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Ladies? Why is it so easy for me get action when I'm a pretentious dick. But if I'm kind and a gentleman I get dogged on at a 0% success
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Sorry but some women can be that way. I do like a kind gentleman
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Hi Nick 
Might help if you provide some context ? What exactly are you doing/saying that is pretentious ?? |
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Things like what they would have to do for the privilege for a shot at the title. Or I don't want to be your first or your last. I just want to be next. And much worse.
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You're a rare person Julie. I hope you're appreciated
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Are you asking why you can get sex but not a relationship? I am a little confused at what you are saying.
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Things like what they would have to do for the privilege for a shot at the title. Or I don't want to be your first or your last. I just want to be next. And much worse. In history men used to hunt woolly mammoths to impress women ...verbal communication was less important . Your hunting style reminds me of that . If “action” is all you seek .. then why change your approach if it is so successful ??? Many women would likely consider self promotion veiled in egotistical bragging or arrogance as a turn off . .. regardless of whether a man perceives himself as a kind gentleman or a pretentious dick. My advice is to be your genuine self . Best of luck . |
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Women generally like a man who's confident and like an alpha male, which has to do with primal instinct. And it's easy to mistake pretentious dick to be such a man.
Plus even when women know a guy has a record of being an @$$ with others, they tend to think with them it'll be different. Why not when you're kind... it's not entirely clear what you mean here? Why not successful at getting laid when you're kind? Or not successful at getting a date and possible a partner? Can be any of many... trying to chat up the wrong type for that approach, having the wrong approach... Maybe if you're so used to being a pretentious dick you've never really learnt healthy skills to woe a woman? |
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Women generally like a man who's confident and like an alpha male, which has to do with primal instinct. And it's easy to mistake pretentious dick to be such a man. Plus even when women know a guy has a record of being an @$$ with others, they tend to think with them it'll be different. Why not when you're kind... it's not entirely clear what you mean here? Why not successful at getting laid when you're kind? Or not successful at getting a date and possible a partner? Can be any of many... trying to chat up the wrong type for that approach, having the wrong approach... Maybe if you're so used to being a pretentious dick you've never really learnt healthy skills to woe a woman? We do know who is a keeper and who is not. 
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Women generally like a man who's confident and like an alpha male, which has to do with primal instinct. And it's easy to mistake pretentious dick to be such a man. Plus even when women know a guy has a record of being an @$$ with others, they tend to think with them it'll be different. Why not when you're kind... it's not entirely clear what you mean here? Why not successful at getting laid when you're kind? Or not successful at getting a date and possible a partner? Can be any of many... trying to chat up the wrong type for that approach, having the wrong approach... Maybe if you're so used to being a pretentious dick you've never really learnt healthy skills to woe a woman? We do know who is a keeper and who is not.
Hmmm... not sure. In reality women often feel someone is a keeper, and the man doesn't. Thing is, most women sense the potential of a man and go for that but 9 out of 10 times the man never becomes that potential. I think the biggest lesson may be to see the man for who he is, not for what you sense he could be(come). |
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Women generally like a man who's confident and like an alpha male, which has to do with primal instinct. And it's easy to mistake pretentious dick to be such a man. Plus even when women know a guy has a record of being an @$$ with others, they tend to think with them it'll be different. Why not when you're kind... it's not entirely clear what you mean here? Why not successful at getting laid when you're kind? Or not successful at getting a date and possible a partner? Can be any of many... trying to chat up the wrong type for that approach, having the wrong approach... Maybe if you're so used to being a pretentious dick you've never really learnt healthy skills to woe a woman? We do know who is a keeper and who is not.
Hmmm... not sure. In reality women often feel someone is a keeper, and the man doesn't. Thing is, most women sense the potential of a man and go for that but 9 out of 10 times the man never becomes that potential. I think the biggest lesson may be to see the man for who he is, not for what you sense he could be(come). Wisdom xxx |
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Things like what they would have to do for the privilege for a shot at the title. Or I don't want to be your first or your last. I just want to be next. And much worse. |
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Women generally like a man who's confident and like an alpha male, which has to do with primal instinct. And it's easy to mistake pretentious dick to be such a man. Plus even when women know a guy has a record of being an @$$ with others, they tend to think with them it'll be different. Why not when you're kind... it's not entirely clear what you mean here? Why not successful at getting laid when you're kind? Or not successful at getting a date and possible a partner? Can be any of many... trying to chat up the wrong type for that approach, having the wrong approach... Maybe if you're so used to being a pretentious dick you've never really learnt healthy skills to woe a woman? We do know who is a keeper and who is not.
Ha ha !!! I know you a keeper for sure .... and I am one of a 100 who do believe that!!! |
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Smells like a "nice guy" thread.
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cos in the natural world of tooth an claw, all the nice guys get eaten.
so.. and also what crystal said.. |
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Nice guys get eaten huh!!!
So how do I become a nice guy and get eaten just for a change ........??? |
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This nice guy can compete in the octagon. And just yesterday made the cut on a semi pro rugby team. I just use my strength to defend those who can't defend themselves. A persons dignity is sacred. Those who boast are compensating for their short comings.
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... because it is so easy to throw out trash lol dick are disposable - fun for the moment but not for the long run!
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you completely miss his point - What he is saying that girls/ woman are always attracted to bad guy and the good guy are left to be at the back of the line - woman complain that they cannot find a good guy, but when there is one standing in front of them they will always go for the bad/rebel guy! How you get the ice age out of his comment. who knows!!!!!! ahahahahahaahh
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