So what is your opinion on friends with benefits or f'ck buddies as its sometimes called? Do you think its possible to do that without having some feelings and is it possible to date that person eventually?

Give me some thoughts.

I did it a couple of times, and got attatched both times...

yeah as long as it dont hurt your friendship!!!!!!

another **** buddy thread?
lol
wow you humans truly give into lust

hey its not my fault someone else posted something about this..i just joined.

i don't believe in those kind of things.......

how about a man with "dental"???

in the long run, not possible me thinks

What's hard is that when you find yourself attached to them and they do not feel the same way about you...or that they do not have the time to allow the relationship to develop into something MORE than just.....casual sex.

its fun, but then when u go actually date someone ur fck buddy usually gets hurt.

Tough call , depends on the people involved. Once you've had great sex...its kinda like air. You don't really think much of it unless you're not getting any..then you think about it all the time! We are sexual creatures and its a very natural thing. I would think you would have to at least like the person!

Hey Aims:

Being FWB or "bed buddies" I prefer to call it - can be very difficult. I can't lie. I have one that adore and sometimes, it is so hard to seperate my emotions from the great sex. We don't get together as often as we used to because he began feeling things too and honestly, it became complicated and began to push our "friendship" to some extreme limits. We had started about 6 years ago and decided that our distance and work schedules wouldn't allow for a great relationship and honestly, neither of us were whole heartedly ready for a steady. But the sex was phenomenal so we chose to go down that road and became bed buddies. He is one of my dearest friends to this day and I trust him more than I have long-term boyfriends!! We were talking the other night and and confessed that we care deeply and trust each other deeply and know each other on a level that some couples don't make it to. I guess my bottom line here is...BE CAREFUL!! You can get hurt in a worse way than you can with a fling or a romantic interest. Strange to explain unless you have been there. I am sure there are some men and women that can support that. You have to be in it for the sex without expectations - can you do that?

Good luck with that decision!!

Dreamsurfer

i never done that before and i will not try it

I've yet to ever hear of a good out come from those kind of scenarios. I suggest avoiding it and saving everyone the drama.

It is not a good thing......someone always gets hurt in the end........mostly the friendship...

if their good enough to screw they should be good enough to date.......

no its not your fault
but it is society's lmao

I tried it.married him. BIG MISTAKE.I'll never do that again

it hurts in tha end
cause its
NOT LOVE
IT CALLED LUST LOL

how can one say this is good?
its immoral

hey why not you only live one time