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Topic: Can men and women be friends?
s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Mon 01/07/08 06:29 PM
yes until there is a developing sexual attraction on one side or the other...then, good luck with that!!

misswright Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 1893	Mon 01/07/08 06:37 PM
They most certainly can!! I used to hang with a couple of guys all the time...we were all best friends and it was never sexual. The hardest part is getting the guy's girlfriend to not feel threatened. Most don't accept their man having a woman friend.

ohmyitsmike Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 117	Mon 01/07/08 06:37 PM
Yep my opinion is you definatley can.

RealtyLady Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 2725	Mon 01/07/08 06:38 PM
yes until there is a developing sexual attraction on one side or the other...then, good luck with that!! True, so true!!

Dreamer01 Joined Wed 09/19/07 Posts: 843	Mon 01/07/08 06:40 PM
Most definitely. I have had so many guy friends who I met from my friends that were dating them. There is usually less drama.

MerriFae Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 10	Mon 01/07/08 06:44 PM
Yes, men and women can be friends. Most of my ex's are now really good friends -- and I have friends I have never been romantically involved with, as well.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Mon 01/07/08 06:51 PM
They most certainly can!! I used to hang with a couple of guys all the time...we were all best friends and it was never sexual. The hardest part is getting the guy's girlfriend to not feel threatened. Most don't accept their man having a woman friend. Yeah that can be a problem....

MattseaY Joined Mon 01/07/08 Posts: 1	Mon 01/07/08 06:55 PM
I sure hope so but unfortunatly i dont have much experiance with friends in general myself let alone the ladys :) and hello to all my first post here testing the waters.

yokoke Joined Wed 09/12/07 Posts: 3142	Mon 01/07/08 06:55 PM
I say yes....

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Mon 01/07/08 06:57 PM
I sure hope so but unfortunatly i dont have much experiance with friends in general myself let alone the ladys :) and hello to all my first post here testing the waters. Welcome...

musichic Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 8937	Mon 01/07/08 07:01 PM
My best friends are guys. I've always been better at making friends with guys than girls.

Quake3 Joined Wed 07/18/07 Posts: 1661	Mon 01/07/08 07:19 PM
I have a few guy friends that I abosolutely adore... We've never had sex we are just great friends... At times it's nice to get the "other" side whether we agree with them or not we can still adore them for the special people they are... don't kid yourself, at one time or another these so called male friends have thought about banging you on more than one occasion. Guy Friend= " a man who can't seem to seal the deal"

tonia25 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 844	Mon 01/07/08 07:22 PM
I have a few guy friends that I abosolutely adore... We've never had sex we are just great friends... At times it's nice to get the "other" side whether we agree with them or not we can still adore them for the special people they are... don't kid yourself, at one time or another these so called male friends have thought about banging you on more than one occasion. Guy Friend= " a man who can't seem to seal the deal" i would have to agree with u on this

misswright Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 1893	Mon 01/07/08 07:26 PM
don't kid yourself, at one time or another these so called male friends have thought about banging you on more than one occasion. Guy Friend= " a man who can't seem to seal the deal" Hmmm...so because they've thought about banging her, they aren't really her friend?? And they just remain her friend because they hope someday to get a chance to seal the deal?? Is that what you are trying to sell us? Sounds like a crock of you know what if ya ask me! Not ALL men think with THAT head!

Quake3 Joined Wed 07/18/07 Posts: 1661	Mon 01/07/08 07:29 PM
Hmmm...so because they've thought about banging her, they aren't really her friend?? And they just remain her friend because they hope someday to get a chance to seal the deal?? Is that what you are trying to sell us? Sounds like a crock of you know what if ya ask me! Not ALL men think with THAT head! goes to show what you know about Men....did I say all Men....no I didn't....If You need Me to dumb it down for You I will. the majority of Men only think about sex with women.... guess that doesn't apply to You?

tonia25 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 844	Mon 01/07/08 07:31 PM
Not saying that the only reason is to seal the deal... but if the opportunity presents itself to "seal the deal" that they would not deny the chance... And I don't think that ALL male/female friendships are on that level but I would say that a good majority are... from my experience.....

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Mon 01/07/08 07:33 PM
Hmmm...so because they've thought about banging her, they aren't really her friend?? And they just remain her friend because they hope someday to get a chance to seal the deal?? Is that what you are trying to sell us? Sounds like a crock of you know what if ya ask me! Not ALL men think with THAT head! goes to show what you know about Men....did I say all Men....no I didn't....If You need Me to dumb it down for You I will. the majority of Men only think about sex with women.... guess that doesn't apply to You? Um ouch..

Quake3 Joined Wed 07/18/07 Posts: 1661	Mon 01/07/08 07:36 PM Edited by Quake3 on Mon 01/07/08 07:36 PM
Um ouch.. I'm not here to cater to Her vanity.

ohmyitsmike Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 117	Mon 01/07/08 07:36 PM
whoa Quake

yokoke Joined Wed 09/12/07 Posts: 3142	Mon 01/07/08 07:36 PM
goes to show what you know about Men....did I say all Men....no I didn't....If You need Me to dumb it down for You I will. the majority of Men only think about sex with women.... guess that doesn't apply to You? Nooooo actually I don't think about sex with women ROFL