I'am sorry?...

what was your point?

*act pulls his little red crayon out... ooooo oooooo ahhhh!

sorry monkey.......but that was way from left field

i'm sorry i fogot to mention "attractive" too..

What if the person is disabled and does not have a job, but supports the well being of the person and pays the bills?

I think thats all I found wrong with that particular list.

oh sh*t, did she just call me ugly? wtf

I don't know what I want . When I figure it out I'll let you know and then you can tell me I don't really want that. make sense?

OOh that was HARSH, girl.

YOU DO have "THAT" as your PROFESSION, in your profile....lol...lol
YOU "POO" slinger!!!!!!

Just speaking from experience as to a decent start....

The point of the job one is....please don't try to move into my house and have me support you...should have probably clarified that one more....disability I understand...I'm a nurse, I deal with the disabled often...

OMG-- when are all the battle of the sexes going to stop?

i support myself with a profession i have had for 25 years, raised three kids by myself the past 6 years (now they relocated with their dad), etc.
but do i want a real man? heck yes-
one that has his faults and can accept mine!!

that is my point.

we as humans tend to wake up with different wants from day to day.

Just my opinion, not stating facts here,

I do understand that there are various levels of our human character and am familiar with such words as “balance”, that and a stagnate personality is not healthy either.

we have good days we have bad days, that aside my points are that conflict is the only thing the human race is really good at. The sooner we understand that about our mates the better we will be able to understand what we have.


*act - Pounds chest

OOOOOOOOOOOHHH (translation are you hearing me?)

I don't think it's a battle of the sexes persay....I think it's more that we're now in a society where women can support themselves and their children and expect the same respect as a human being for doing what men have been doing for centuries.

I'm not a feminist and I actually personally believe that the feminist movement had quite a bit of fallout (some good some bad) on the family structure; however, now it's here and women are working as hard as men and have proved they are quite capable. If we could get that respect in relationships as well where we are not supposed to either be the subservient woman at home while still having a career and/or not have a man decide that since a woman can pay the bills he shouldn't have to contribute equally financially (to the best his career will allow), in the home and in the relationship, then a lot more relationships would work.

Women now are/have broken through the glass ceiling at the office but it seems we're still supposed to then come home and take care of the kids, the cooking, the cleaning and the other little things that make having the energy for focusing on your significant other exhausting. Granted, I'm speaking on what I have experienced and perhaps I've looked in the wrong places and occasionally chosen wrong but I do think that if you're talking about a serious committed relationship where both people are working, then to make the relationship work you have to work together on the issues at home that are basic things such as dishes, dinner, laundry, taking out the trash, car repair, etc. Even when I've found someone that was an equal or making less money than I do, I still have come home with the expectation that I take care of all the household responsibilities.

Fact of the matter is, my ex-husband and I get along very well, make equal money financially, have joint custody and yet I have to make sure he gets Boy Scouts taken care of, talk with all of the teachers, get him to the doctor, push my ex to take him to the dentist when he's with my son. My ex is a good person and a great father....but we're in a limbo where the mindset of relationships and family roles have not caught up with the needs of relationships.

As a woman, its hard to work 8-10 hours a day, come home and take care of a child, the household chores, bills, etc and then still have the energy to jump into bed and be the wild woman.

I know it's a long response but it's what I've found are issues with relationships for me....balance is still not there.

when asexuality occurs and there is no need to have two opposing sides for a genetic dominate proliferations act to occur.

or when one or the other puts a raised hand out with a lowered chin

*act- hits ground with a stick

No!! U just took it the wrong way..did i mention anyone was ugly here? did i use the word ugly????? No!!!

Hell I just want a man period.

Talk about harsh. Damn... I think that nurse needs to get some loving attention and quit being such a stick.

People have disabilities. Thats just life many support themselves. However I must missed the part where I said to have them come and live with you and for you support them.

Perhaps you should have a little compromise while still fulfilling your wishes.

Just a word to the wise.

Also not all people are going to be like or ex's. IF that is your belief. Then you will have a cold and lonely life.

I don't think it's a battle of the sexes persay....I think it's more that we're now in a society where women can support themselves and their children and expect the same respect as a human being for doing what men have been doing for centuries.

I'm not a feminist and I actually personally believe that the feminist movement had quite a bit of fallout (some good some bad) on the family structure; however, now it's here and women are working as hard as men and have proved they are quite capable. If we could get that respect in relationships as well where we are not supposed to either be the subservient woman at home while still having a career and/or not have a man decide that since a woman can pay the bills he shouldn't have to contribute equally financially (to the best his career will allow), in the home and in the relationship, then a lot more relationships would work.

Women now are/have broken through the glass ceiling at the office but it seems we're still supposed to then come home and take care of the kids, the cooking, the cleaning and the other little things that make having the energy for focusing on your significant other exhausting. Granted, I'm speaking on what I have experienced and perhaps I've looked in the wrong places and occasionally chosen wrong but I do think that if you're talking about a serious committed relationship where both people are working, then to make the relationship work you have to work together on the issues at home that are basic things such as dishes, dinner, laundry, taking out the trash, car repair, etc. Even when I've found someone that was an equal or making less money than I do, I still have come home with the expectation that I take care of all the household responsibilities.

Fact of the matter is, my ex-husband and I get along very well, make equal money financially, have joint custody and yet I have to make sure he gets Boy Scouts taken care of, talk with all of the teachers, get him to the doctor, push my ex to take him to the dentist when he's with my son. My ex is a good person and a great father....but we're in a limbo where the mindset of relationships and family roles have not caught up with the needs of relationships.

As a woman, its hard to work 8-10 hours a day, come home and take care of a child, the household chores, bills, etc and then still have the energy to jump into bed and be the wild woman.

I know it's a long response but it's what I've found are issues with relationships for me....balance is still not there.


Yet another great point,

And one that hinted to a possible feeling that maybe changing 250,000 years of evolution in 30 years might have had some repercussions?

Hey I am not making waves here, maybe little ripples, you will know when I make waves!

But is it too much to ask for full time open conversation? I feel that woman expect males to KNOW when we are to switch, and I am here to say I am not a light switch, I can be all those things that I put on my list, but not at the same time!

When I here a woman say that she wants this and that in a man, I can tell you with absolute certainty, she is full of it 99% of the time.

Yes of course we all want nice, good, tender, caring, nurturing, pretty, this is easy, MY point is ladies, you also want to have protection, challenge, and some one to take the heat at times.

*act – climbs a tree to the highest branch.

Yet another great point,

And one that hinted to a possible feeling that maybe changing 250,000 years of evolution in 30 years might have had some repercussions?

Hey I am not making waves here, maybe little ripples, you will know when I make waves!

But is it too much to ask for full time open conversation? I feel that woman expect males to KNOW when we are to switch, and I am here to say I am not a light switch, I can be all those things that I put on my list, but not at the same time!

When I here a woman say that she wants this and that in a man, I can tell you with absolute certainty, she is full of it 99% of the time.

Yes of course we all want nice, good, tender, caring, nurturing, pretty, this is easy, MY point is ladies, you also want to have protection, challenge, and some one to take the heat at times.

*act – climbs a tree to the highest branch.