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Topic: Is it ok to date her friend?
corporatemike_85 Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 26	Wed 01/02/08 05:37 PM
I have to friends who ive known for about 6 months now. One I dated very briefly and found out we werent exactly compatable. I am starting to hang out with the other a lot now and I am really starting to like her. She says the same thing about me, but the 2 girls have been best friends since they were kids. Should I go for it?

boxturtle247 Joined Wed 02/07/07 Posts: 213	Wed 01/02/08 05:38 PM
tough call. is the other girl ok with it?

corporatemike_85 Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 26	Wed 01/02/08 05:39 PM
well yeah she says its cool but you can tell by the look in her eyes its not. But i really like the other girl...

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 01/02/08 05:39 PM
Ask them how they feel about it

Mike91ZX Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 317	Wed 01/02/08 05:39 PM
well yeah she says its cool but you can tell by the look in her eyes its not. But i really like the other girl... Just do it.

boxturtle247 Joined Wed 02/07/07 Posts: 213	Wed 01/02/08 05:39 PM
sounds like a tough situation. have you talked about your concerns to the girl you're thinking of dating?

corporatemike_85 Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 26	Wed 01/02/08 05:40 PM
Oh and FYI they talk about "everything" they freakin gossip all the time... but then again almost all women are like that I guess.

justafunguy Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 94	Wed 01/02/08 05:40 PM
DONT DO IT.SO MUCH DRAMA WILL BE COMING HER WAY AND YOURS.

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Wed 01/02/08 05:40 PM
you don't need permission... you weren't compatible...that's it...date her friend it will do you and her some good

GregHeartsYou Joined Sun 11/11/07 Posts: 375	Wed 01/02/08 05:40 PM
Do it. You've only known her six months, it's not like she's a lifelong friend, you know?

GregHeartsYou Joined Sun 11/11/07 Posts: 375	Wed 01/02/08 05:42 PM
Ha, maybe you can pull threesies? Good luck, bro.

corporatemike_85 Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 26	Wed 01/02/08 05:42 PM
true yeh I guess ur right but i just dont wanna get serious and then when we argue about **** she all of a sudden goes to her bff and talks about it. I hate that

Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Wed 01/02/08 05:42 PM
Tough one. If it's love - it's love. But you had better be as sure as If that's the case her friend will come around, but it will take some time.

RealtyLady Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 2725	Wed 01/02/08 05:43 PM
Ain't goin' there!!!!

Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Wed 01/02/08 05:43 PM
as sure as possible

corporatemike_85 Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 26	Wed 01/02/08 05:44 PM
Oh and just to add more fuel to the fire we are ALL in the same "click" of friends, like 10 people

BLACKWOLF2008 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 5	Wed 01/02/08 05:44 PM
GO FOR IT I WOULD LOL

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Wed 01/02/08 05:46 PM
true yeh I guess ur right but i just dont wanna get serious and then when we argue about **** she all of a sudden goes to her bff and talks about it. I hate that That's the risk you run isn't it? Does anything good ever come easy? If you really like her and think you can have something then go for it. If not then forget it. It's really not a tough call.

justafunguy Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 94	Wed 01/02/08 05:47 PM
DONT DO IT.ITS A NO WIN THING.

azrae1l Joined Sat 03/24/07 Posts: 3624	Wed 01/02/08 05:47 PM
see if you can get them in a 3some...........