I am blaming desi for this thread

How important is spooning to you ???
In a romantic relationship are you the big spoon or little spoon ??
Would you be upset if your position was reversed ???

Spooning is great for intimacy And release of the feel good hormones we crave .... but there are a few drawbacks ..,

If you are the big spoon ..

Hair in your face
Sweat tricking down your torso
Numb arm

If you are the small spoon ...

Hot air blowing on your neck
Sweat trickling down your back
Pressure on your lower back (lmao)

Do you spoon all night ??? (Be honest)
Or just till you need to get up to pee ???

I am definitely the little spoon ...
I love the closeness of skin to skin and the feel of his arms and thighs wrapped around me but when I need to sleep .. I tend to wait till he is asleep .. then build a massive pillow wall ..... Laughing ..

Spooning leads to forking.

Laughing .... .rock I know !!!!!!..
desi and I have just had a similar conversation in the word association thread .

Cheeky devil Blondey! I've just found this thread!

I am disappointed.
When I read the title,
I thought this thread
was about . . .

Ha ha. I like being the dominant spooner. Perhaps my nurturing nature just wants to hug the everything in you?
Ahhh...I would kill for a MORE dominant, nurturing spooner.

Lol, best answer yet

Spooning to me is hugging and kisses.

I like hugs but not too much, often
Leads to sex. No kiss unless I'm really into him.

Hmmm.. spooning until snoring begins.. then time to disengage quietly and build that pillow wall Blondey was mentioning..

I'm pretty sure there's no pillows to build a wall if you're spooning right

There are pillows somewhere.. maybe on the floor.. but they are in the house somewhere..

This! Definitely the little spoon. The only time I'm the big spoon is when I'm exhausted and not in the mood to add more silverware.

I can't remember...

Made me think of whether a big spoon or little spoon is best for ice cream.

Little spoonfuls to enjoy every little bit -or big spoonfuls to eat it before it melts and also get more chocolate fudge on the spoon?

Never liked spooning.

https://www.wikihow.com/Avoid-Trapping-Your-Arm-While-Snuggling-in-Bed


I probably move more while sleeping than when awake -so the pillow wall would be a good move if someone wanted to actually sleep. Actually, with snoring and other issues.... another small bedroom might be best.

...And his/her bathrooms should be a thing for so many reasons

Based on some of the posts,
it's obvious that spooning could
Very well lead to knifing.

At first I thought this subject might be about playing the spoons, like a musical instrument.

I dunno?
Looks like some wierd sexual utensil to me?
How do you use it?

^^ You meant a musical instrument that can produce constant sound?

...and I'm the person whose Blondey was blaming at?!