Topic: Unheard
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Sun 01/06/08 10:19 AM


I delete mine everyday or every other day so I can see who is perving me on a regular basisdevil laugh devil

Not all men are "perving" you know?


It was just a joke.....take it easylaugh noway laugh noway

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Sun 01/06/08 10:21 AM


how many profiles have you looked at with out emailing?


I only look at the ones who look at mine. Except when I'm looking at Mutual Match selections, but those profiles are generally 6 words long anyway, so they don't count.

And I never e-mail anybody first.



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Sun 01/06/08 10:21 AM
i don't see it as impolite to not say hi just cuz you looked at their profile. hell some girl makes a stupid comment in a forum i look to see how old they are. they post something like "around here we yadda yadda' i look to see where their from. i view probably a good 200 profiles a day just to get a little more info on the person, i spend all day writing hi messages if i had to write one to everybody i just happened to glance at.

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Sun 01/06/08 10:22 AM

I delete mine everyday or every other day so I can see who is perving me on a regular basisdevil laugh devil


Dang! I knew you would catch me! sad

68chevy's photo
Sun 01/06/08 10:23 AM
Something else I have found, this happened to me...say a person emails you and you email back just to polite. Well at this point this person will not stop emailing you because they think you are interested but you are not, and was just being polite.

azrae1l's photo
Sun 01/06/08 10:24 AM
so your saying you don't like stalkers?

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Sun 01/06/08 10:26 AM


I delete mine everyday or every other day so I can see who is perving me on a regular basisdevil laugh devil

Not all men are "perving" you know?


gee- I would never even think that guys were "perving" me. The joys of not being a beauty queen, I guess

Enya's photo
Sun 01/06/08 10:26 AM

Im with you if your going to look its only polite to say HIflowerforyou love


Yes!
I completely agree.....only if they view repeatdly.

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Sun 01/06/08 10:28 AM



I delete mine everyday or every other day so I can see who is perving me on a regular basisdevil laugh devil

Not all men are "perving" you know?


gee- I would never even think that guys were "perving" me. The joys of not being a beauty queen, I guess


Ok! Just to show you I am a gentleman, I will perve ya!! laugh

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Sun 01/06/08 10:29 AM
Edited by hikerchick on Sun 01/06/08 10:42 AM




Has anyone had alot of viewers?
Some keep viewing(even after you delete them).

Well,if you ever viewed or plan to view me
over and over......

Please,kindly leave a message so I can reply.flowerforyou


You might want to be careful what you wish for, I have 7 or more view me alots of days. If something in your profile interests them then, ok send a email, but if there is no common interests why bother.

I agree 100%. I look at profiles of people who post in the forums -men or women. it doesn't mean I want to date them or start an e-mail correspondence. It just means that I am curious about how old they are, where they live, etc.

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Sun 01/06/08 10:29 AM




I delete mine everyday or every other day so I can see who is perving me on a regular basisdevil laugh devil

Not all men are "perving" you know?


gee- I would never even think that guys were "perving" me. The joys of not being a beauty queen, I guess


Ok! Just to show you I am a gentleman, I will perve ya!! laugh


Ooooh!! Thanks!!!love

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Sun 01/06/08 10:30 AM

Something else I have found, this happened to me...say a person emails you and you email back just to polite. Well at this point this person will not stop emailing you because they think you are interested but you are not, and was just being polite.


That is a tough one. And you can't just come out and say, so are you interested in me or are you just being polite???

Enya's photo
Sun 01/06/08 10:33 AM

so your saying you don't like stalkers?


I'm saying...be polite.If your a constant viewer...at least leave a message.

And,NO, I don't like stalkers.

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Sun 01/06/08 10:34 AM
I think I am turning into a polite stalker!

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Sun 01/06/08 10:35 AM


Something else I have found, this happened to me...say a person emails you and you email back just to polite. Well at this point this person will not stop emailing you because they think you are interested but you are not, and was just being polite.


That is a tough one. And you can't just come out and say, so are you interested in me or are you just being polite???


Guess I don't know how to say that without hurting their pride.

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Sun 01/06/08 10:35 AM



I delete mine everyday or every other day so I can see who is perving me on a regular basisdevil laugh devil

Not all men are "perving" you know?


gee- I would never even think that guys were "perving" me. The joys of not being a beauty queen, I guess

Beauty queen??noway noway noway It was a JOKE!!!! Obviously some people have no sense of humor on Sundays...grumble grumble grumble

Enya's photo
Sun 01/06/08 10:38 AM

I think I am turning into a polite stalker!


'polite?okay.'laugh

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Sun 01/06/08 10:39 AM
Edited by Poetrywriter on Sun 01/06/08 10:41 AM



Something else I have found, this happened to me...say a person emails you and you email back just to polite. Well at this point this person will not stop emailing you because they think you are interested but you are not, and was just being polite.


That is a tough one. And you can't just come out and say, so are you interested in me or are you just being polite???


Guess I don't know how to say that without hurting their pride.


This is such a sensitive area! If someone would keep sending me messages and complimenting on something, I would just send them a "Thank you" and that is it. It is thanking them for the compliment but at the same time, they should realize that if I was interested I would have said more than the 2 words.

Poetrywriter's photo
Sun 01/06/08 10:40 AM


I think I am turning into a polite stalker!


'polite?okay.'laugh


How about a polite stalker who perves on the side?

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Sun 01/06/08 10:41 AM




Something else I have found, this happened to me...say a person emails you and you email back just to polite. Well at this point this person will not stop emailing you because they think you are interested but you are not, and was just being polite.


That is a tough one. And you can't just come out and say, so are you interested in me or are you just being polite???


Guess I don't know how to say that without hurting their pride.


This is such a sensitive area! If someone would keep sending me messages and complimenting on something, I would just send them a "Thank you" and that is it. It is thanking them for the compliment but at the same time, they should realize that if I was interested I would have said more than the 1 word.


I do I keep it short and sweet....but some people just don't get the ideal.