Older women are good than younger ones

Age is not just a number - it's a measure of lived experience....

A 30 year old with no kids has no idea what the it is to be a grandparent that his 55 year old lover would. That same 55 year old has already did the carefree party phase. They might entertain the idea for a day - but their days of benders are over. And as for dreams of starting a family - forget about it.

A 35 year old dude grinding, raising his value, owning his own home and trying to cut out a living for himself, has less in common than a 25 year old bimbo who hasn't really figured things out yet. She will have to in the next 5 years, so they may play along being naive. They would make the best mothers biologically, but fast forward to 45 and she's 35, there's a high probability that she will find herself bored and feel like she's missing something since she'll feel like gave herself up early. It will only be later, after the divorce, after banging a bunch of dudes that are just there for the cooch - that she realizes that nothing has really changed, and that the grass is only greener where you water it. She may never even realize that, it depends on how bright she is.

Perhaps a 75 year old with one foot in the grave might have more in common with his 55 year old counter part. But I'd think with this situation I'd be concerned that the younger one is looking for a payday. I can't imagine that a pair of wrinkly balls or tube sock knockers would turn anyone on, when they can have a the same version or even younger model. And I can't see changing an adult diaper or feeding pudding to a reduced mobile or cognitive person being a goal.

hi baby

I prefer older women for one I'm older but the most important reason is that they are mature and usually know how to rock your world even when I was in my 20s I preferred older women cause I wanted to learn from experience how to rock some world's myself

As an older woman, I prefer to do things alone.

because you have experience which is more enjoyable

if you find a loving and caring person then would you like to stay with him?

¹I would rather dp a young chic and

Why would anyone really have to defend their reasoning for who we date race, age, cultures, it is who they want.

yes I want you

Fully Agree
Cougars hv more experience than younger man to psychologically satisfy
She too can quench femdom fetish of man if latter have
B4 man cherry pic separated/Div/Widow he ought to check issues born were natural or Caesarian so that in latter orifice dia remain intact

Growing old and staying alone is a different sickness all together because you’d need people around you and especially a lover who is going to make you feel special and support you in everything

bobtail, why is it I find myself disagreeing with you so often.
Raised by different grandmothers I suppose.
The first part of your post didn't necessarily provide anything truly objectionable, but that last paragraph REALLY set my hackles in full stand-up mode.

When my wife took ill this last time she didn't make it, but if the doctors had miraculously been able to save her life it would have meant she would have lived every day having to change colostomy bags, and diapers, and lawdy knows what other physical infirmities I would have had to endure with her.

But you know what else?

I DON'T CARE !!!

I married her because of a deep and abiding love burrowed into my bones.
I promised to love and cherish her until death do us part in the marriage ceremony and in the promise I made to her father when I asked for his permission to ask for her hand in marriage.
And I meant every damn word of it.

I stayed with her when she lost her kidneys and the year of 3x/week dialysis.
I stayed with her through the devastatingly expensive cost of a transplant ($1.1 Million nearly broke the bank & wiped out any hope of a more comfortable retirement).

I stayed with her through 17 YEARS of all the medical complications & doctors' visits of living with a transplant.
And as sure as peanut butter sticks to your tongue I would have stuck with her through colostomy bags, diaper changes, and whatever else came with the good fortune of spending even 1 more day with her, albeit hopefully 20 years or more.

BECAUSE I LOVED HER, and nothing, nothing at all, could ever destroy that.
At least not in my heart, and those problems would have only shown her that I loved her even more than she ever realized - though lawdy I told her often enough.

Old Coot; You are truly a man of integrity so very rare these days. I salute you.

OldCoot there are not many that understands what love really means when it comes to health reasons.. or age....

I have friends that are 20+ years apart and the woman is the oldest.. They truly match to a T, I have not known very many that have the love they share..

As far as health I have many I know that was by their spouses side to the end.. that is true love.


As far as the Topic goes who knows why some men prefer older women??

Could it be they actually related or understood them more. Maybe the extra time they wanted to spend with them and made it known. Maybe taking charge of dealing with everyday things.

Who knows is it wrong??

Hell no if they both get along and are happy who's business is it anyway??

As long as they are of legal age others need to step back and let people live their own lives as they choose..~~ JMO...

I love older women