Again, just giving advice, not cutting down or the like. I too left home at 16, because I was working full time and still finishing school. I have a strong belief in God, but I am in no way "religious", because that is just man's way of trying to bring God down to thier level so man can better understand God.

I learned many things very early in life. YOU are responsible for your life. YOU control ONE PERSON in this world..that is YOURSELF. Life is NOT FAIR nor does life care about ANY individual. God gave us all brains...try to use them to the best of your ability..you will still hit potholes and bad times in life..just not nearly as many. Live life like each day was your last. Smile laugh and love as much as possible. And ALWAYS stand for what YOU believe in!

Relax sweetie, a lot of ppl on here do me the same way when I ask for advice. Breathe... b/c, lol, they don't get any nicer.

thank you that really means alot theres someone out there with a head

and when i said someone had a head i was talking about this person and another so yea people if u got things to say just say it cuz really it helps if u believe it or not

God sometime uses different way to make us stronger...if you won all the time you wouldnt be as strong as you would be when you lose, pick yourself up to get back on track. Believe me been through it too...when you meet her it will make up for the hurtin the past...

I've been very nice...lol, but I think you ignored me b/c of me saying I'm not Christian. Haha, its okay.

I have learned that after 53 years on this earth, nothing makes sense sometimes, and you will never know why she is doing what she is doing, but **** does happen and we need to grieve and move on...that's all I know,

everything happens for a reason. but there is something better comin up.

exactly! the person i am today is because of all the little peices of those boys that broke my heart i took... influenced how i was going to into the next relationship.. that is the plan.. to keep growing and learning, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

This is the most basic, and themost common of all human experiences.

If you're going through it for the first time, it may occur to YOU as though it were a NEW phenomenon, BUT IT ISN'T.

'god', the biblical one, or otherwise has nothing to do with this phenomenon.

This is of a 'confused hormones-testosterones' domain, not spiritual in the least.

What there is to do with a 'broken heart' experience is exactly the same as what you would do with a headache:

"... drink lots of 'liquids', eat, sleep, go to work or shcool, and shower regularly...".

Being depressed, feeling down on yourself, blaming 'god', your parents, or your hamster, feeling like life is not fair, etc., are compulsory attitudes which come with the experience, so you're doing well.

Like the headache, give it time, it will pass!!!


By the way, if you believe in 'god' and providence, read 'Melissaann87' post several times, very slowly, and look at her picture.

Recovery from YOUR 'broken heart' may be shorter than most if you pay attention to the 'Melissaann87' of the world!!!

you are a sweetheart

Aw come on.....stop whining! The reason you are feeling so bad is because you were wrong and you can't admit it. Just admit you chose the wrong person and move on. Why the heck would you even want to be with someone who treated you like that?
You have no idea how cool God is.
God is love. He loves you and he loves the girl who broke your heart. Start trusting Him to find the right one.
And pray for this girl,.........that she will find the right one. It's not you. Get over that thought. All our thoughts are not right. Just cause you think something, does not make it the truth or right. Everything we do is not led of the Lord.
Everytime someone is killed or raped, it's THEIR will doing it. NOT GOD'S! If people knew God, they would know that God is love as the bible says. God doesn't kill or rape or cause people to feel unloved.
He wants to give you peace and joy and a life of blessing. Stop getting in the way and stop acting like a child who freaks out when they don't get their way.
You don't want a person who does't love you. Get it?
As soon as you get it, you will be OK!
KK

it may not be me but i started dating her when i was 14 and we broke up this Christmas so yea not meant to be thing sorry out of the ?

Thank you, darlin

I've had my heart broken more times than I can count, after a while it just rolls off of your back...lol, you'll be fine.

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Vander Dussin aka Candice-- you're awesome!!!! you got exactly what I was trying to say-- You're way smart for someone your age-- Just absolutely brilliant!!!

With every pain and every joy you learn something new about yourself. What makes you happy also changes with time. That's how we grow as people. Without sorrow, joy can't be experienced to its fullest. Really, if God was supposed to protect us from life, then why would we live it? It would be pointless.

try being with someone for more the 5yrs and not get ur heart broken ok when u do that then tell me i dont have the right to try to get help and im only 19 and she was my only girlfriend so yea

That just means it was meant to be then. I was with a man for 3 years whom I thought I'd marry and be with forever until he started treating me wrong and hitting me. He and I were meant to be- for the time that we WERE. Now we're not meant to be anymore, and thats just a part of life. You were with her for so long that you probably lost sight of who YOU are. Take some time to find yourself, and if in the mean time you meet someone then great, if not try to be happy with your own company. I'm slowly learning this one too, I had to take a break from guys and dating. Right now I'm working on ME, getting back to the me that I love and enjoy being.

Why is it everytime something bad happens we try and blame God?
God had nothing to with your meeting that girl, or your break-up.
You said to someone else that you werent wining, that you were just seeking advice...But that wasn't true. I don't see where you were seeking advice at all, and you were wining. But you do have a reason too. You do have a reason to be upset. I feel bad for you, because I have been there, and so has everyone else here. It does hurt.
But next time try asking for advice, and don't put the blame on God.

i wish i was working on me im to worried about her and what its gonna do to me im used to spending ever day and night in bed with her not its hard to sleep shes not there with u its weired