Topic: why is true love so hard to find ?
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Sun 08/22/21 09:34 AM
Because of us,we people complicated with to many values this day like,, I want to be like that,I want that,I want to look like that,etc'',many people are so hard to please including me I'm not saying I'm better than others.

Good luck to all to find true love

Karam's photo
Tue 08/24/21 04:17 PM
come syria and tell me about love :kissing_heart:

Martha's photo
Wed 09/15/21 01:20 AM
because people move on fast before they can heal.also not knowing your worth make one find fake or imitation love. yes am here to find love but trust me am not desperate to do it at any cost.

yhanimae's photo
Fri 09/17/21 07:52 AM
because true love is distny:grin:

Omar Aquarius's photo
Fri 09/17/21 11:53 AM
Edited by Omar Aquarius on Fri 09/17/21 12:09 PM
There is a broad meaning,lets say types or kinds of love and i assume we are talking about the love between a man and woman.Unless you are a pet or a toddler...the rest of us have to earn this kind of love. According to my ongoing research, on this part of the world where i live,a good number of men are capable of truly loving a woman, as for a woman truly loving a man...ofcourse she has to find you attractive but you must come with the set of conditions she wants or looking for. In a relationship between a man and woman,I can say 10% of women can truly love. Otherwise many are just hopeful that they will ever find true love. There is a 10% chance though :)

Omar Aquarius's photo
Fri 09/17/21 11:54 AM
Haha nice one!

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Fri 09/17/21 05:43 PM
Because alot of people can be to self absorbed

Dramatic Muffin's photo
Fri 09/17/21 05:50 PM
I think it's because so many people are damaged. They've either been badly hurt before (in childhood or in romantic relationships), have problems with drugs/alcohol, are codependent, or may even have mental issues. Hurt people hurt people. And it's difficult to have a healthy relationship with them.

Also, most of us don't take enough responsibility for our contributions to failed relationships. How often do we take inventory of our own shortcomings and try to work on ourselves?

phoebetbh's photo
Sat 09/18/21 03:42 PM
True love needs two person to put hardwork and grow together. Face the reality, it's not fairytale. I think sometimes need luck to find a right person, at right time.

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Sat 09/18/21 08:32 PM
So many people feel they can't be themselves at the start.

Misbah Khan khalil's photo
Sun 09/19/21 12:27 AM
you can't believe someone..

Jeh's photo
Sun 09/19/21 01:13 PM
Its not that true love is hard to find.. maybe maturity, understanding, and commitment from a person is hard to gain. no one's perfect indeed and sincere acceptance is the missing part:sweat_smile:

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Sun 09/19/21 03:11 PM
True love has no reason for loving, no logic, just a shot with cupid's arrow. Then you know that you are IT. We live in an unceratain world and everyone wants gaurantees, so before we find true love, we reason and find convenience in love. Partnering up for all the wrong reasons, instead of waiting for the love that soars way above the clouds, in a fear that the drop down will be too far. So we blame love itself for the lack of love, through choices of our own.


Pearl's photo
Tue 09/21/21 10:09 PM
Nobody believes in true love anymore, so what’s the point?

Kitty's photo
Tue 09/21/21 11:35 PM
Easier and less painful to live alone and avoid any thought of love or relationship. Talking to plants is all the company you need.

Well said:wave:

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Wed 09/22/21 12:12 AM
Each person has different way of thinking an understanding.
Importance is how we understand ourself an how be better understands the persons ( feelings & emotions ).

Stay Active, Act Smartly, Think Positive.

All The Best :thumbsup:

Coldersky's photo
Fri 09/24/21 01:42 AM
Love I never ask anyone to love me, can we be there for each other, in times of trouble, we can lean on one another he ain't heavy HE MY brother, with time ya never know I'm so ready, Coldersky minus the halo,

Tom4Uhere's photo
Fri 09/24/21 06:22 AM
Stop looking externally for something which exists internally.

Cricket's photo
Sun 09/26/21 01:05 AM
Because love is a choice

Mia 's photo
Sun 09/26/21 03:20 AM
compartibility has got notten to do with true love sacrifice does.