I am African and have only dated within my race even though I am 'colour blind'. I like strong black men, however, I recently started fancying Caucasian men too (well maybe not just recently if you consider my childhood crush was Jean Claude Van damme lol)

The disturbing thing is my few white friends always describe black women as sexy in a manner that suggest to me that we give off sex appeal. Maybe to another black woman this might be a compliment but for me I don't exactly want to be seen as 'sexy' as I am often described. I will like to know what white men here think of African women.

I am a person first then a woman who enjoys intelligent conversations especially the ones that leaves you better informed and is laced with humour. Is it possible for a man to see us as such without those other imaginations?

This is America we are all under one.

...as you may have noticed I'm rather thick alike Mr. Vandamme!

hint-hint

Are your white friends male or female? When a man refers to you as sexy in my culture,they are only after one thing normally. Dictionaries are available to all. A respectful man would only call his girlfriend sexy, not a friend who is a woman.
But I think you already know that.

Black & white, color...

I don't even watch television.

I've only dated one black woman. She was a fantastic lover. There are cultural differences, but nothing that can't be worked through

I see what you mean @Ladywind7... lol. My white friends are men, however I have heard white straight women refer to black girls as sexy because of their thick bodies and full lips.

Like I said before, some women like being described as sexy... not me

For me the nationality or colour matters not a fig. It is the individual that is attractive or not.
So what is meant by sexy anyway? Is it little more than a healthy, fit and well proportioned body or figure?
which isn't in my top 3 tikboxes.

Me either, it is a turn off. My mind is way sexier than my body and if you can capture that, my body would follow

If it works for both, great

And there is a sexiness that black women have that white women don’t

People are people JMO honey if your a Christian man 55 and up your in my league I think if we can pray together
enjoy each others company learn from each other that more important than sexy it is what it is out here I'm into intellectual men not sexy ones JMO Coldersky minus the halo️️

I think human women are amazing in every way! Always intrigued I am.

I actually wish there were blue and green and purple women here on this planet as well...

I do work in the Treme, and beautiful chocolate is everywhere... I get glimpses now and then from great distances, but too busy and too isolated to actually scream hi, which would be creepy anyway. I don't finish till after dark, and I'm the scariest thing in New Orleans, so I keep a lexan wall between me and everyone else.

Being a Djinn, or thing, it's easy to see everyone as a whole group, and enjoy the amazing diversity and wisdom it brings. Keep up the good work

I'll just sit here and drool from the moon. trust me, it's better this way.

Yes true

ok i understand but you try something diffrant prson

one of my ex girlfriends is black, she's totally awesome, but what wasn't awesome was: police following me three times as often, getting followed by department store employees, my previously friendly neighbors ignoring me, crude questions from tons of acquaintances, being stared at in the mall

but it was worth it

and never the hell again will I believe what my parents taught me, that black people complain about racism too much. IMO they don't complain enough

If you care, then you should know that dating and/or marriage outside of your race is a sin!

Hi

Why, because you say it is? How about some proof! We're all the same on the inside. The outside is just window dressing.

hii i m in