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also, she says she has had commitment issues in the past with guys not giving her enough space, I am giving her a lot of space. Would flowers be going too far if she has issues like that?
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flowers are good!!!
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Flowers would not be going too far, and it does not have to be roses
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another question, i'm going to get her flowers, does it have to be roses? No, it doesn't have to be roses. Get her flowers that to YOU match her personality. I've gotten everything from a single rose to a small tropical rainforest. My favorite was a wild flower that my on again off again sweetie gave me because he said it reminded him of me. Something pretty, but unexpected. |
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As far as her needing her space, and having commitment issues in the past ...Some people are like that so you have to be careful. Don't push anything or you will end up getting hurt, unless you need your space too.
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i do need my space too. She is actually the one that's asked me out on every date, unfortunately I am the one who thinks of things to do every time, haha. Just need some ideas from her as well
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Well it sounds like things are going well, and there is plenty of things to do in NY
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Edited by
stevenpwis
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Wed 01/23/08 11:37 AM
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Well it sounds like things are going well, and there is plenty of things to do in NY Not in Rochester NY, unless you like bars...neither of us are drinkers or really into the bar scene |
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Just ask and see where she stands on the "couple" issue. Just be honest and mention the previous conversation on commitment and tell her you're not trying to crowd her, you just don't want your legs kicked out from under you. After all, YOU don't want to end up with commitment issues as well if she hurt you, right?
Good luck! As for flowers? I'm sure she'd appreciate the gesture.
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Fix another romantic dinner, and rent a movie.
Or go to a comedy club....get out the yellow pages and look under entertainment. Movies? 
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I've been dating a girl for 2 and a half weeks now, going on our sixth date today. Do I just assume we are a couple now or do I ask her? I've never really understood how someone becomes an actual couple. ASSUME??? Have you never heard what assuming does? It makes an 'ass' out of 'u' n 'me' ....... Don't evaaaaaaaaah assume, especially not where a woman is concerned 
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I am cooking her another dinner tonight. She likes romantic comedies and I do own Stranger than Fiction, that would be a pretty good one I think.
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a person can still be an 'individual' yet be a couple you have hobbies and things you enjoy doing as does she (hopefully)....life is growth and you should not feel smothered by a relationship of being exclusive.... just my opinion.... |
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Sounds good.
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what actually happened to people in this world? People want a relationship yet they don't want to spend a lot of time with their partner
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Like I said some people are like that.
I am not one of those people, and I know how it feels to be with someone that is the exact opposite. If you are the type of person that likes to spend a lot of time with the person you care for and she is not, then you have to be very careful or you WILL GET HURT 
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what actually happened to people in this world? People want a relationship yet they don't want to spend a lot of time with their partner It's not always about want. It's a busy world we live in and the only way to make things work is (oh gee have you heard this a million times in this thread  ) to talk.
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I've been dating a girl for 2 and a half weeks now, going on our sixth date today. Do I just assume we are a couple now or do I ask her? I've never really understood how someone becomes an actual couple. You are asking a bunch of single people. wish I could help.... 
Nawwwwwww...I would have said that if that is what I thought. |
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Have you had sex with her yet?
Also, I think you'd have to "ask her out" if you want to make things official. |
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