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Dont her. The sequel is never better than the original. The show, or wedding is the most important thing to her. The same way a man will say anything to a woman to get in her pants, a woman will do anything while your in her pants to get to the show(wedding). Just look at all the single woman. Devorced,single,widows. Its like going to a used car lot of luxury cars. Just pick one with low miles, drive for a while, and before it starts costing to much money, trade it in. It works out for everyone. Everyone gets a new start. I know it sounds wrong, but the truth hurts. Im just pro man. So pro you joined this thing |
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If you go into a scenario thinking you are just going to have sex and move on, you lose the entire point of being on a date.
You cannot know a person's motives unless you ask and they lay it on the line. It sounds to me like you are Monday morning quarterbacking to defend your archaiac, jurassic, antideluvian stance. The point of a date is to get to know someone. The person, not in a biblical way. If there is romance or things become physical, that should be like the icing on the cake and not the purpose of the date. If you go into a situation thinking it would turn out a certain way, then most likely it would end that way. This is not proving your point, this means your perspective needs to shift. If you've been burned, get some bandages. When they come off, get back out there and STOP assuming. |
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Dont her. The sequel is never better than the original. The show, or wedding is the most important thing to her. The same way a man will say anything to a woman to get in her pants, a woman will do anything while your in her pants to get to the show(wedding). Just look at all the single woman. Devorced,single,widows. Its like going to a used car lot of luxury cars. Just pick one with low miles, drive for a while, and before it starts costing to much money, trade it in. It works out for everyone. Everyone gets a new start. I know it sounds wrong, but the truth hurts. Im just pro man. So pro you joined this thing |
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If you go into a scenario thinking you are just going to have sex and move on, you lose the entire point of being on a date. You cannot know a person's motives unless you ask and they lay it on the line. It sounds to me like you are Monday morning quarterbacking to defend your archaiac, jurassic, antideluvian stance. The point of a date is to get to know someone. The person, not in a biblical way. If there is romance or things become physical, that should be like the icing on the cake and not the purpose of the date. If you go into a situation thinking it would turn out a certain way, then most likely it would end that way. This is not proving your point, this means your perspective needs to shift. If you've been burned, get some bandages. When they come off, get back out there and STOP assuming. |
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Some of us can stand on our own 2 feet without a ring or a 2nd paycheck. We get left behind by exes who don't do sh1t for the kids they helped make... SO HOW DARE YOU ACCUSE WOMEN OF GOLD DIGGING AND DOING ANYTHING TO GET MARRIED! Some of us are actually decent human beings with genuine motives...and it is men like YOU who taint them, twist them and make them jaded. WE DON'T WANT PLAYERS... WE WANT DECENT, UPSTANDING GUYS who do the right thing, not the "Love em and Leave em type"...
Personally... relationships ought to be 50/50, teamwork... I think gold diggers and people who are out fro personal gain, despite the damage they cause ruin it for the rest of us. |
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Edited by
briancarr
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Wed 12/26/07 05:38 PM
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Some of us can stand on our own 2 feet without a ring or a 2nd paycheck. We get left behind by exes who don't do sh1t for the kids they helped make... SO HOW DARE YOU ACCUSE WOMEN OF GOLD DIGGING AND DOING ANYTHING TO GET MARRIED! Some of us are actually decent human beings with genuine motives...and it is men like YOU who taint them, twist them and make them jaded. WE DON'T WANT PLAYERS... WE WANT DECENT, UPSTANDING GUYS who do the right thing, not the "Love em and Leave em type"... Personally... relationships ought to be 50/50, teamwork... I think gold diggers and people who are out fro personal gain, despite the damage they cause ruin it for the rest of us. |
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FYI, I have the RIGHT man now. Read a damn profile instead of making ignorant judgments.
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FYI, I have the RIGHT man now. Read a damn profile instead of making ignorant judgments. |
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Edited by
tony39h
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Wed 12/26/07 06:15 PM
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WHY TRADE IT IN ON A NEW ONE
WHEN YOU JUST GOT THAT ONE BROKE IN AN ALL OF THEM HAVE THE SAME THING WORK WITH WHAT YOU HAVE AN MAKE IT A BETTER RRIDE AN IT WILL NOT LEAVE YOU ON THE SIDE OF THE ROAD THATS THE THING WITH GUY'S TO DAY THEY THINK THE GRASS IS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE ONE OF THESE DAY'S YOU WON'T HAVE ONE TO DRIVE..THEN WHAT YOU GOING TO CALL HANNA AN HER FIVEE SISTERS |
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WHY TRADE IT IN ON A NEW ONE WHEN YOU JUST GOT THAT ONE BROKE IN AN ALL OF THEM HAVE THE SAME THING WORK WITH WHAT YOU HAVE AN MAKE IT A BETTER RRIDE AN IT WILL NOT LEAVE YOU ON THE SIDE OF THE ROAD THATS THE THING WITH GUY'S TO DAY THEY THINK THE GRASS IS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE ONE OF THESE DAY'S YOU WON'T HAVE ONE TO DRIVE..THEN WHAT YOU GOING TO CALL HANNA AN HER FIVEE SISTERS |
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my goal is to find someone to grow old with not necessarily marriage because the paper means nothing- if i find the right person and he WANTS to get married, that would be okay, however not necessary for me.
i am also not sleeping with just anyone-- has to be chemistry and some kind of a relationship |
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my goal is to find someone to grow old with not necessarily marriage because the paper means nothing- if i find the right person and he WANTS to get married, that would be okay, however not necessary for me. i am also not sleeping with just anyone-- has to be chemistry and some kind of a relationship |
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what example is that?
is this not a dating site? are you looking for a woman who has sex with everyone? i am not getting it |
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Poor little grumblebum...wouldn't know a relationship, an authentic, and genuine relationship, and the art of RELATING to another, if it bit him....
Instead he will just huff and puff, and blow his own house down.... |
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that i understand
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Edited by
singingmyheartout
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Wed 12/26/07 06:41 PM
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Seems to me he is narrow minded and overly judgmental. He doesn't view people as individuals, because he doesn't care. If he loves them and leaves them, he never has to take responsibility for anything, and therefore can continue on down some path of emotional destruction... don't care who he hurts or what cost is paid... so as long as no blame befalls him. Sad. Sad. Sad.
The issue here isn't the "gold diggers" it's him... too insecure to think a relationship can last... too blind to see the inner beauty and strength in one's character. Rather than take time to make an effort, he makes excuses, and then cries about the outcome... |
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BLAH,BLAH, BLAH
See O J Simpson look alike is still spewing bilge..............Pray tell, is that English? |
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brian.........i'm thinking with your opinion on everything that most of the "cars" you've been trying to "test drive" have found you lacking and left you alongside the road.............can't say i blame them. JMO
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Edited by
briancarr
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Wed 12/26/07 07:23 PM
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Seems to me he is narrow minded and overly judgmental. He doesn't view people as individuals, because he doesn't care. If he loves them and leaves them, he never has to take responsibility for anything, and therefore can continue on down some path of emotional destruction... don't care who he hurts or what cost is paid... so as long as no blame befalls him. Sad. Sad. Sad. The issue here isn't the "gold diggers" it's him... too insecure to think a relationship can last... too blind to see the inner beauty and strength in one's character. Rather than take time to make an effort, he makes excuses, and then cries about the outcome... |
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