Remember when you weren't single? Were you in love? If so then you probably had a heart break. If not it's better to be single than with someone you don't love. Hold out singles for love - don't settle for the sake of settling. Spend lonely times on sites like this as I and others do. Easier said than done. When I'm hungry any food suffices, but when I'm not hungry I will eat select food if it's tasty. I don't want to hook up with someone because "I'm hungry", but because I am in love. O the vulnerability of being alone. God help me and others conquer this.

AMEN bother amen !

Very well said. And don't settle for anything less.

right, well the whole thing is when you have someone you don't usually long for anyone else because so people say that person makes you feel whole and suffices yes, as soon as you become single, you almost want to take anyone because people in general don't want to be alone

Well said Derek
I like your food metaphor.

Derekkye-

You aren't alone! You have all of us!!

But I agree. Being in the wrong relationship is infinitely more painful than being by yourself. Actually I like myself and don't mind spending time with me - we have so much in common, you see. And I never say mean things to me.

Very well put..

Words I needed to hear right now... thank you.

AMEN to that. and WE the ALONE do seem to jump toward another to open minded and desiring...

We can only be said to be alive in those moments when
our hearts are conscious of our treasures.. Alone or
not you will find someone when you least expect it, but
until then treasure what you do have.

I an't a settling this time. He will have to come to me. I am so tired of the games. Want to get to know him and then fall in LOVE. (Where are you and come find me, I'm here on JSH)

Good lawd.!!!!


Are you channelling Doctor Phil?