That's just ridiculous!!!.. God doesn't micromanage humanity!! "God" didn't "let" anything happen-- You met that woman for a reason and the reason was to simply have some type of experience with her or be enlightened by her in some form or fashion--even if it was merely to pose your question and spur a response out of me-- but inevitably you did gain something from being with her the limited time that you had but simply to naive to realize such... But when all is said and done ---you are the one inevitably responsible for the interaction-- not necessarily physical you perhaps spiritual you-- and spiritual you merely wanted to have a limited interaction with her which it did and when the time was up it ended---Period!!! - Get a grip.. you obviously missed the important lesson and hence are expectedly disappointed.