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... I want some Taco Bell now....
This post makes me laugh. Thanks guys. |
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sound.....I can pic you up. I am right around the virtual corner....
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Bring Taco Bell.
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Please everything a man does is just about motivated by sex. Thats the way the are wired. I dont care what it is. After its done the payoff is sex. There are thousands of examples. when it comes to dealing with a woman, no matter what title you put, for the man the end result is to have sex. Wife,sex. Girlfiend,sex.hot girl at work,sex. Brian, I have to respectfully -- and totally -- disagree with you here. There ARE guys like that, yes, and we have even seen some of them right here, on this very site. BUT -- speaking solely for myself -- very little of what I do is motivated by sex. It used to be much more of a priority for me than it is now; I've been married (absolutely horrible experience), I've had live-in girlfriends, maybe sex just lost its "luster" (how's that for a double entendre?) -- Don't get me wrong, sex is great -- but the girl I love is a whole person, with her own thoughts and ideas and hopes and dreams and fears and likes and dislikes, the most intelligent, creative, caring person I have ever known. Sex is really just a small fraction of the whole picture. My "end result" is just to be with the one I love. |
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Edited by
briancarr
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Tue 12/25/07 02:55 PM
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there is no every and all. but the percentage is so high right now. Men and Woman share in the problem. All im saing is for both to beware. I did say that each should put the time in to reap the rewards of a good relationship. I am a man so i want to caution men even more. a lot of men have to start over with nothing. The law and another man is on the woman side. All im saing is stop just using your body as a test tube, and put in the work to have a good relationship.
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... I want some Taco Bell now.... This post makes me laugh. Thanks guys. Oh yeah. Taco Bell sounds pretty good right about now. Its on me. I will pay. |
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ummm....ermmm...
now what was the original post about? |
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What is a "pro man"? A pimp or what? Sounds nasty, all the way around to me.
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Edited by
briancarr
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Tue 12/25/07 04:36 PM
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What is a "pro man"? A pimp or what? Sounds nasty, all the way around to me. |
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You know, whether or not your agree or disagree with this post and the topic within, one thing that is being missed here is that he is being honest. Now, that does not mean that I agree with him, but in a world full of BS and lies, and lines and games, he is telling you his truth. You might resent him for the message and you might think him arrogantly out of touch. But I see a lot of posts here asking for honesty and he did that. And doesn't all change, growth and learning come first from honestly knowing where a person is--right here, right now?
-Drew |
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I honestly know where you are coming from. I know a girl that is like this. Will do pretty much whatever it takes to trap a guy into marrying her. I can not beguine to ell you how many miss carriages she has had. She refuses to where a condom in the bed. In hope she will get knocked up and the guy will marry her. Can not say every women is like that. Because me personally I never want to walk down that isle again.
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Everyone is intitled to an opinion.
Some are just way off from the truth. I can not agree with the OP on this. |
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Everyone is intitled to an opinion. Some are just way off from the truth. I can not agree with the OP on this. |
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It is clear you are cynical about women in general, and see them almost as inanimate, unfeeling objects...... equating their value in terms of a used car or measured by mileage. We all have been hurt or taken advantage of in some way...in some relationship. Men are not the only ones who get stuck with a "lemon."
It is inaccurate to classify all women in this way, just as it is unfair to assume all men think like you or all men behave dishonorably. You are certainly entitled to feel how you feel, based on whatever your life experiences have been...however, I feel that your perspective actually poisons your chance to find a healthy relationship. A healthy, stable, smart woman will see this attitude in you a mile away and will avoid getting involved with you. Your characterization of women and how they should be treated is offensive to me. But that's just my opinion..... |
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Dont her. The sequel is never better than the original. The show, or wedding is the most important thing to her. The same way a man will say anything to a woman to get in her pants, a woman will do anything while your in her pants to get to the show(wedding). Just look at all the single woman. Devorced,single,widows. Its like going to a used car lot of luxury cars. Just pick one with low miles, drive for a while, and before it starts costing to much money, trade it in. It works out for everyone. Everyone gets a new start. I know it sounds wrong, but the truth hurts. Im just pro man. That's not pro-man, that's anit-human. Get it straight. And i wonder why I am single... I do know why you are..... |
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Poor OP, he has a cracked head, a blown gasket, no back pressure, a warped crank, and sugar in his gas tank....and retreads!
No wonder he is single. |
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Edited by
briancarr
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Wed 12/26/07 12:43 AM
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If you read carefully you will understand that im not talking about honorable people. Im just asking that you put in the time to make a good relationship. If a woma, or a man just wants to be sampled, or taken for a test drive, why marry them. dont waste your time. Just hit, and move on, or just leave it alone. |
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Dont her. The sequel is never better than the original. The show, or wedding is the most important thing to her. The same way a man will say anything to a woman to get in her pants, a woman will do anything while your in her pants to get to the show(wedding). Just look at all the single woman. Devorced,single,widows. Its like going to a used car lot of luxury cars. Just pick one with low miles, drive for a while, and before it starts costing to much money, trade it in. It works out for everyone. Everyone gets a new start. I know it sounds wrong, but the truth hurts. Im just pro man. That's not pro-man, that's anit-human. Get it straight. And i wonder why I am single... I do know why you are..... |
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Poor OP, he has a cracked head, a blown gasket, no back pressure, a warped crank, and sugar in his gas tank....and retreads! No wonder he is single. |
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............. Love comes from within one's self, YOU have to love yourself unconditionally BEFORE you can offer love to any other.
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