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Topic: why is true love so hard to find ?
Maria Joined Mon 02/15/21 Posts: 4	Sat 02/26/22 05:35 AM
VERY TRUE...THE PROBLEM IS EACH THINKS THEY HAVE THE ANSWER....WE ARE ARE INDIVIDUALS WITH DIFFERENT EXPERIENCES AND OF THE EXPERIENCES THAT ARE THE SAME WE TAKE IN DIFFERENTLY AND INTERPRET DIFFERENTLY...QUESTION.....DO YOU THINK YOU ARE ''O,K,'' ? DO YOU THINK OTHER PEOPLE ARE ''O,K,'' ?.....IT HAS TO DO WITH NOT ONLY UNDERSTANDING OTHERS, BUT ALSO UNDERSTANDING OURSELVES...EXAMPLE, ONE WOMEN I WAS TALKING WITH WOULD ALWAYS SABOTAGE EVERY RELATIONSHIP SHE WAS IN....WE FOUND OUT THAT IN HER HEART SHE BELIEVED SHE DID NOT DESERVE TO BE HAPPY........UNFORTUNATELY WE CONCENTRATE ON RELATIONSHIP SURFACE NOISE AND NOT THE REAL PROBLEM....WE HAVE TO UNDERSTAND OURSELVES FIRST BEFORE WE UNDERSTAND OTHERS..... thats true before you can understand others you have to ynderstand yourself first as the same goes the saying you can never love truly others if you dont know how to love youreslf first !( im i saying it correctly ) in many instances one has to find herself first b4 finding othere no wonder i couldnt find anybody here as i dont know where i am now ...

beautyinheart Joined Tue 01/05/16 Posts: 4	Sat 02/26/22 10:11 AM
i think we have some people who are on dating because they are just bored. some have their partners but you find them on dating site ,married as they are. some are there not because they looking for love. only small percentage of people find love.

Slim gym Joined Tue 05/14/19 Posts: 39473	Sat 02/26/22 02:14 PM
In today's world of restrictions and doubts, it's even harder to find true love ... but make no mistakes ... it does exist and I just found it ... she is great looking and very rich ... a combination that's hard to beat ... unfortunately, she was a scammer .... but I continue to seek that elusive woman!!!!

Unknow Joined Tue 03/08/22 Posts: 12	Sat 03/12/22 05:38 AM
because it's a myth

Matty Joined Fri 03/25/22 Posts: 2	Sat 03/26/22 05:41 AM
In today’s world, demands in relationships are so intense and there is nothing like forgiveness even if it cost one to die in pain.

Indran Joined Sat 03/26/22 Posts: 3	Tue 03/29/22 02:34 AM
that's so true lack of understanding is the issue

Indran Joined Sat 03/26/22 Posts: 3	Tue 03/29/22 02:35 AM
Because lots of people dont know whats the real meaning of LOVE. lie is one the major problem which break love

Indran Joined Sat 03/26/22 Posts: 3	Tue 03/29/22 02:37 AM
Most of them are selfish. They demands things from partner. It's a main issue.

Unknow Joined Sat 07/10/21 Posts: 54502	Tue 03/29/22 04:32 AM
Because Expenses Have Increased Nothing is hard, Depends on your own mentality.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/25/21 Posts: 1	Thu 03/31/22 10:22 PM
Because people dont like real anymore

Bliseternal Joined Sun 05/31/20 Posts: 1	Thu 04/07/22 11:43 PM
I wanna truly love someone. But unfortunately I can't find anyone to love. That could be a factor. am here to love you.

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Fri 04/08/22 05:28 AM
I believe it's difficult on the dating sites, because too many are thinking that there's someone better in the next profile or with the next click of the mouse. And in doing that, pass up what could have been exactly what they were hoping to find. 🤤 This!!

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Fri 04/08/22 05:29 AM
Because Expenses Have Increased Nothing is hard, Depends on your own mentality. Yeah,and fuels costs are up in the roof...

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Fri 04/08/22 05:31 AM
In today's world of restrictions and doubts, it's even harder to find true love ... but make no mistakes ... it does exist and I just found it ... she is great looking and very rich ... a combination that's hard to beat ... unfortunately, she was a scammer .... but I continue to seek that elusive woman!!!! Slim!!! I was starting to believe till"very rish"!!

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Fri 04/08/22 05:33 AM
because some people go by the looks some by wealth though true love comes from the heart 🤝🤝

skittles Joined Fri 04/08/22 Posts: 1	Fri 04/08/22 08:51 AM
I would like to know . I’m single and ready to start my life with someone ..

Lay Joined Sat 04/09/22 Posts: 1	Sat 04/09/22 01:47 PM
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Debbhay Joined Sat 04/09/22 Posts: 5	Sat 04/09/22 10:39 PM
Coz they're rare. One of a kind.

hadrian Joined Wed 04/13/22 Posts: 1	Thu 04/14/22 11:25 PM
all interesting points here. but we're missing one crucial factor... what is true love? d problem is that there is no universal definition of what "true love" is. similar to d concept of justice, truth, etc... d idea of true love becomes valid insofar as d peron believes it as such. hence, to answer d question why is it difficult to find true love redirects d question to d source. i know of some people who have been in a relationship for decades and we can rightly call it true love. but when one one tries to define it, it might be different from what other folks have in mind... something is true only if u believe in it

Jamezzy Joined Thu 03/31/22 Posts: 4	Mon 04/18/22 09:55 AM
Was true love ever in existence or it's just some kind of conspiracy theory to cage the human mind to believe in what doesn't exist but in whatever the case may be life must proceed.