mam, this whole thing was just meant to start a convo, and spiralled out of control, but thank you. I do love myself just as i am. Took a long time to become that way , but i have been that way for atleast 5 years. **shakes head** now, ive just got a head ache. thank you though.

lol it happens darlin...i get the jist of what you are sayin...but i also see where people came up for air on this one too....sometimes ya gotta word things just right or you end up in front of the firing squad. but in all honesty, it did sound as if you were presenting a double standard.

ok, ive sat here and watched him be messed with enough. I know this man personally, as in he is my ex. He is one of the nicest and most sincere men i ever dated. and he treated me better than most of the men i dated did. I am a heavy set woman. This man changed my life radically. The most of you have him pegged wrong and really ought to re-evaluate yourselves. Coming from a fellow "fatty" i personally take no offense to his topic, and could not , unless i was insecure with myself, and even then i would just be uloading my hatred for every man or woman who laughed at my expense because of my size if i responded to him like you guys responde to him!!! you should all be ashamed of yourselves. (if the shoe fits wear it)

thank you sweet heart..... didnt expect to see you actually join the site..... nothing but kind words from you, very much so appreciated. We on for tomorow night? Youir man said he might have to work.

yes, ill pick you up, ive got the van tomorow, yay!!!! my man said he will likely not have to work, and will just not answer his cell , so yah , we are good. Might be able to get my one friend to go , so you have a date, youll like her.

sounds good to me.

i know what these ladies mean...dammit im such a friggin slob

ok hun, good night!!! Have to go collect some much deserved lovin!! (much owed as well) lol

lmao at johnybravo , and good night froggy

lol you gotta change that pic...it makes me drool dammit!

keep your head up brennen,fat,skinny,no head,no legs..whatever,were all in it for that pot of gold at the end of the rainbow...keep on keeping on bro

aint that the truth brother?