I can see I'm going to be single for a long time, maybe forever.

That's up to you. Are you going to give up or make the effort to make some adjustments? Seems like you want to; otherwise I'm not sure why you would have asked for feedback. Change is hard, especially the older we get. Your motivation for change depends on your desire for reaching your goals.

For what it's worth, you are attractive, but... it would help a lot if you could show your eyes. Many women I know are suckers for eyes, and smiles too. Having been married and adjusting to widowhood, I'm certain you have a lot to offer.

Thank you for your kind words.

n/p We're all looking for the same thing. But... go make those changes already. Otherwise, you'll never make progress.

We aim to please

He didn't take any advice. Go figure.

i think you should post more pics we could go with some eye candy around here .

Agree with the others ., shades will get you absolutely nowhere . They scream deception . .. that you do not want to be identified or have something to hide

He took one bit of advice-- the face picture. Maybe there's hope. ? It just depends on how serious he is about finding someone and how much he is willing to invest in his journey. Profiles speak volumes, especially the sparse ones. It's a bit of an oxymoron LOL

I can't help how I feel. So many fakes here...lots of mean people...lots of bots. Too bad, because I think I have alot to offer. Some people here are critical of my profile, but it's crystal clear that their profiles are awful.

I mean no disrespect sir but I see very little change that you've made despite the advice you have been given. You've added 1 photo and 1 interest and made no change to your write up. The write up is the big problem. It is full of negativity and if you do not change it you will have no luck on this site because the women will not give you a second look. If you are serious about finding someone then you have to make a serious effort. There are some amazing people on Mingle but you will not find them given the look of your profile as it stands right now. Good luck to you!

I am convinced that my grocery store statement is true...have made some changes to my profile, but refuse to make it all gumdrops and lollipops. If a woman here reads my profile, hates it and moves on...then...her loss and so be it. She'll never know how much I have to offer.

Basic profile.

Good luck.

ok...how about now????

much better though i find it amusing that you are an md and yet misspelled the word healed

Thanks Eric...still having coffee and waking up...I will correct.

Someone give me an update on my profile. All I seem to get are bots wanting my personal info !!! wtf?