KISSING

I gotta say, most you dudes get so excited when you kiss a woman for the
first time. For me personally, there's nothing that turns me off faster
than a probing tongue searching for God knows what the first kiss, and
there after.Or one that's too soft and all you get is spit,like you're
lickin' a melting icecream cone.They give the impressions you don't know
what the hell you're doin'.You gotta relax man.

I like a soft/firm tongue that say's you're in control and know what
you're doing.You have your wits about you and thinkin' with more than
your dicks.That's a nice,sexy kiss.

And don't be running your hands all over God's green acres either.Keep
the roaming hands to a minimal.Hold her firmly,not tight.We like to feel
safe in your arms not captive.

Most(and I do mean MOST, not all) of you guys get too excited then you
take all the pleasure and romance out of things for us.We like the
romance!! How many times do we have to tell you goons this??? It's
different when all you're both after is a quickie, but the other
times,take it easy. Enjoy the pleasures you're giving us, you never know
what you'll get in return.

We have alot of buttons and I'm sure you've gone and pushed the wrong
ones then didn't know what the hell happened,because the majority of the
females just get mad and don't say anything.Big mistake on their part.

Majority of females still don't get that a man needs to be told what's
going on and what they're doing right or wrong. Males (again,MOST not
all) need instructions all the time as you have a tendancy to forget
things. Mainly because you weren't listening the first time.

I know males in general don't like to read instructions,but if you're
reading this, keep it handy. It's just a few little tid bits you should
keep in mind for future reference.

ty vw

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yes thats true

LMAO I stopped reading when you got to the probing tongue. Well you
going to miss somethings LOL Just Kidding :) But you are right some
guys just don't have a clue how to treat a woman. So take nots guys LOL

Us guys need all the help we can get Thanks,

allows be the gentlemen listen to her needs doesnt hurt4 one best to be
greater than not@okay?

I'd like to tag on one addendum..IF your gonna let your hands roam, try
not to just go stampeding for the "naughty bits". Caress her back,
gently play with her hair. BELIEVE me, there are plenty of places on a
woman's body you can touch while kissing her to make her tingle. Make
the moment about her enjoyment and she'll make sure you enjoy it too.
;-)

wow that was alot to read .and who said women dont come with an
operators manual.lol

Right on venusian woman-
I have to say that the kiss holds alot of important information
about the person you are getting to know.
It is the anticipation and build up of things gradually that
really spices things up.
I have been dating a man that is really a keeper. SOmetimes I have to
pinch myself to make sure he isnt a figment of my imagination. I swear
he can read my every thought before I finish thinking it. He's strong,
yet tender. Passionate, yet patient its driving me crazy-
I like it!!!

I REALLY LIKE TO BE THE OPPOSITE, I THINK ITS REALLY COOL

TO LET HER BE THE ONE TO BE SO FULL OF PASSION THAT SHE CAN'T

HELP HER SELF, AND HAS TO ATTACT ME WITH HER UNCONTROLLABLE

URRGENCY TO GET ME OUT OF MY CLOTHES!!!! 'NOW', THATS THE FINE.



BUT BY THE WAY YOU TALK, YOU MAY HAVE NEVER FELT "THIS" DESIRE?

Iam4U... believe me, you would of had to do something for that to
happen... cause most women won't just do that. They have to have some
kind of signal from you. IE: a sexy kiss!!!

slow, sensual, and sexy kiss = does it everytime

a man can kiss me, and if he's slobberin all over, or tryin to tickle my
tonsils with his tounge, he's gonna know im not thrilled about it, i'll
either turn my head and laugh while wiping my mouth, or i'll stomp on
his foot and walk away...

but now, the man that kisses me slowly, sensually, shows me he has
patience, strength, and confident. he's gonna know it's good by my
puttin my arms around him and leaning into him...

it's the man that kisses like this, that lets me deepen the kiss, that
lets me take the kiss where i want it to, that will take my breath away.

good topic ! continue ladies! SLPAIN MORE!

EVERYBODY KNOWS THAT STUFF - TELL US SOMETHING WE DONT KNOW. LIKE WHY
ARE WE NOT ALLOWED TO DRINK BEER AND WATCH FOTTBALL ON SUNDAYS WITHOUT
GETTING BITCHED AT ? ESPECIALLY AFTER A LONG SESSION THE NIGHT BEFOOR ?
FOOD FOR THOUGHT --- ANY COMMENTS ?

Lunatics Law : The passion of the kiss is equal to and determined by the
passion of the moment!

So Venusian: Believe it or not this goes in reverse at times, so what
happens when we're going in for that first kiss and the woman attacks us
the very same way you're describing? Should we reciprocate or just hold
back?

Ohhh should have known Slugo is gonna come in and turn the tables around
the other way lmao . Actually the kiss is as sexual for the guys as it
is for the girls why these seem to deal with just women who knows. I
will never figure it out. For the guys I know the kiss will either start
it or kill it. Its the roaming of the hands that can turn a woman off
fast don't go straight for her boobs or her crotch right off the bat.
Rub up and down her back and at the base of her neck. Kiss the neck and
the earlobs and yes this works on the man too. Take it nice and slow and
get closer to the other areas slowly not like ya attacking them.

lol

As TXSGAL said: It is the difference of sex and making love!

Well I gotta say something here.

How many guys would actually stop a female when shes the one
attacking??? I sure as hell don't know any...LOL.. what guy's gonna turn
down getting groped or raped??..LOL..SHEESH!!!

And for Spay,well, I guess some women just don't get that a guy has the
right to sit n relax the way he likes to at some point.We all need down
time and time on our own to do whatever it is we need to without gettin
bitched at.I think them type women should just leave the guys alone if
they want to watch their sports and drink beer or whatever.At least you
know where they're at.It's no wonder that when women are constantly
bitchin' about something that the guys leave home and go elsewhere for
some peace and quiet.

And yes, there is a difference between sex and making love, no doubt.But
there are alot out there who still don't see the difference.Those ppl
have not yet really experienced "Making Love" is my guess.