What does a woman have to do to be seen for more than her outer being?

Very good question and I would like to know the answer to that as well. There, apparently at least on this site, are too many shallow men. However, the good news is....there are other sites, and some people on them are nicer.

turn the lights out.. real beauty is only a light switch away..

ok for real some peeps are just shallow.. and some of us arent.. so you just got to meet the right one

I have yet to meet a man that is interested in really meeting someone that has all the qualities they are looking for inside but don't have what is considered by many to be the perfect body on the outside. If you do meet them they only want you for their best friend and they continue looking for that perfect unexsisting woman.

In my humble opinion , be honest with yourself first, THEN project that honesty outward, and you may be surprised at the results ...

So are there any real men out there within the state of Michigan that are not shallow?

This could also apply to some of the ladies on this site, they look for that so-called prince charming.
People need to STOP judging the book by its cover.

sweetchele, don't worry, someome will come your way.

My fav saying is,
"you look because I'm diff, I laugh because your all the same"

I couldn't agree with you more. I am on the other end of the realm and get really tired of men contacting me for superficial reasons. There is a lot more to me than being a size 2 and having a cute face. I want a real man who wants a real relationship with the person inside the package. So there is the view from the other side. It is what is inside that needs the TLC.

I'm sure there are. But I haven't found any...yet

I know it sure gets lonely and tiring with all those men like that out there.

He is right people to stop looking for that persect girl or man because that isn't real and i know that is might sound like there is no hope there are people on here with a heart of gold and some people need to see that.

look up Christian Carter

There are shallow people everywhere. On the net and in real life.

Just hang out with us nutcases in the forums and enjoy yourself. If someone interests you, let them know or just say hi.

M

This could also apply to some of the ladies on this site, they look for that so-called prince charming.
People need to STOP judging the book by its cover.

sweetchele, don't worry, someome will come your way.

My fav saying is,
"you look because I'm diff, I laugh because your all the same"

Thank you so much I now have a new saying BRAVO

MOROCCO:
O hell! what have we here?
A carrion Death, within whose empty eye
There is a written scroll! I'll read the writing.
All that glitters is not gold;
Often have you heard that told:
Many a man his life hath sold
But my outside to behold:
Gilded tombs do worms enfold.
Had you been as wise as bold,
Young in limbs, in judgment old,
Your answer had not been inscroll'd:
Fare you well; your suit is cold.
Cold, indeed; and labour lost:
Then, farewell, heat, and welcome, frost!
Portia, adieu. I have too grieved a heart
To take a tedious leave: thus losers part.

I've never heard that saying, but it is one of the best I've seen. I need to remember it. It's a good one.

Isn't it "You laugh because I'm different, I laugh at you because you're all the same"?

As to the actual topic of this thread, I really have to stop coming to JSH. A lot of times I think of very truthful, helpful answers, but they can also be inconsiderate so I don't post them . I say that because I have a comment for this thread, but I'll keep it to myself.

Light switch away, Dont think so. If i take care of myself, why shouldnt I look for someone that also takes care of herself physically

chele, try BBW site. you will be loved!!

Soldierfor"America":

Do you ever, ever have a nice thing to say about women? Or are you just gay and afraid to admit it? This is the second hateful posting I've seen you put up about women. The first was about them being dead.