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The outside can change at any time, that is part of life. Accidents happen. Would you suddenly change how you feel about your woman if something happened to the wrapping paper? I agree that there has to be attraction, but is the outside really that important when it comes down to it? For me.. There has to be an initial attraction if there's going to be any chance whatsoever at love.. I'd think, if I fell in love, anything afterwards regarding appearance wouldn't matter as much.. But I personally, would never get that far without an attraction physically.. |
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I'm still trying to figure out why ppl go for looks...I think that if someone has personality, it makes up for what's lost in looks...Looks fade with time..Personality don't..
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Hey Handy Candy... Sometimes that is just the way it is. This is not about if or not I appeal to women... it is if or not THEY appeal to me my darling 
Well dear its a buyers market :) so tell me what makes you a better purches than PJ |
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Hay I know I am fuggly but as an old saying goes,Beuty is in the eye of the beholder and I do beleive this is true.and as for people using different pictures for themselves,I beleive those pictures give people personal insight to the person they are looking at and what they enjoy or brings them enjoyment.Hay this is just my opinion,do have a good day all
 
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Edited by
medic_4981
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Mon 02/04/08 12:14 PM
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It's much more important how a woman sees herself than how a man sees her. A woman who is not rail thin (not my taste) and not pageant contestent (not my taste) but who carries herself with confidence an air of self sufficience is extremely attactive.
I'm sure I'll get jeers from guys who say she has to be beautiful or sexy or hot!! Who determines these factors? How does a blind man fall in love? or a blind woman? Simplistic but to the point. I dare any man to tell me that a confident, caring woman isn't a turn on. Not everyone is a model. Especially most of us men. A relatively clean appearance and if a person cares about the impression they make (overall) is important. Some are heavier than others. A larger woman in baggy non-descript camouflage clothing is not attractive. A larger woman who dresses appropriately (guys too) and pays attention to appearance is much more noticable than someone who just throws clothes on without any care. It is abour perception. A smile instead of a dour frown. A pleasant greeting instead of a gruff "please don't notice me" hi, makes a world of difference. I could go on but who the hell asked me! |
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There have been numerous studies suggesting that looks are far less important to women than they are to men. I could find them if anyone wanted to dispute it. Until then, I have work to do.  Thanks maybe latter actually im just intrested in personal oppion right now.
As for my opinion, yes I think looks are important. But with that being said, the "looks" that I may find attractive are probably different in some ways than others. Not every guy finds the same looks to be attractive. Some will take a hot body without a nice smile, others won't worry about the body if she has a cute face. It's all preferential. If someone's looks changed dramatically (e.g. horrible disfigurement) it would depend completely on the level of the relationship. If it was a deep relationship, I would see them the same. If we hadn't had time to connect yet, I would probably view them differently and be far less attracted to them. |
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I'm still trying to figure out why ppl go for looks...I think that if someone has personality, it makes up for what's lost in looks...Looks fade with time..Personality don't..
Most of my best friends have outstanding personalities.. But guess what.. They are men.. And I'm not gay.. |
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hell............... i think ide be happy if she can stick her head in the water and come out with a fish in her Mouth
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Hay I know I am fuggly but as an old saying goes,Beuty is in the eye of the beholder and I do beleive this is true.and as for people using different pictures for themselves,I beleive those pictures give people personal insight to the person they are looking at and what they enjoy or brings them enjoyment.Hay this is just my opinion,do have a good day all
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Edited by
soxfan94
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Mon 02/04/08 12:13 PM
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Hey Handy Candy... Sometimes that is just the way it is. This is not about if or not I appeal to women... it is if or not THEY appeal to me my darling
Well dear its a buyers market :) so tell me what makes you a better purches than PJ Well for starters, he probably doesn't roam the jungles eating people.
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Handy Candy, Tigers are cool. Tigers are powerful, tigers are even so cuuuute! But... I am real
No offense PJ
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It's much more important how a woman sees herself than how a man sees her. A woman who is not rail thin (not my taste) and not pageant contestent (not my taste) but who carries herself with confidence an air of self sufficience is extremely attactive. I'm sure I'll get jeers from guys who say she has to be beautiful or sexy or hot!! Who determines these factors? How does a blind man fall in love? or a blind woman? Simplistic but to the point. I dare any man to tell me that a confident, caring woman isn't a turn on. Not everyone is a model. Especially most of us men. A relatively clean appearance and if a person cares about the impression they make (overall) is important. Some are heavier than others. A larger woman in baggy non-descript camouflage clothing is not attractive. A larger woman who dresses appropriately (guys too) and pays attention to appearance is much more noticable than someone who just throws clothes on without any care. It is abour perception. A smile instead of a dour frown. A pleasant greeting instead of a gruff "please don't notice me" hi, makes a world of difference. I could go on but who the hell asked me! |
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It's much more important how a woman sees herself than how a man sees her. A woman who is not rail thin (not my taste) and not pageant contestent (not my taste) but who carries herself with confidence an air of self sufficience is extremely attactive. I'm sure I'll get jeers from guys who say she has to be beautiful or sexy or hot!! Who determines these factors? How does a blind man fall in love? or a blind woman? Simplistic but to the point. I dare any man to tell me that a confident, caring woman isn't a turn on. Not everyone is a model. Especially most of us men. A relatively clean appearance and if a person cares about the impression they make (overall) is important. Some are heavier than others. A larger woman in baggy non-descript camouflage clothing is not attractive. A larger woman who dresses appropriately (guys too) and pays attention to appearance is much more noticable than someone who just throws clothes on without any care. It is abour perception. A smile instead of a dour frown. A pleasant greeting instead of a gruff "please don't notice me" hi, makes a world of difference. I could go on but who the hell asked me! |
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It's much more important how a woman sees herself than how a man sees her. A woman who is not rail thin (not my taste) and not pageant contestent (not my taste) but who carries herself with confidence an air of self sufficience is extremely attactive. I'm sure I'll get jeers from guys who say she has to be beautiful or sexy or hot!! Who determines these factors? How does a blind man fall in love? or a blind woman? Simplistic but to the point. I dare any man to tell me that a confident, caring woman isn't a turn on. Not everyone is a model. Especially most of us men. A relatively clean appearance and if a person cares about the impression they make (overall) is important. Some are heavier than others. A larger woman in baggy non-descript camouflage clothing is not attractive. A larger woman who dresses appropriately (guys too) and pays attention to appearance is much more noticable than someone who just throws clothes on without any care. It is abour perception. A smile instead of a dour frown. A pleasant greeting instead of a gruff "please don't notice me" hi, makes a world of difference. I could go on but who the hell asked me! Ditto! |
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medic, I totally agree. (Sorry didn't want to quote your whole post in consideration of space). To me, a girl's confidence is PART of her attractiveness. To say that a girl is made more or less attractive because of her confidence seems like a truism in my book.
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Well, that is a pretty general question that apply to all. Sure, we all try to seek that individual whom is attractive in and out. At 1st glance, looks does matter. That physical attraction may draw one to make that connection and seek further magnetism towards the common interests. Sure, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Anyhow, the physical communications can be appealing and intriguing.
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Hey now, I have a pic of me on my prof!
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cuchi cuchi coo. There's a good boy. No biting!
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cuchi cuchi coo. There's a good boy. No biting! You didn't even check the profile it's a girl! |
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