. Otherwise leave us that don't stray alone.
I hate cheaters, and if that happens to be you, then I hope you find someone that you really fall for, and I hope they rip your heart out. |
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i woildnt want to shear my love with any one lol if i aint anoth for them well im not gonna be second best eather Where did you learn to spell? |
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because love makes you believe that forgiving is all there is. And people that are willing to do anything to save a failing marriage. I can respect attempting to save a marriage. But, if it were "love" or true love as you say, the thoughts of cheating, or the actual act of it occuring shouldnt have happended if love were in the picture. |
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If your going to cheat then let them or me know up front. Otherwise leave us that don't stray alone. I hate cheaters, and if that happens to be you, then I hope you find someone that you really fall for, and I hope they rip your heart out. Cheers to that !! |
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because love makes you believe that forgiving is all there is. And people that are willing to do anything to save a failing marriage. I can respect attempting to save a marriage. But, if it were "love" or true love as you say, the thoughts of cheating, or the actual act of it occuring shouldnt have happended if love were in the picture. I agree |
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Edited by
jimd_mp
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Sun 02/10/08 05:26 AM
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Why do some actually excuse cheating?
Insecurity low self esteem just to name a couple of reasons. But there is more than 1 form of cheating. Most people just think of cheating as seeing having a relationship/sex with another person other than your significant other. But another form of cheating is taking your significant other for granted,not pay enough attention to his/her needs and lack of communication or being so wrapped up in something else and ignoring them. So some forms of cheating are forgivable but cheating with some one else in my opinion is never forgivable once the trust is gone you have nothing! |
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i woildnt want to shear my love with any one lol if i aint anoth for them well im not gonna be second best eather Where did you learn to spell? What does that have to do with Cheaters? |
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Say that when you are one of those christians/ catholics that dont believe in divorce and make themselves get emotionally sick and hurt by keeping a dead marriage going. Marriage is just like a person once its dead its dead.
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Say that when you are one of those christians/ catholics that dont believe in divorce and make themselves get emotionally sick and hurt by keeping a dead marriage going. Marriage is just like a person once its dead its dead. I agree, once it's done it's done....Religion shouldnt interfere with that.... |
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thats why i'm devorced,she cheated on me.while i was working too full time jobs.
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Say that when you are one of those christians/ catholics that dont believe in divorce and make themselves get emotionally sick and hurt by keeping a dead marriage going. Marriage is just like a person once its dead its dead. I disagree, it can be revived unless there wasn't any love to begin with |
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i cheat on my right hand
with my left hand. |
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Say that when you are one of those christians/ catholics that dont believe in divorce and make themselves get emotionally sick and hurt by keeping a dead marriage going. Marriage is just like a person once its dead its dead. |
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I disagree once the trust is gone it takes along time to rebuild it but its never the same. There will always be that nagging question in the back of your mind wondering are they cheating again!
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I disagree once the trust is gone it takes along time to rebuild it but its never the same. There will always be that nagging question in the back of your mind wondering are they cheating again! |
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What about those that are completely in denial and use the clint way out...."I did not have sexual relations with that person"... I agree, once the trust is gone...not much left
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