words are just words, it's people who apply the negative connotations.

i prefer a girl who'll speak her mind and maybe use a little bit of a foul mouth.

it's just language people, just have to know when it is and isn't apropriate

Useing foul language and getting down and nasty with sex talk with strangers seems like a lack of imagination or vocabulary to carry on a normal level of communication to me.

I will give you a bye on the idea that some men are nothing more than pigs hun, but the very same thing is true about women also.
I treat every single female I meet as a lady (opening doors, trying not to use too foul of language in her presence [I do fail sometimes at this one] going with her choice when we are undecided about what to do, etc. etc. etc.). I always treat a female as a lady unless she acts in a way to state she is not a lady. For example: cussing like a sailor (forgive me sailors, lol), pouring alchohol down their throats like they are a dried out sponge that needs to be saturated in order to survive, throwing punches at someone simply because they disagree with them.
In other words if a female acts with respect towards herself and others, I treat her with that same respect and dignity. If hse is crass and crude and belligerent I dont have the time of day to even achnowledge her.

I agree, a person should show self respect and then respect for others. Young ladies acting out badly is not attractive. I am not saying I cannot get down and dirty with the best of them and cuss and fight and all that but that is only when pushed. I act like a lady. It is my self respect that I am showing by doing it. One cannot expect to get respect if they don't even show any for themselves. JMO

Sorry dude, but I love women who let me know what they want, how they feel, and are not sexually constrained to being what we feel a woman should be. I mean, alot of men are blunt to the point they tell there women these things. How come all of a sudden we feel women need to just shut there mouth?

Dude, I feel you are just stating your opinion here, but you are also coming off judgmental. If women offend you now, then try to find a chic who will just keep her mouth shut, and be all nice, prim and proper for you. Cause if that is what you want, then so be it. Be....NEWS FLASH.....women are vocal, and that is a good thing. Least I feel it is.

Since my divorce last December, I've dated about seven different women, all different shapes and sizes. Some were knockouts, some weren't. They spanned all economic lines, ect.
You know what I noticed? Women are as bad, if not worse than men!
In what way you ask? Well, for starters their mouths! Holy Cows a Moses! Nothing says skank like continually dropping the F-bomb and the C-word.
And when did it become lady like to tell me about where you're shaved, where you like to stick it, how you like to suck this or that, ect.?
Have I missed something in five years?
This doesn't just apply to women I've dated, it seems to apply universally. I talked to this sweet girl I work with and she confirmed it... What happened to being a lady?
Or am I just completley out of touch? Maybe it has to do with the hip hop music or something
Are girls a lot different than when we was kids?

Some guys, try most guys. You may not, or a few others, but for the most part from what I have seen in the last few months it's not worth getting ready for a date that is going to end badly.

As long as it isn't around the kids, I could care less-til you turn red lol

Since my divorce last December, I've dated about seven different women, all different shapes and sizes. Some were knockouts, some weren't. They spanned all economic lines, ect.
You know what I noticed? Women are as bad, if not worse than men!
In what way you ask? Well, for starters their mouths! Holy Cows a Moses! Nothing says skank like continually dropping the F-bomb and the C-word.
And when did it become lady like to tell me about where you're shaved, where you like to stick it, how you like to suck this or that, ect.?
Have I missed something in five years?
This doesn't just apply to women I've dated, it seems to apply universally. I talked to this sweet girl I work with and she confirmed it... What happened to being a lady?
Or am I just completley out of touch? Maybe it has to do with the hip hop music or something
Are girls a lot different than when we was kids?

Why should you act any different away from your kids than when around them? If it is too bad to be aorund children, then isnt it too bad to be around period?

im not a lover of swearing, and hopefully am a lady too...but doesny this work both ways..ive talked to some seemingly nice gentleman on another site and as soon as i have said yes to talking on msn they think they have the right to send pics of there privates and start talking dirty ..so erm works both ways in my books

Sounds like a bunch of old fogies in here.

I do have to agree with most of you, although it's a bit chauvenistic to just harp at the women. To me, over-use of foul language shows a total lack of consideration for those around you. It seems no one stops to think what effect their words have on others. Some say it's freedom of speech. But they forget one simple truth: your freedom to swing your fist ends where my nose begins.