Topic: Y ME
azrae1l's photo
Mon 12/31/07 11:56 AM
thats a much better start mum, and i agree the pic of you in glasses should be the main one.

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Mon 12/31/07 11:57 AM
momovtoo,..
c'mom were all trying to talk to ya..
blurb something..

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Mon 12/31/07 11:57 AM
You sure can- (((Gypsy))) flowerforyou Thanks!

azrae1l's photo
Mon 12/31/07 11:58 AM

any man that even starts to get to know a single mom//
They allready know that anyway..
(but I understand what your saying..some people it takes time to move into..)
Tami


well being a single father, i don't want any woman moving in on my kid right away. if me and her get along and it turns serious then i'll let her in with the kid. i'm not gonna let him get attached to somebody just to break it off and break his heart, his mother already did that to him and thats enough. if he's gonna get attached to a woman i'd rather know she's sticking around.

countrybelle6471's photo
Mon 12/31/07 11:58 AM
hey hun just give it time..and it will happen..talk.you'll make friends.And then it goes from there..But its always hard when you 1st start looking I know..Have A HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!

mumovtoo's photo
Mon 12/31/07 11:59 AM
i was busy with all the suggestions so does my page look more invitng now??? thanks for all of the suggestions they were really helpful

UWannaBSpontaneous's photo
Mon 12/31/07 11:59 AM

y is it that i can never find someone that likes me for me. i cant even get people to talk to me on this site what the heck. im not a bad person, i think people are scared b/c i have 2 kids and i am divorced.


You know you have two kids. So do I. My profile is "freinds" because it doesn't really matter to me. I have two kids to be with already.

Why isn't that enough for now? My kids are 11 and 14 and in the next hour we all are goin' out. When they were younger we did the same thing.

Stop pushing to meet someone and I agree with AZ1. Take the love my children as your own??????

Ease into things. You are way rushing it. Spend some time maturing. Married and two kids at 20 is a little young for these types of lifes experiences. Take care of the kiddies and don't expect any relationship.

It's what I do and it works for me.

J





adj4u's photo
Mon 12/31/07 12:00 PM
Edited by adj4u on Mon 12/31/07 12:01 PM
good to see ya made it back

i was beginning to think ya got kidnapped


blushing blushing blushing

azrae1l's photo
Mon 12/31/07 12:00 PM
yeah it's looking a lot better. just another tip: try to set a time limit to add something new. i try to put at least one new sentence in a week, but thats just me.

no photo
Mon 12/31/07 12:01 PM
see,people are thakin to you now.bigsmile

no photo
Mon 12/31/07 12:01 PM
someone might not like you but at least you're alive and safe. Think of the positive things in life and always the negative things. At least someone out there (family or friend) cares about you it could be a lot worse. Not having a boyfriend/girlfriend is certainly not the end of the world.

madamx7316's photo
Mon 12/31/07 12:02 PM

Don't feel bad, no one likes me and I have 0 kids and have never been married. Seriously, just keep chatting, maybe you will make friends. :)


wanna swap lipsticks? lol

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Mon 12/31/07 12:02 PM
Its so difficult to go through life without an companion..
and ya'll know that I can tell..

azrae1l's photo
Mon 12/31/07 12:03 PM
i woulda talked to her before but i'm too old to email her......

UWannaBSpontaneous's photo
Mon 12/31/07 12:03 PM

I looked at your page. Switch to the picture with glasses. It is cuter. You are 20 and the picture in the red dress isn't to clear on your face, you look 40 the way the site is showing the picture. It looks like a smudge or a bit of glare near one side of your face. You have next to no information in your profile about yourself. Talk about yourself a little. Explain your interests more.

I don't think it has anything to do with the children. Just the way you are showing yourself on your profile.


I agree. Get rid of the 2 White washed out photo's. You have a beautiful face so take more beautiful pictures like the first one. Braces is no big deal either.... just the wrong shot makes you look way older and honestly... strange.... when you are not!

Much better profile information now.



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Mon 12/31/07 12:04 PM
and honestly AZ..
do you ever really know that anybody is gonna stick around..
I think there are limitations and moral that you should follow.
But also keep in mind that people change all the time..ya know.
just depends on if you can handle being alone or not.
what ya think
Tami

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Mon 12/31/07 12:06 PM
People are scared because you have kids and divorced? That may not be it. Perhaps you are just too different, your ideas are not like the average person. Keep the faith alive, you will find someone who will want you and only you. Wouldn't you rather have that than just be settled for? Or even you settling for something that you never really wanted in the first place? Fear of being alone is the first sign that you are not ready to experience life with a significant other. Everything works backwards... Like how those who are conceited are really insecure (used as an example relevant to how things work almost backwards). Be independent before you can rely on someone else or take a chance to gamble your heart away.

azrae1l's photo
Mon 12/31/07 12:06 PM

and honestly AZ..
do you ever really know that anybody is gonna stick around..
I think there are limitations and moral that you should follow.
But also keep in mind that people change all the time..ya know.
just depends on if you can handle being alone or not.
what ya think
Tami


i've been alone 7 or 8 years now, i think i can manage........

i just don't want my kid going threw losing another mother.

mumovtoo's photo
Mon 12/31/07 12:21 PM
i did by my children but im back now

no photo
Mon 12/31/07 01:08 PM
you know its kinda of conceided for a man to start dating
a single mom and for him to think that she's gonna end up
picking him to be everything..thats kinda foolish..
everybodys is different and has different beliefs.
and we all got to find someone who we connect with..
right?