y is it that i can never find someone that likes me for me. i cant even get people to talk to me on this site what the heck. im not a bad person, i think people are scared b/c i have 2 kids and i am divorced.

43 posts its because no one knows you


jump into the threads and you will get noticed

maybe your saying the wrong things. i might strike the "love my kids like their own" outta there, kinda sounds like your looking for a father right off the bat and that sends up warning signs to most guys.

try just to describe your personality and your interests and see what happens.

In time you will find the right man for you, I hope you have better luck talking to people on here :-)

Post in the forums more......people usually will talk to you here!

Don't feel bad, no one likes me and I have 0 kids and have never been married. Seriously, just keep chatting, maybe you will make friends. :)

hey I have three..
And I have come to a point where I just talk because I
want to..whether anybody talks to me or not..
Hey Will you be my friend..
Life is beautiful sometimes..and its a new year 2008//
Tami

This is good advice

too bad tami lives in florida, i'd date her.

hey I'm looking for that,.,.(A Man and A Father Figure)
And not afraid to be honest//
and gonna put out any fake emotions and needs..
its all a thing..and I am in reality..and I can do it
with just my God,,but its good to be real too ya know..
No man is an island.!!!!!!!!
xxoo to all

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Cherish each moment, leaving the bad behind.
Take time to notice all around you.
Look at things in a different view.
Smile more often- try not to frown.
Give yourself a hug, Then dance around.
Be thankful for what you got-
Some folks are a whole lot- worse off.
Worry only cuts your life short.
Spread joy around you- erase the gloom.
Even if your stuck in your room.
Live each moment- as if it were your last.
Throw yourself a party- have your own blast!
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By: Susan (aka: Teddy) 12-31-07
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Thanx Azrae
So cool Its always good to hang out .
Tami

it's ok to want a father figure for your kids, they all need that. but (just my personal opinion) i would want to break that in slowly and not push that topic too hard, guys get scared easily.

GYPSY41 IS RIGHT.

I WANT TO ASSURE YOU,BIENG DIVORCED WITH 2 KIDS....DOESNT MATTER.

PEOPLE HERE ARE VERY OPEN AND FRIENDLY.(EVEN THE STAFF)

PLUS,ALOTTA THESE FORUMS CAN MAKE YOU LAUGH!
(TICLKE,TICKLE)

Hey, Mum

Maybe it is because we live in KANSAS

I looked at your page. Switch to the picture with glasses. It is cuter. You are 20 and the picture in the red dress isn't to clear on your face, you look 40 the way the site is showing the picture. It looks like a smudge or a bit of glare near one side of your face. You have next to no information in your profile about yourself. Talk about yourself a little. Explain your interests more.

I don't think it has anything to do with the children. Just the way you are showing yourself on your profile.

That was beautiful.......can I borrow it for a friend???

thats true, nothing good ever came out of kansas......

but i have to say im with Az on this one its best not to push but bring it in slowly

any man that even starts to get to know a single mom//
They allready know that anyway..
(but I understand what your saying..some people it takes time to move into..)
Tami