Can you be open minded and share your loved one with someone else and enjoy it?

Depends what you and the other one want and consent to.
And also why you want it. Is it because you enjoy watching that, being part of that, for some reason or is it just so you have an excuse to be intimate with another woman?

In any case, it's up to each to decide about such matters.

And also, 'sex to the fullest' has nothing to do with this. Such things can be terribly meaningless, lust-based, and hollow, and personally I don't consider that 'sex to the fullest'.

well said....

Is that part of a Mountain Dew Viagra commercial on Pornhub?
"Do the Dew, sex to the fullest, to the xxxtreme!"
Naked people on mountain bikes, but wearing parachutes, riding off a mountain, into an orgy in the mud?


I am going to assume you mean sexually.
And avoid what could be possibly really creepy.

I mean one interpretation of the OP could be "should I let my s/o out of the basement so they can say hi to their mother? No! My precious! We's hates her mother! Precious stays in her cage, no sharing!"

So, with my assumption being more like "swinging," or open marriage, or side whatever, then personally, no.

To me it's like asking "can you drop your kid off at some random strangers house to parent them, respect and appreciate it?"

And if it's something like "welllllll, you meet the person first, and you get tested, or you are always present, and you watch, and you make sure no emotional connection develops, and blah blah blah..." then it's not really "open minded," it's just controlling and a whole slew of other negative traits.

It's just manipulative throwing in virtue signalling "open minded," and assumptions like "love one" (i.e. if you really "love" them, why are you looking to "share?" If they really love you, why are they looking to be "shared?" If you/they are looking to share/be shared, I am not assuming they are actually a "loved" one and not simply objectified as an extension of ego)

But I personally also haven't completely disassociated procreation from sex, where you can have sex just for "fun" without meaningful consequences that are ingrained in biology you can't turn off.
Kinda like disassociating eating from nutrition. Believing you can eat for pleasure, without any nutritional or health consequences and meaning.

There's a big difference between sex and making love.

Sex gets hot and intense and culminates with orgasm.

Making love starts before the sex and lasts long after the orgasm.
Its when two people share each other in their essence and the sex part is merely one aspect of that sharing.

Sex to the 'fullest' can't be accomplished by a single act of intensity.
The sex must have the intimacy and meaning element to bring out the intensity of love. Sex then becomes fulfilling to the soul and not merely a release of tension.

When people refer to Kama Sutra as an index of sexual positions they miss the point of the Kama Sutra entirely. Try 'reading' the Kama Sutra. Try looking up Tantric lovemaking.

Many people can be very selfish about sex.
There's so much more to it than the act itself.
Sex, to the fullest, is equal sharing of one's self with the other.
A unity of body, mind and soul.

No

If you are too open-minded your brains fall out.
If she is my loved one I wouldn't subject her to the sexual deviance of others.

The phrase "open minded" is usually code for "willing to do something foolish".

I'd like to send a shout out to sparkling Crystal for what you wrote that was amazing hands down girl you got something to you you are beautiful inside definitely and out I got an old soul fully agree with everything you said basically and if retirement only thing I'm going to say is that but the world had more ideas like that it'd be much more loving place I like that was cool. Sofia see I like making love to make love to me that's sexy to the fullest and the only way to accomplish that is by being able to be centrally romantic and emotionally connected sensitively Tory sinking harness they really need to let x lower around you and the only thing that matters is just your heartbeat and her heartbeat beating at the same time when you finish the other place your hand on each other's chest slow each the other person's breathing everything calling yourself close your eyes just back up to speed at 6 to the fullest to Max is that sex making love making life is accomplished in many different forms it's not always just slow and boring spice it up have some imagination but do with passion and seductiveness try it

No.

NO

Eek!!! Now wot kinda Topic and OP is this? Has perversion acquired a proper noun?

sure if its what my partner wants. it would be fun to explore all sexual fantasies with him.

In Bdsm this is widely accepted. its called cuckhold. you can search for yourself. describes the fetish of men who find masochistic pleasure in watching their wives have sex with other men. The man is complicit in the infidelity and often helps arrange the meetings. The couple need not necessarily be married, but there needs to be some kind of commitment between the two.

why cant you?

iv shared (3 some) with another guy many years ago.for me it has its complications and would never return their..relationship soon ended even though we both set out guidelines etc before our meeting..