Hi everyone, is it okay to like someone with your whole heart but not be sexually attracted towards them? You like spending time with them, you are comfortable around them and you want them as your life partner. But you never got sexually attracted towards them or never ever looked at them as a sex object or in a sexual way. Is it still healthy and normal? I don't know if it will affect the relationship. (sorry for the weird question though).

You are a psychologist?

Are you sexually attracted to any other people?

I love etouffe with my whole heart.
But, I've never been sexually attracted to it.

well yes, it's normal in a number of cases... friendship is one, family is another one. A possibility is also that he/she is not of the correct gender for you, and another possibility is that you are just not interested in sex...
Not sure if I missed anything, but good luck

hi sakshi

Well it is a kinda weird question.
What you have here, is a case of a very strong, faithful and sincere 'friendship'. It happens.

Do you want it as your life partner?

It's weird. Personally, I would not be okay with it especially if you are dressing like you do in your photos. It would be slightly uncomfortable.

No.
But, the next woman I meet,
who can properly make it,
is certainly invited to submit
her resume' to become my life partner.

Two questions:
Have you had sexual feelings / attraction for other people? or are you not into sex?

Why do you want him for your life partner?

And yes, it will affect the relationship, unless the other party doesn't want sex either.
And if he does want sex, it is unhealthy for sure. Same if you normally have sexual feelings for a partner but not for him. Very unhealthy situation.

Unhealthy and just plain weird. What the hell? was my thought. Is it me or just the world in 2021.

Looking at "your" foto, I don't think there is one heterosexual man in the world who would say, "Yeah, I'd be fine with that.".

It's like saying "Yeah, I'm fine with blue b***s."

It also depends... if you don't mind him getting from others what he does not get from you... if you don't want sex but are jealous if he gets it somewhere else, no... it's now way it could work and even if it did would be extremely unfair.

if some one truly loves you they will only do what you are comfortable with, sex has nothing to do with your heart. people who love you truly don't need your body they need your soul which doesn't have team called sex.

Yeah, and if she's beautiful and sexy that doesn't matter at all. Mmmmmkay...

if some one truly loves you they have nothing to do with sex. sex has to do only with your physical body but when you are referring as "liking some one with your whole heart" that is related to your soul that has nothing to do with sex. a true love will only do what you are comfortable with it doesn't seek sex.

Says the guy looking for an intimate encounter.

^^This! So long as the feeling is mutual, it can be a great friendship. But if the other person has sexual attraction towards the one who doesn't, it will eventually get in the way of your friendship.

Hello sakshi .. Psychology would tell you that sex is just a strategy humans use to meet psychological needs . It is not a need itself .

Why measure yourself against what is “normal”. What matters is what is important to you and your life partner . Have you talked about having children ???

Even within arranged marriages , there is an expectation of sex and children .

If you have no experience of sex it may be easier initially to overlook the importance of sex in a relationship .. However sex is fluid (literally and otherwise )

that said atleast 20% of marriages are sexless .

With you both the best of luck