Many times i see a women i like at the CLUB or STORE, but don't jump on them fast enoght and by the time i get at them. Another dude is getting there number or has got them on the dance floor. So i say don't wait JUST DO IT. The worst she can say is no.

Jumping on them? Getting them on the floor? What the hell kind of store do you shop at??

LMAO yeah I'm not shopping at that store!!!

I understand what you're saying. Why not trying it the next time the opportunity presents itself. Just don't actually JUMP on them! Most women don't like that sort of thing. Good luck.

Last time a guy jumped on me, my back went out...

You all are silly. "you Don't really jump on them". That's funny you made me laugh. Thanks.

What Floor? THE DANCE FLOOR. I go to clubs that play music. music is something people dance to.meaning you get on the dance floor and dance.

William you are all over the place tonight...

I say go for it and ask them to dance William. I go dancing a lot and I never say no unless the guy is too tiddly or I've just finished dancing and I'm tired. After I say no though, I won't accept a dance from anyone else until that song at least is over.

ChiefPUA seems to have vanished from the scene, but he would have mentioned that there's something in the PUA community called the 3-second rule. If you notice somebody with whom you'd like to strike up a conversation, act on that impulse within 3 seconds. Any more than that and you'll probably lose your nerve or somebody else will get there first.

Nice to be thought of as such a marketable object....NOT.

For goodness sake..... sounds like women are back to being seen as commodities... regressive societies.... fabulous! NOT.

Your todally right good advice

well william u mad a lot of people laugh tomight,,,,,thats a good thing,,,,,i never thought of th 3 second rule but to think about it,,,,,,,i feel it correct,,,,many time i seen some one i would like to meet,,,,,an 4 seconds later,,,,,there gone,,,,,,so go for it in les than 3 seconds,,,,,,like some one said,,,,,,,,,,,,all they can say is no

I am not saying that you are personally guilty of this behaviour, but in my experience, men are still expected to be the pursuers and initiators of relationships. So yes, as long as a majority of people hold that men should pursue and that women should be pursued, then the attitudes to which you object are going to prevail. On the other side of the coin, many women practice deceit and emotional abuse to "test" men. Gender roles being what they are, there will always be people of poor character that behave in ways that the rest of us find embarrassing. Most people, though, just want to get by and the pitfalls generated by traditional gender roles are just obstacles.

Only in America....

I really need a head shaking emoticon....I find this whole American culture, sub-culture fascinating, and so 1950's...

Its a nike commercial.....JUST DO IT!!!

if you slip and break your nose, then the other guy still gets her #

better off hopping

I wouldn't advise jumping on anyone...because last I knew that is considered assault and battery.

And if some man got too aggressive, especially at a grocery store, he may find himself on the floor, lambasted after I slugged him. A better approach is always to try and talk to someone first, even at a bar, or on a dance floor.

You beat me to it!
I didn't completely vanish... I just spend a lot of time out of the house haha

There's another aspect to the 3-second rule that makes it even more important... say you make eye contact with a woman you are interested in. If you wait for longer than 3 seconds to talk to her, you may come off as creepy! Bad.

Seize the moment.