I think for some woman maybe sex is no longer important. womans bodies go through so much after having children and then with changes with menopause.

If these woman are in a relationship/marriage it is important for the couple to find ways to keep the sex alive. Such as slowing it down making it more into giving, enjoying and memorable. Make it really special.

Days and time and busy life schedules cause havoc on relationships and especially more so for woman going through menopause.

If your feeling you just dont want sex in your relationship with the guy then thats wrong because your denying him of his needs.