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Just being honest being very candid here and it goes against my religion, but I kissed a girl and I liked it. LOLZ, why did you have to disclose something so personal! Nevertheless, I salute your opening up about it. Ha, to know me is to know me. I really do not care about others judgements or opinions. I am saying it as it is. I try to be real. The truth is I get way more emotional intimacy from my women friends than men. That makes a woman feel very safe, known and understood, which is very important in a relationship. Men mostly make you feel like a sexual object, women do not. The appreciation for each other as caring, empathetic women is almost romantic. If you can understand that. I totally get the part of women being more connected to other women , especially emotionally... men are constructed different ...kinda reminds me of my ex saying I treated her like a sex object ... cause every time I mentioned sex ... she objected ha ha !!! |
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Just being honest being very candid here and it goes against my religion, but I kissed a girl and I liked it. LOLZ, why did you have to disclose something so personal! Nevertheless, I salute your opening up about it. Ha, to know me is to know me. I really do not care about others judgements or opinions. I am saying it as it is. I try to be real. The truth is I get way more emotional intimacy from my women friends than men. That makes a woman feel very safe, known and understood, which is very important in a relationship. Men mostly make you feel like a sexual object, women do not. The appreciation for each other as caring, empathetic women is almost romantic. If you can understand that. : I totally get the part of women being more connected to other women , especially emotionally... men are constructed different ...kinda reminds me of my ex saying I treated her like a sex object ... cause every time I mentioned sex ... she objected ha ha !!! You make me laugh so hard. Shhh, my flatmates are in bed and I am trying to keep quiet...:laugh |
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Just being honest being very candid here and it goes against my religion, but I kissed a girl and I liked it. LOLZ, why did you have to disclose something so personal! Nevertheless, I salute your opening up about it. Ha, to know me is to know me. I really do not care about others judgements or opinions. I am saying it as it is. I try to be real. The truth is I get way more emotional intimacy from my women friends than men. That makes a woman feel very safe, known and understood, which is very important in a relationship. Men mostly make you feel like a sexual object, women do not. The appreciation for each other as caring, empathetic women is almost romantic. If you can understand that. : I totally get the part of women being more connected to other women , especially emotionally... men are constructed different ...kinda reminds me of my ex saying I treated her like a sex object ... cause every time I mentioned sex ... she objected ha ha !!! You make me laugh so hard. Shhh, my flatmates are in bed and I am trying to keep quiet...:laugh These flat mates would'nt be single women now would they??? Time for you to hit the sack anyway ?? |
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So many of my female friends have said they are seriously thinking about choosing a woman to be their partner. Why do you think they say this? My lady friends are all very strong, independent women.... I've read that when women become more evolved, as in personal growth & development & empowered in their feminine energy, they can sometimes develop feelings for another woman. I know 1 such woman who was always married, had kids, and at some point after her divorce, when recovered and fully empowered, met the love of her love. To her shock this was another woman. They're married. Her wife also has been married in the past, also has kids. And they run a 7 figure business together. Crystal, my friends are very serious. I personally think it is because their needs are not met by men. So you think when a person is empowered, gone through growth, they're not serious? Just wondering, as it sounds that way, hihi. I understand it can be easier to get certain thing from another woman in some way, but personally I can't see myself truly fulfilled that way. Not just concerning sex, but the typical masculine energy a man adds to the mix. I really feel best with a man that's empowered and has gone through quite a lot of personal growth, so same level as me. The complementing masculine & feminine energies between me and a man is such a tremendous relief! I had that with my last partner, first time ever as before I was with men who weren't empowered, and I wasn't either then. It's entirely different when both are. Nevertheless, I have been in love with a woman when I was in my early 30s. Very seriously so. I was married, she was in a relationship with another woman. Nothing happened. But hell, I was in love! And I have kissed a girl too. |
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Then there are women who just want to make men jealous or excited. Teasers who have some twisted need to prove they don't 'need' a man or vice-versa.
There are also women who desire the power of a man over another woman, they have something to prove and adopt their impression of the role of a man. The same role play is evident in many gay relationships between men, one submits and the other is the masculine. Each person does what they do because its what they want. Sometimes it is a life choice and sometimes it can be a temporary change. As for God, my God isn't focused on individuals. My God is more than that. I don't assign human behavior or traits to my God because my God is everywhere in a vast Universe and human beings are but one species on a tiny planet of millions of species in a Universe full of planets and species. As for you kissing (and liking) another woman...so? If it gives you what you think you need right now, go for it. You should explore those feeling and see if its right for you. After-all, you are the one living behind your eyes, not me. |
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Then there are women who just want to make men jealous or excited. Teasers who have some twisted need to prove they don't 'need' a man or vice-versa. There are also women who desire the power of a man over another woman, they have something to prove and adopt their impression of the role of a man. The same role play is evident in many gay relationships between men, one submits and the other is the masculine. Each person does what they do because its what they want. Sometimes it is a life choice and sometimes it can be a temporary change. As for God, my God isn't focused on individuals. My God is more than that. I don't assign human behavior or traits to my God because my God is everywhere in a vast Universe and human beings are but one species on a tiny planet of millions of species in a Universe full of planets and species. As for you kissing (and liking) another woman...so? If it gives you what you think you need right now, go for it. You should explore those feeling and see if its right for you. After-all, you are the one living behind your eyes, not me. Why do I feel you never answered the question? |
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Gotta stop me right here... I now know which two women are able to join in my fantasy threesome ....... going to try it virtually first.... hope you all have WhatsApp!!!
Ha ha ha!!! |
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So many of my female friends have said they are seriously thinking about choosing a woman to be their partner. Why do you think they say this? My lady friends are all very strong, independent women.... I've read that when women become more evolved, as in personal growth & development & empowered in their feminine energy, they can sometimes develop feelings for another woman. I know 1 such woman who was always married, had kids, and at some point after her divorce, when recovered and fully empowered, met the love of her love. To her shock this was another woman. They're married. Her wife also has been married in the past, also has kids. And they run a 7 figure business together. Crystal, my friends are very serious. I personally think it is because their needs are not met by men. So you think when a person is empowered, gone through growth, they're not serious? Just wondering, as it sounds that way, hihi. I understand it can be easier to get certain thing from another woman in some way, but personally I can't see myself truly fulfilled that way. Not just concerning sex, but the typical masculine energy a man adds to the mix. I really feel best with a man that's empowered and has gone through quite a lot of personal growth, so same level as me. The complementing masculine & feminine energies between me and a man is such a tremendous relief! I had that with my last partner, first time ever as before I was with men who weren't empowered, and I wasn't either then. It's entirely different when both are. Nevertheless, I have been in love with a woman when I was in my early 30s. Very seriously so. I was married, she was in a relationship with another woman. Nothing happened. But hell, I was in love! And I have kissed a girl too. I am attracted to men 100%. I guess I was surprised when it happened, but it felt very natural at the time. I wish I could find that man who lm you describe. I live in a small town, but I will not settle for an unequal. |
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Fri 07/09/21 07:05 AM
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Gotta stop me right here... I now know which two women are able to join in my fantasy threesome ....... going to try it virtually first.... hope you all have WhatsApp!!! Ha ha ha!!! STOP. Going too far, love you, but not that much... 
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Gotta stop me right here... I now know which two women are able to join in my fantasy threesome ....... going to try it virtually first.... hope you all have WhatsApp!!! Ha ha ha!!! STOP. Going too far ...
Thanks for interrupting my dream ...yeah , I probably could not have carried it out nor live up to the hype !!! |
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Gotta stop me right here... I now know which two women are able to join in my fantasy threesome ....... going to try it virtually first.... hope you all have WhatsApp!!! Ha ha ha!!! STOP. Going too far ...
Thanks for interrupting my dream ...yeah , I probably could not have carried it out nor live up to the hype !!! Naww. You are the best xx |
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I don't mind if my girlfriends keep their girlfriends. Is that progressive enough?
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I don't mind if my girlfriends keep their girlfriends. Is that progressive enough? You are missing the point. Men are not in this equation. |
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So many of my female friends have said they are seriously thinking about choosing a woman to be their partner. Why do you think they say this? My lady friends are all very strong, independent women.... I've read that when women become more evolved, as in personal growth & development & empowered in their feminine energy, they can sometimes develop feelings for another woman. I know 1 such woman who was always married, had kids, and at some point after her divorce, when recovered and fully empowered, met the love of her love. To her shock this was another woman. They're married. Her wife also has been married in the past, also has kids. And they run a 7 figure business together. Crystal, my friends are very serious. I personally think it is because their needs are not met by men. So you think when a person is empowered, gone through growth, they're not serious? Just wondering, as it sounds that way, hihi. I understand it can be easier to get certain thing from another woman in some way, but personally I can't see myself truly fulfilled that way. Not just concerning sex, but the typical masculine energy a man adds to the mix. I really feel best with a man that's empowered and has gone through quite a lot of personal growth, so same level as me. The complementing masculine & feminine energies between me and a man is such a tremendous relief! I had that with my last partner, first time ever as before I was with men who weren't empowered, and I wasn't either then. It's entirely different when both are. Nevertheless, I have been in love with a woman when I was in my early 30s. Very seriously so. I was married, she was in a relationship with another woman. Nothing happened. But hell, I was in love! And I have kissed a girl too. I am attracted to men 100%. I guess I was surprised when it happened, but it felt very natural at the time. I wish I could find that man who lm you describe. I live in a small town, but I will not settle for an unequal. I won't settle for less either! Certainly not now that I've experienced how it can feel, and is supposed to feel & work between man and woman. Fingers crossed we both meet the right guy for us! |
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maybe because they work out that they prefer female company most of the time anyway and decide that it has it's merits.
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maybe because they work out that they prefer female company most of the time anyway and decide that it has it's merits. Maybe? But your company is awesome. |
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I don't mind if my girlfriends keep their girlfriends. Is that progressive enough? You are missing the point. Men are not in this equation. The implication is that I should not mind if women have relationships with other women. Why should I? |
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lol that's a bit strong L.W. what time is it there? have you been at the bottle?
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Sounds like somebody can use a Sugar and Spice and everything Nice massage treatment. xoxo
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Awesome. Welcome to the contentious men to this thread. I wondered how long it would take to have the uncomfortable men start putting me down.
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