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Topic: love, but no sex.
Robert Joined Sun 05/16/21 Posts: 1	Sun 05/16/21 04:21 AM
**** this

Andi Joined Sat 05/15/21 Posts: 3	Sun 05/16/21 08:17 AM
how can love without sex?

Michael Joined Mon 04/26/21 Posts: 15	Sun 05/16/21 04:44 PM
So as a woman what you are really saying is you want a man who will work and pay the bills, take you to dinner, buy you gifts and generally extract from his resources so you can love him emotionally but not physically?

Anne Joined Sun 05/23/21 Posts: 2	Mon 05/24/21 07:11 AM
It's difficult to have sex with someone you don't have connection with. If you love the person, sex will be easy and fun. Just sayin...

Prateek Joined Wed 04/28/21 Posts: 21	Mon 05/24/21 07:13 AM
It's difficult to have sex with someone you don't have connection with. If you love the person, sex will be easy and fun. Just sayin... correct and agree with you

Cazzy Joined Fri 11/20/20 Posts: 2	Mon 06/07/21 08:04 PM
I think for some woman maybe sex is no longer important. womans bodies go through so much after having children and then with changes with menopause. If these woman are in a relationship/marriage it is important for the couple to find ways to keep the sex alive. Such as slowing it down making it more into giving, enjoying and memorable. Make it really special. Days and time and busy life schedules cause havoc on relationships and especially more so for woman going through menopause. If your feeling you just dont want sex in your relationship with the guy then thats wrong because your denying him of his needs.

Rehanmanzr Joined Wed 11/30/16 Posts: 7	Tue 06/08/21 05:00 PM
anyone there for real fun and excitement... ?

Raj Joined Thu 06/10/21 Posts: 1	Thu 06/10/21 07:30 AM
ok

Haris Hadian Joined Sat 04/10/21 Posts: 1	Thu 06/10/21 03:17 PM
You are a psychologist? Are you sexually attracted to any other people? yes i like fusy

Brittany sharffer Joined Thu 06/10/21 Posts: 2	Thu 06/10/21 05:49 PM
Hello sakshi .. Psychology would tell you that sex is just a strategy humans use to meet psychological needs . It is not a need itself . Why measure yourself against what is “normal”. What matters is what is important to you and your life partner . Have you talked about having children ??? Even within arranged marriages , there is an expectation of sex and children . If you have no experience of sex it may be easier initially to overlook the importance of sex in a relationship .. However sex is fluid (literally and otherwise ) that said atleast 20% of marriages are sexless . With you both the best of luck yes sex helps strengthen relationship and it makes it healthy when in agreement

Bilal Hassan Joined Sat 03/27/21 Posts: 8	Sun 06/13/21 06:45 PM
yes I think all is well but sometime you must do this

Michael Joined Sat 06/19/21 Posts: 15	Sun 06/20/21 07:05 AM
if you love someone without being sexually attracted to them you've either been married like 30 or 40 years or it's just a REALLY good friend

シェーン Joined Mon 06/07/21 Posts: 3	Mon 06/21/21 12:44 AM
Hi everyone, is it okay to like someone with your whole heart but not be sexually attracted towards them? You like spending time with them, you are comfortable around them and you want them as your life partner. But you never got sexually attracted towards them or never ever looked at them as a sex object or in a sexual way. Is it still healthy and normal? I don't know if it will affect the relationship. (sorry for the weird question though). I think is okay and is normal, because Im also really not sexually attractive to anyone ever in my life I just don't have a kind of feeling like that...

Kevin Joined Wed 06/05/19 Posts: 897	Mon 06/21/21 07:56 PM
According to me, at a sexually active age and with no major medical issues, NO.

Krishni Joined Mon 06/21/21 Posts: 6	Wed 06/23/21 12:10 AM
Hi everyone, is it okay to like someone with your whole heart but not be sexually attracted towards them? You like spending time with them, you are comfortable around them and you want them as your life partner. But you never got sexually attracted towards them or never ever looked at them as a sex object or in a sexual way. Is it still healthy and normal? I don't know if it will affect the relationship. (sorry for the weird question though). I agree, Sex is physical it has its own expiry, it adds to more stress and crossing that line is just letting u lose precious you unless it is been understood and respected. Unconditionally loving someone is a blessing can we find someone wow would b lucky

ERIC Joined Mon 06/14/21 Posts: 1	Fri 06/25/21 11:30 AM
Melissa, I'm Eric, and I'd love to get to know you and spoil you.

Rider boy Joined Fri 06/25/21 Posts: 1	Fri 06/25/21 11:54 PM
Hi everyone, is it okay to like someone with your whole heart but not be sexually attracted towards them? You like spending time with them, you are comfortable around them and you want them as your life partner. But you never got sexually attracted towards them or never ever looked at them as a sex object or in a sexual way. Is it still healthy and normal? I don't know if it will affect the relationship. (sorry for the weird question though). hi

Abc Joined Mon 06/28/21 Posts: 1	Mon 06/28/21 10:54 AM
^_- Yes, it’s normal to like people you’re not sexually attracted to.... it’s called “friendship”.

Sheikh Joined Sun 06/27/21 Posts: 2	Mon 06/28/21 04:04 PM
I know everyone here for dating with other gender but dating means not ab physical relation, it's just for understanding. In my point of view love or friendship means is only respect, honor and loyalty

Arun Joined Mon 07/12/21 Posts: 5	Sat 07/17/21 08:07 AM
Yes i think this is possible if u understand each other and convenience each other for this.But between two people trust and true relation is most important thing.