Hi All
This is question to all the folks who are married for more than 5-10 years.
How do you keep the romance alive in your relationship?
After certain period of time, life becomes monotonous with kids, house and romance seems to disappear in thin air.
Also, after this point divorce/search for new partner seems to be a herculean task because you cherish the moment which you had with your current partner.
yeah, keep going on vacations together, doing new things only make it like a routine life.

I feel ya, been there, done that.

Life is what You make it! Many happy marriages out there and many people have happy dating relationships.
Many people do not use the dating app and waist time and playing games.

You both have stopped the pursuit. Remember when you first met and you couldn't wait to see each other? Not to mention keep your hands off each other.

Relationships are like gardens, you have to plan and sow, weed , water, and enjoy the harvest. You have to sow into your marriage if you want to keep your partner interested and looking forward to the time you spend together.

Its very easy to get into a routine with work, kids, car and home maintenance etc. I have been there so I can just tell you what I did. I told my wife one evening when I was frustrated with her hurry up Im tired that I felt like our relationship was very mechanical and lacked all the fun and excitement we used to have and she agreed.

I started making an effort to plan "Sexy nights" which required making time for each other number one. We started by just relaxing and doing things for each other like a full body massage followed by a nice hot bath with music and cocktails. Intimacy is not just sex but spending time meeting each others needs.

One night we went to a sex store together to just look at what kind of things were available and we had so much fun. Talked with some of the staff about different products and apparel and let me tell you what an education we got. Not everything was for us but we had some laughs and bought a couples game and some sexy apparel some massage oil and a couples toy to try.

We found that just by making the time for us to enjoy each other and to try new things we rekindled that white hot feeling we each had when we were just getting started. We have gone onto weekend getaways at a nearby hotel or bed and breakfast just for a couple of nights or spend a night at a local glamp ground. She loves the things that I plan and I love the things she plans. Been rolling strong for 35 years. We still argue and have all the same distractions we always had but we both look forward to our sexy nights together and cant wait to see what the other has planned.

Hope this gives someone inspiration
Love and Peace be with you

Marriage is about Love and commitment.

Many Couples do not know what real Love is.


It is not all about Sex that is ONE thing that deceives people along with other misconceptions.

Boredom occurs wherever the quest for life reduces.Marriage is like a cuisine which you have to customize everyday in order to have the advancing taste of it.Boredom is one of the main challenges of monogamy