Hey Aims:

Being FWB or "bed buddies" I prefer to call it - can be very difficult. I can't lie. I have one that adore and sometimes, it is so hard to seperate my emotions from the great sex. We don't get together as often as we used to because he began feeling things too and honestly, it became complicated and began to push our "friendship" to some extreme limits. We had started about 6 years ago and decided that our distance and work schedules wouldn't allow for a great relationship and honestly, neither of us were whole heartedly ready for a steady. But the sex was phenomenal so we chose to go down that road and became bed buddies. He is one of my dearest friends to this day and I trust him more than I have long-term boyfriends!! We were talking the other night and and confessed that we care deeply and trust each other deeply and know each other on a level that some couples don't make it to. I guess my bottom line here is...BE CAREFUL!! You can get hurt in a worse way than you can with a fling or a romantic interest. Strange to explain unless you have been there. I am sure there are some men and women that can support that. You have to be in it for the sex without expectations - can you do that?

Good luck with that decision!!

Dreamsurfer