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Topic: Profiles w/ Marriage to Pen Pal . What?
Nancy Joined Fri 03/06/20 Posts: 113	Thu 05/07/20 05:47 AM
When I read a profile where the man has checked every box from Marriage, Serious Relationship, Casual Relationship, Pen Pal... I think he doesn't know what the heck he wants. What do you mean when you do this?

delightfulillusion Joined Fri 06/24/16 Posts: 119333	Thu 05/07/20 05:53 AM
I’ve wondered about that too but I think they’re just covering all bases

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33340	Thu 05/07/20 06:17 AM
Always makes me feel they are desperate and/or not giving a chit what they get as long as they get something.

delightfulillusion Joined Fri 06/24/16 Posts: 119333	Thu 05/07/20 06:23 AM
Always makes me feel they are desperate and/or not giving a chit what they get as long as they get something. Yep, I agree Crystal. It smacks of desperation and that they would accept anything.

Larsi666 😽 Joined Wed 01/31/18 Posts: 17181	Thu 05/07/20 06:49 AM
Or maybe they are just too lazy to fill out the profile properly

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Thu 05/07/20 07:10 AM
Or it simply could mean they are open to any type of Relationship.. As in starting off as just pen pal's which ends up as a activity partner then develops into something more and ends up in marriage.. It use to be you could only select one choice now they have more.. Not a thing wrong with that at all.. At least they are saying they are open to see what happens~~~

ivegotthegirth Joined Fri 08/17/18 Posts: 6666	Thu 05/07/20 08:56 AM
I think that current times dictate adding ____ BYOTP to the sign up questions.

SpaceCodet Joined Sat 07/27/19 Posts: 632	Thu 05/07/20 09:44 AM
Always makes me feel they are desperate and/or not giving a chit what they get as long as they get something. Yep, I agree Crystal. It smacks of desperation and that they would accept anything. Stick with "Woman's Intuition". Lots of weirdo male feminists try to become freinds with women and sezualy assualt them. Contrariwise to the propaganda pushed. A real man will always make his intentions known from the get=go.

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Thu 05/07/20 11:29 AM
Wait! When did pen pal become an option?

moomin Joined Wed 01/01/20 Posts: 7139	Thu 05/07/20 12:32 PM
Wait! When did pen pal become an option? Pen pal is not there as an option for me to select

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14977	Thu 05/07/20 12:51 PM
Anything Would cover all his choices.

Nancy Joined Fri 03/06/20 Posts: 113	Thu 05/07/20 02:07 PM
Wait! When did pen pal become an option? OK my bad. Some other site offers Pen Pal. Which I assume means online messaging, nothing in person. This site offers Friendship and Intimate Encounter.

neoguy251 Joined Mon 03/16/15 Posts: 18	Thu 05/07/20 02:09 PM
Intimate Encounter indicates a lusty point of view!

Bartlomiej Talik Joined Thu 05/07/20 Posts: 11	Thu 05/07/20 03:49 PM
I think people just want to see what happens as they aren't sure which brackets is better to fill in

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Thu 05/07/20 06:17 PM
Wait! When did pen pal become an option? OK my bad. Some other site offers Pen Pal. Which I assume means online messaging, nothing in person. This site offers Friendship and Intimate Encounter. I was teasing. I wish "pen pal" was an option. Or, "Not Looking".

Sandeep Gupta Joined Thu 05/14/20 Posts: 1	Thu 05/14/20 12:57 PM
namber

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10858	Thu 05/14/20 06:01 PM
I've tried to do the friends things with guys. In a short time, they start a sexual thing. I'm out.

maani Joined Mon 08/06/18 Posts: 2	Thu 05/14/20 06:06 PM
soon

maani Joined Mon 08/06/18 Posts: 2	Thu 05/14/20 06:06 PM
hello