Topic: what do i do?
stevenpwis's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:22 AM

How have the dates been going, how do you think she feels?
Has she been calling you, have you been calling her?
Any touching?
Do you feel chemistry towards her, or between the both of you?
Any sparks...butterflies in your stomach...etc?:wink:


The dates have been going very well, we kiss, hug, hold hands, talk about everything. She calls me, when we are both online she instant messages me before I have a chance to get her first. There are no butterflies, I feel very comfortable.

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Wed 01/23/08 10:25 AM

I've been dating a girl for 2 and a half weeks now, going on our sixth date today. Do I just assume we are a couple now or do I ask her? I've never really understood how someone becomes an actual couple.


if you are unsure that you are a couple then there are some sure fire ways to find out.. you can simply ask her if you two are a couple or the next time you two go out just gock at the first woman with big boobs and you will definetly at that point in time find out by looking at her face or if you find yourself having to duck

KennethP5206's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:28 AM
Well it sounds like things are going good. Do you do anything for her like flowers, anything special?
Just tell her you really like her a lot, and that you really enjoy being with her, and enjoy every moment you get to spend with her wether it be on the phone, internet, and especially when you get to hold her. Tell her she makes you feel special.
She will tell you how she feels...Then take it from there.
Good Luckdrinker

stevenpwis's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:32 AM
Edited by stevenpwis on Wed 01/23/08 10:33 AM
I haven't done flowers for her yet
I cooked her dinner and took her to a japanese restaurant with a hibachi cook which i think was pretty special

KennethP5206's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:36 AM
Oh come on guy...be more creative....be more romantic.
When you see her tonight tell her that her parents must be retarted because she sure is special.
Lol...just teasing, but seriously bring flowers tonight, and get her a simple sweet card.:wink:

blancalatina's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:39 AM
I dated my boyfriend for two months solid. He didn't say a word. I asked him one night "honey, can we go steady now?"....it made him laugh and cleared up the doubts. Try it.

KennethP5206's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:42 AM
Also if you get nervous about it, just simply and secretly slip a little note in her pocket or purse telling her how you feel and just ask her how she feels and if she feels the same way to email you.:wink:

msjkk2020's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:43 AM

I've been dating a girl for 2 and a half weeks now, going on our sixth date today. Do I just assume we are a couple now or do I ask her? I've never really understood how someone becomes an actual couple.


You are asking a bunch of single people. wish I could help....

stevenpwis's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:43 AM
i like that note idea

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Wed 01/23/08 10:44 AM

I've been dating a girl for 2 and a half weeks now, going on our sixth date today. Do I just assume we are a couple now or do I ask her? I've never really understood how someone becomes an actual couple.


6 dates in two and half weeks!! I'd say you two have something going on. Sounds like if you're not a couple already you're heading in that direction depending on what your definition of a "couple" is.

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Wed 01/23/08 10:44 AM


I've been dating a girl for 2 and a half weeks now, going on our sixth date today. Do I just assume we are a couple now or do I ask her? I've never really understood how someone becomes an actual couple.


You are asking a bunch of single people. wish I could help....
Just because we are single now...doesnt mean we have no idea what a relationship is like.........you make it sound like we are all a bunch of mindless idiot losers!!noway laugh laugh noway

Jeremmmy's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:45 AM
you know a large amount of beautiful women are lonely just becuase men are to shy to speak up to them you should be assertive,but gentle.You have to bring it up because she's probably already waiting for it

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Wed 01/23/08 10:47 AM

I dated my boyfriend for two months solid. He didn't say a word. I asked him one night "honey, can we go steady now?"....it made him laugh and cleared up the doubts. Try it.
laugh laugh laugh I like that one!!!laugh laugh

KennethP5206's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:51 AM
Notes are always nice, it's fun to get or receive little notes when your not expecting it. You can slip them anywhere, or little cards. You can even write a little note on toilet paper, you just have to make sure you turn it where she can't see it.
Also You can take a bar of soap and put a little message on her bathroom mirror so that she sees it when she walks in.
So many things you can do, just use your imagination along with your heart.
She will appreciate it, and think you are the most romantic guy on the planet.
I will not tell you all my skils, for that I would have to charge...Lol
Good luckdrinker

KennethP5206's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:54 AM
And Jeremmmy is right...Good one

stevenpwis's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:59 AM
a lot of great advice

Jeremmmy's photo
Wed 01/23/08 11:00 AM
I grew up with three sisters and my mom

Jeremmmy's photo
Wed 01/23/08 11:05 AM
women want their men to know what they,the man,wants if the man wants the women he should be the one that states his intentions to her,the worst thing you can do is wait too long to tell her,she might think you have someone else and don't want to commit to her,doubt in most womens head turns to different emotions all of witch can make them think twice about any current man

stevenpwis's photo
Wed 01/23/08 11:08 AM
another question, i'm going to get her flowers, does it have to be roses?

izzie's photo
Wed 01/23/08 11:13 AM
adk her... ask her..


nope we like all kinds of flowers..


i personaly prefer daisies...