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Topic: Loyalty
Kevin Joined Wed 06/05/19 Posts: 897	Sat 07/24/21 06:35 AM
On a previous thread about loyalty I posted that loyalty is often based on the concept of exclusivity ... that can be to one person or a group and is not restricted to romantic relationships . As such , I don’t believe gender is the strongest influence of loyalty but rather individual morals , culture and religious values . . Loyalty to me means integrity , transparency and staying true to my own own values . Obviously that encompasses subjective perception and self imposed boundaries which may influence my expectation of others .

Tania Paola Joined Tue 08/17/21 Posts: 1	Thu 08/19/21 03:47 PM
Loyalty is one and the other is fidelity

Unknow Joined Sat 04/28/18 Posts: 1861	Thu 08/19/21 05:41 PM
It would seem the greatest conflict is between loyalty to what is absolutely right -and loyalty to a person, group or subgroup. Part of what is absolutely right is regard for others, but if we are overly "not wise overmuch", we do others no service. I would rather another be more loyal to absolute right than to myself. (what is right is based on the situation -but there is really only one situation)

haro Joined Thu 07/08/21 Posts: 139	Fri 08/20/21 11:43 AM
Loyalty is always putting your partner first... no matter what ... I would agree but what about this scenario. What if your partner picked you over their kid/kids? I know how I would rule on this subject but I'm curious to know how you and everyone else would side on this matter. The only reason I ask is because this situation actually happen to me.

Žůhåîb Joined Fri 08/20/21 Posts: 1	Sat 08/21/21 10:50 PM
On a previous thread about loyalty I posted that loyalty is often based on the concept of exclusivity ... that can be to one person or a group and is not restricted to romantic relationships . As such , I don’t believe gender is the strongest influence of loyalty but rather individual morals , culture and religious values . . Loyalty to me means integrity , transparency and staying true to my own own values . Obviously that encompasses subjective perception and self imposed boundaries which may influence my expectation of others . True

Unknow Joined Wed 07/22/20 Posts: 25	Wed 08/25/21 06:04 AM
Loyalty comes when you love the other person with your whole heart not just part of it.

Unknow Joined Sat 07/10/21 Posts: 54502	Sat 09/25/21 01:28 AM
Loyal only with few best friends an bestie.. Rest being loyal with the women(gfs) i be or been formally... if i answer it truly, my whole body will be covered with a white bandages... Loyalty 25+25+50...

Mark Joined Tue 08/24/21 Posts: 412	Sat 09/25/21 01:47 AM
I've never cheated, and many are the same. That said, this question usually revolves around sexual prime, younger men tend to cheat more, older women in their sexual prime do it more.

Laska Paul Joined Sun 11/08/20 Posts: 22879	Sat 09/25/21 01:59 AM
What's Loyalty ??? Loyalty is the strongest Glue which makes a Relationship last for a Lifetime.

Unknow Joined Sat 07/10/21 Posts: 54502	Sat 09/25/21 02:14 AM
What's Loyalty ??? Loyalty is the strongest Glue which makes a Relationship last for a Lifetime. Agreed but only if both are

mikaxel80 Joined Sat 10/06/12 Posts: 551	Sat 09/25/21 02:48 AM
Are women more loyal than men? What does loyalty mean to you? Is it the same as boundaries? There are many kinds of loyalties..Loyalty in a relationship, in a friendship, in family..which do you mean, Madam?

Unknow Joined Sat 07/10/21 Posts: 54502	Sat 09/25/21 02:57 AM
Loyalty is an essential quality in any close relationship. When your person is loyal, it’s a strong assurance of another person. Whether it be in work, business, family, friendship or a relationship, loyalty builds from specific characteristics. Just because someone is a family member, neighbor or friend does not mean that they will be loyal. Ideally, we wish that were true (and hopefully someday it is), but for now loyalty must be earned. Much like steps on a ladder, there are specific qualities that you can see in a person to know if they are truly loyal. We call this the “Loyalty Ladder”. A truly loyal person will be loyal because they want to. Loyalty through obligation can be dangerous. But, sometimes it’s hard to detect. People can be deceiving due to their own personal agendas and show this subtly through their words and actions.

Unknow Joined Sat 07/10/21 Posts: 54502	Sat 09/25/21 03:02 AM
Relationship loyalty means, I am loyal with you (loving you an only you thoughtout the life).

George Joined Sat 09/18/21 Posts: 7	Thu 10/07/21 10:05 AM
Loyalty is engrained in a persons moral constitution from birth. Personally I believe men are usually loyal to a fault. Why? because women are More Likely to File for Divorce Than Men Statistics show that women initiate divorce in up to 80% of cases. Just my opinion.

Mark Joined Tue 08/24/21 Posts: 412	Thu 10/07/21 02:40 PM
Loyalty is engrained in a persons moral constitution from birth. Personally I believe men are usually loyal to a fault. Why? because women are More Likely to File for Divorce Than Men Statistics show that women initiate divorce in up to 80% of cases. Just my opinion. Whether or not that's true, I don't know, but I can say that women tend to be more attuned to their emotions than men. I am NOT a believer in divorce, but for example, if a relationship is abusive and the abuser refuses to see they are abusive, it can mean a living hell for the spouse. BOTH must be willing to accept fault and improve, regardless how "right" they may believe they are.

roger Joined Sat 08/07/21 Posts: 8	Thu 10/21/21 01:46 AM
you get to know someone it develops into respect and love so you trust them through respect without respect you carnt have love and if you have that you have loyalty though loyalty isnt guaranteed of course ever there can always be temptation of some type

Rod Joined Wed 08/18/21 Posts: 141	Mon 11/01/21 08:15 PM
That went the way of the dinosaur

PrettyPink Joined Mon 07/18/22 Posts: 2	Mon 07/18/22 05:35 PM
My Perspective Loyalty Isn't A Word You Can Use Loosely.....

Sparky Joined Mon 01/24/22 Posts: 233	Mon 07/18/22 06:43 PM
On a previous thread about loyalty I posted that loyalty is often based on the concept of exclusivity ... that can be to one person or a group and is not restricted to romantic relationships . As such , I don’t believe gender is the strongest influence of loyalty but rather individual morals , culture and religious values . . Loyalty to me means integrity , transparency and staying true to my own own values . Obviously that encompasses subjective perception and self imposed boundaries which may influence my expectation of others . I feel identified with Blondey’s concept of loyalty. Loyalty is a quality that keeps a person honest and committed to her/his feelings as long as they are in accordance with their believes and expectations. A person can be loyal not just to other person or people but to a company, governance, etc.

lonely guy Joined Wed 07/06/22 Posts: 216	Mon 07/18/22 06:54 PM
Loyalty is always putting your partner first... no matter what ... I would agree but what about this scenario. What if your partner picked you over their kid/kids? I know how I would rule on this subject but I'm curious to know how you and everyone else would side on this matter. The only reason I ask is because this situation actually happen to me. im here because ex picked helping her kid and leaving me and moving to a city she hates versus rural country she loves, to buy her 40 year old Daughter that refuses to work a house, after I refused to go in debt, work 70-90 hours for many more years to pay for it, and wanted me to pay all upkeep, yeah, and NOPE! I offered to help her rent apartment until she got on her feet, she lives with her BF, wants to leave him, but without working, has no money, & not going to get a job either, so renting an apartment wasnt acceptable, she wanted someone else to pay for everything so she can sit & play video games & on computer all day. NOPE. so just under a 19 year relationship, POOF!