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Are guys so stupid to take their x back after they cheated on them the first time? What makes you think that they have changed and wont do it again?
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I think women do that too.
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i think its the whole safety net thing...they know the likes and dislikes of eachother..and how far they can push things...and that jazz...its safer then getting to know some one new..
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Once a cheater always a cheater in my book and how do you EVER TRUST them again?
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I think that people try to take on situations on an individual basis. They also want to believe that there is hope the person loves them and would not do it again. That might be true. No person is infallible.
There is the capacity to hope and believe that people want to better themselves and enrich the lives of others and themselves...to believe the person deserves a second chance as they themselves might want if the situation was reversed. We can never know. |
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once a cheater always a cheater!!!!!!!
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I think that people try to take on situations on an individual basis. They also want to believe that there is hope the person loves them and would not do it again. That might be true. No person is infallible. There is the capacity to hope and believe that people want to better themselves and enrich the lives of others and themselves...to believe the person deserves a second chance as they themselves might want if the situation was reversed. We can never know. lilith - I think you are truly smarter than the average bear. 
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i've never taken anyone back that's cheated, the trust is gone. it's not that hard to not cheat, and breaking up before a cheater cheats is what should happen, that's what honorable people do, so...this means they are not honorable, and can't be trusted again, because as soon as it gets comfortable, it happens again!
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once a cheater always a cheater is the Gods honest truth...I gave my ex husband one to many chances but he got sloppy in his endevors
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sh*t i guess once a cheater always a cheater
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Who would want there X back? They're an X for a reason RIGHT!!!!!
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Hikerchick- thank you. I've been cheated on many times, and the answer is always far simpler on the outside looking in than inside the relationship.
It is a mistake to judge others based on your own prior experiences, for the other person is never that same old cheater. I'm hadly a doormat and do not condone cheating at all, but I think these situations are composed of a myriad of complexities with no simple black and white answer. |
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Hikerchick- thank you. I've been cheated on many times, and the answer is always far simpler on the outside looking in than inside the relationship. It is a mistake to judge others based on your own prior experiences, for the other person is never that same old cheater. I'm hadly a doormat and do not condone cheating at all, but I think these situations are composed of a myriad of complexities with no simple black and white answer. i just read your profile, and i can't see how a loved one couldn't get everything he would ever need from just you, you're awesome, well rounded, gorgeous, loving......damn, he screwed up! |
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Hikerchick- thank you. I've been cheated on many times, and the answer is always far simpler on the outside looking in than inside the relationship. It is a mistake to judge others based on your own prior experiences, for the other person is never that same old cheater. I'm hadly a doormat and do not condone cheating at all, but I think these situations are composed of a myriad of complexities with no simple black and white answer. i just read your profile, and i can't see how a loved one couldn't get everything he would ever need from just you, you're awesome, well rounded, gorgeous, loving......damn, he screwed up! I do say I'm happily divorced and so very glad he is someone's else's problem. Thank you for your kind words. |
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glad that
  
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I think that people try to take on situations on an individual basis. They also want to believe that there is hope the person loves them and would not do it again. That might be true. No person is infallible. There is the capacity to hope and believe that people want to better themselves and enrich the lives of others and themselves...to believe the person deserves a second chance as they themselves might want if the situation was reversed. We can never know. Lilith, I have to agree -- there's no universal rule, and every situation is different. A second chance doesn't necessarily or automatically have to be a horrible idea. I just want to say I am really enjoying your posts! It's a pleasure to have someone of your intellect and understanding on this site....we could use a LOT more like you!
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I think that people try to take on situations on an individual basis. They also want to believe that there is hope the person loves them and would not do it again. That might be true. No person is infallible. There is the capacity to hope and believe that people want to better themselves and enrich the lives of others and themselves...to believe the person deserves a second chance as they themselves might want if the situation was reversed. We can never know. Lilith, I have to agree -- there's no universal rule, and every situation is different. A second chance doesn't necessarily or automatically have to be a horrible idea. I just want to say I am really enjoying your posts! It's a pleasure to have someone of your intellect and understanding on this site....we could use a LOT more like you!
Lex, Thank you, sincerely. I feel the exact same way about your posts. I always have. Not to make everyone else reading this stick their tongue down their throat with a "gag me with a spoon" vibe (I'm an eighties girl)... but your posts always make me laugh or are dead on. Your lady is a lucky one. It's too bad we can't go grab a coffee!
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Edited by
Jistme
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Sun 02/03/08 04:32 PM
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one couldn't get everything he would ever need from just you |
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I don't think I would don't know if I could ever trust again no trust no relationship
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one couldn't get everything he would ever need from just you Yes honey, "jist" you. 
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